Your Death and Post-Death Preferences

Nurse Darlin · 10-23-2011, 07:56 PM

Today was one of the hardest days in my life. I had to say goodbye to my big brother. Its something you never expect to have to do so young. 7 years ago I burried my son. Unfortunately, they are in seperate cemetaries. I plan to be burried near my son. Something I need. I am an organ donor. If my death can bring life to someone elses brother or mother or child, that's what I want. I have talked to my children who are 14, 11, and 6 about organ donation to ensure they follow through with my wishes. We have also talked about if God forbid, something happened to one of them, I will donate their organs as well. I pray I never live to see another one of my children lowered in the ground. I watched the pain on my parents face today, and I knew what they felt. Maybe this isn't exactly the appropriate thread for my thoughts. I'm all mixed up and my broken heart takes over. I miss my brother. I plan on seeing him again one day.

10-23-2011, 07:56 PM	#29
Nurse Darlin Member How Do You Identify?: Femme-agressive at times Preferred Pronoun?: she/her/babygirl Relationship Status: Never been more in love with my Sugarbear! Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: West Virginia Posts: 148 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 278 Thanked 477 Times in 87 Posts Rep Power: 4732369	Today was one of the hardest days in my life. I had to say goodbye to my big brother. Its something you never expect to have to do so young. 7 years ago I burried my son. Unfortunately, they are in seperate cemetaries. I plan to be burried near my son. Something I need. I am an organ donor. If my death can bring life to someone elses brother or mother or child, that's what I want. I have talked to my children who are 14, 11, and 6 about organ donation to ensure they follow through with my wishes. We have also talked about if God forbid, something happened to one of them, I will donate their organs as well. I pray I never live to see another one of my children lowered in the ground. I watched the pain on my parents face today, and I knew what they felt. Maybe this isn't exactly the appropriate thread for my thoughts. I'm all mixed up and my broken heart takes over. I miss my brother. I plan on seeing him again one day. __________________ Forever is not a word, but rather a place where two lovers go when true love takes them there I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best. - Marilyn Monroe