How do I stop feeling like this?

1QuirkyKiwi · 10-08-2011, 07:13 AM

The process of exploring who you are in terms of your own unique style is very daunting - this is a path that nearly all of us have travelled before we became comfortable within ourselves and in our own style. Those people who make rude comment and give disapproving looks feel unsettled when THEIR perception and belief of what is right FOR THEM is challenged.

We each have our own lives to live and we must live it how we feel is right for ourselves. I'm with Anya and Macele in saying; be gentle with yourself.

I identify as a Femme, yet, I always wear Palazzo trousers. I feel more comfortable in trousers and enjoy the feeling of the loose, wide leg trousers floaty like a skirt as I move. It took me 20 years and a lot of wardrobe changes for me to realise that I can still feel Feminine, be gay and wear trousers.

10-08-2011, 07:13 AM	#4
1QuirkyKiwi Senior Member How Do You Identify?: BBW. Unique femininity that does not encompass the western paradigm. Preferred Pronoun?: Anything Respectful! Relationship Status: Single, Happy, not Desparate or Looking, but Open to Possibilities... Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Europe and Aotearoa on a 5:2 ratio. Posts: 2,308 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,003 Thanked 6,035 Times in 1,617 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	The process of exploring who you are in terms of your own unique style is very daunting - this is a path that nearly all of us have travelled before we became comfortable within ourselves and in our own style. Those people who make rude comment and give disapproving looks feel unsettled when THEIR perception and belief of what is right FOR THEM is challenged. We each have our own lives to live and we must live it how we feel is right for ourselves. I'm with Anya and Macele in saying; be gentle with yourself. I identify as a Femme, yet, I always wear Palazzo trousers. I feel more comfortable in trousers and enjoy the feeling of the loose, wide leg trousers floaty like a skirt as I move. It took me 20 years and a lot of wardrobe changes for me to realise that I can still feel Feminine, be gay and wear trousers. __________________ What will make the difference to me is your strength of character and what's in your heart...