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			1. You will receive a body. You may like it or hate it, but it will be yours for the entire period this time around. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	2. You will learn lessons. You are enrolled in a fulltime informal school called life. Each day in this school you will have the opportunity to learn lessons. You may like the lessons or think them irrelevant and stupid. 3. There are no mistakes, only lessons. Growth is a process of trial and error, experimentation. The "failed" experiments are as much a part of the process as the experiment that ultimately "works." 4. A lesson is repeated until learned. A lesson will be presented to you in various forms until you have learned it. When you have learned it, you can go on to the next lesson. 5. Learning lessons does not end. There is no part of life that does not contain its lessons. If you are alive there are lessons to be learned. 6. "There" is no better than "here." When your "there" has become a "here" you will simply obtain another "there" that will again look better than "here." 7. Others are merely mirrors of you. You cannot love or hate something about another person unless it reflects to you something you love or hate about yourself. 8. What you make of your life is up to you. You have all the tools and resources you need. What you do with them is up to you. The choice is yours. 9. Your answers lie inside you. The answer to life's questions lie inside you. All you need to do is look, listen, and trust. 10. This will often be forgotten, only to be remembered again.  | 
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			 Throw your dreams into space like a kite,  for you do not know what it will bring back: a new life, a new friend, a new love, a new country. ~Anaïs Nin 
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			 "Lock up your mind, and unlock your senses first. To everything there 
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			We're here to put a dent in the universe. -Steve Jobs, entrepreneur and inventor (1955-2011) 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
		
		
		
		
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			“We can reside in a place of desperation, panic and fear—or we can literally give ourselves some breathing space. Take in a few deep breaths. Exhale. And focus on what we need instead of what we've been striving to have.” 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
		
		
		
		
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			Happiness is good health and a bad memory. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			I do think the patriotic thing to do is to critique my country. How else do you make a country better but by pointing out its flaws?  ~ Bill Maher
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			We have the Bill of Rights. What we need is a Bill of Responsibilities. ~ Bill Maher  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			We need more people speaking out. This country is not overrun with rebels and free thinkers. It's overrun with sheep and conformists. ~ Bill Maher 
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			Listen to your heart.  It's on your left side, but always right.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Light travels faster then sound. This is why some people appear bright until you hear them speak.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			"Everyone you meet comes with baggage. Find someone who loves you enough to help you unpack."
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			“Forgetting the true nature of the self is what makes human beings subject to timidity, weakness, fear and insecurity.” 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
		
		
		
		
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			Zen is not a particular state but the normal state: silent, peaceful,  unagitated. In Zazen neither intention, analysis, specific effort nor  imagination take place. It's enough just to be without hypocrisy,  dogmatism, arrogance -- embracing all opposites. -Taisen Deshimaru, Zen  teacher (1914-1982) 
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
		
		
		
		
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			When you bring others into your heart, you're able to see beyond your  own ego-centered mind and learn not to take issues so personally. Then  you're also able to be more caring and kind. Ed & Deb Shapiro
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
		
		
		
		
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			If you feel like there's something out there that you're supposed to be doing, if you have a passion for it, then stop wishing and just do it. ~ Wanda Sykes
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			Who knows where inspiration comes from. Perhaps it arises from desperation. Perhaps it comes from the flukes of the universe, the kindness of the muses. ~ Amy Tan
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			You have to decide what your highest priorities are and have the courage - pleasantly, smilingly, nonapologetically - to say 'no' to other things.  And the way to do that is by having a bigger 'yes' burning inside.~Stephen Covey
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			Breathe-in experience, breathe-out poetry. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			"Cool, I love candles. That pie shell looks delish too. Hey, what's with the knife, dude? Wait, Stop. Oh dear god, Please Stop!" – Pumpkins
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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