How did you find ButchFemmePlanet ??? - Page 9

Quintease · 06-22-2011, 11:01 AM

It was mentioned on FB. I'd never heard of it so came to have a look.

*Anya* · 06-22-2011, 12:47 PM

My ex and I used to get a newsletter from the Butch-Femme Network in the 80's or 90's in the LA area & I wondered if they were still in existence. Lo & behold- I found the Planet instead!

BullDog · 06-22-2011, 03:49 PM

Medusa invited me. Yep it's all her fault.

TxBelle · 06-22-2011, 03:52 PM

I think Ashton told me. I went to the other one and no one was there.

Jar · 06-23-2011, 06:49 AM

I went to the "other" site and wondered where all my friends had gone

Wolfy said they were here

luv2luvgirls · 06-23-2011, 08:19 AM

was using a search..but seen it on a someones FB so here I am.

ScandalAndy · 06-23-2011, 08:45 AM

I was a member years ago (so long ago I can't even remember what email/login i used), and stumbled across the fb group recently. Thought I'd check it out again!

LaneyDoll · 06-23-2011, 10:20 AM

I found it because of FetLife. I am part of a few butch/femme groups there. One day, I was reading a thread and someone mentioned that this site was good for learning more. So, I followed their advice. A little while later, I told them "thank you" for sharing the info with us all. In a short period, I have met some amazing people, read a huge variety of interesting thoughts and learned A LOT!!!

Next to FL, this is my fave site to visit and immerse myself in.

And please don't think second is bad-lol. I "work" for FL so I think that in this case, second is pretty great.

Arwen · 06-24-2011, 12:00 AM

I really love hearing how you found the Planet. Thanks for sharing.

chefhottie25 · 06-24-2011, 12:02 AM

a really good friend, who is on the site, told me about it.

girl_dee · 10-31-2011, 12:15 PM

Great day to bump this thread!

ruby_woo · 10-31-2011, 12:26 PM

Um...not sure, haha. I think friends of mine from the old site were talking about it on Facebook? I created a log-in, introduced myself, and didn't come back for almost 2 years. My user name from the old site (Andrea) was already taken, so I just used my old livejournal user name instead.

clay · 10-31-2011, 12:41 PM

Someone I dated earlier this year had mentioned being on the BF dating site...and after we stopped seeing one another, I found the dash site...and not long after..it "disappeared"..came back up, and disappeared again..so I googled butch femme..VOILA! I found the Planet..joined immediately..and have been a permanent resident of the Planet since early May 2011..and I never looked back..I am HOME here...it rocking fits me..well...and I LOVE it here...smiles...so I am planning to retire and live my golden years out here...going to have to be "evicted" to leave....smiles...

1QuirkyKiwi · 10-31-2011, 12:48 PM

I found it through a BF dating site - I've been hanging about on here, showing everyone what I've got......well, you know......err, my personality and stuff, almost daily, lol!

SugarFemme · 10-31-2011, 01:23 PM

Welllll....I was on the 405 freeway and made a wrong turn LOL

*Anya* · 10-31-2011, 01:29 PM

I simply Googled "butch-femme" and up it popped.

I had also noticed it on Wiki when I searched for butch-femme. It is on the list of external links.

untangle · 10-31-2011, 02:15 PM

I found BFP accidentally. I was a bit..(okay, a lot) bored and googling those silly quizzes you can take..I believe the one I was linked to was the left/right brain quiz.

I don't even remember my results for that one, lol.

Lady Pamela · 10-31-2011, 03:04 PM

Simple..DAYWALKER AND LADYFLAMEZZ told me about the site..btw Ty for that.

nekohl · 10-31-2011, 03:54 PM

A Nice Guy told me in about this place.
I don't post much but I do enjoy the conversations

macele · 10-31-2011, 04:08 PM

believe it or not, i don't have a facebook. never will lol. but i do love to play on pogo games. i rarely chat, but do read chat from time to time. i don't recall the folks chatting about this site, wish i did ... i could say thank you.

so there you go, pogo lol.

06-22-2011, 11:01 AM	#161
Quintease Member How Do You Identify?: Rainbow femme Preferred Pronoun?: princess Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: United Kingdom Posts: 514 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 508 Thanked 1,817 Times in 417 Posts Rep Power: 10560327	It was mentioned on FB. I'd never heard of it so came to have a look. __________________ It is not worth an intelligent person's time to be in the majority. By definition, there are already enough people to do that.

06-22-2011, 12:47 PM	#162
Anya Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Lesbian non-stone femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her Relationship Status: Committed to being good to myself Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: West Coast Posts: 8,258 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 39,306 Thanked 40,459 Times in 7,283 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	I just typed "Butch Femme" in search engine! My ex and I used to get a newsletter from the Butch-Femme Network in the 80's or 90's in the LA area & I wondered if they were still in existence. Lo & behold- I found the Planet instead!

06-22-2011, 03:49 PM	#163
BullDog Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Dominant Stone Butch Daddy Preferred Pronoun?: She Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: In A Healing Place Posts: 5,371 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 18,160 Thanked 22,666 Times in 4,464 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Medusa invited me. Yep it's all her fault. __________________ Love consists in this, that two solitudes protect and touch and greet each other. - Rainer Maria Rilke

06-23-2011, 06:49 AM	#165
Jar Member How Do You Identify?: TG Butch Preferred Pronoun?: He, him, da bomb... Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Up and to the right Posts: 610 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 869 Thanked 2,341 Times in 534 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I went to the "other" site and wondered where all my friends had gone Wolfy said they were here __________________ *~ Jar ~* No matter what life brings you, always learn a lesson from your dog ... kick some grass over that shit and move on

06-23-2011, 08:45 AM	#167
ScandalAndy Member How Do You Identify?: human femme spitfire Preferred Pronoun?: she/her Relationship Status: it's official! Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: east coast USA Posts: 1,167 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,758 Thanked 3,217 Times in 753 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I was a member years ago (so long ago I can't even remember what email/login i used), and stumbled across the fb group recently. Thought I'd check it out again! __________________ The joy of discovery is certainly the liveliest that the mind of man can ever feel. - Claude Bernard (1813-78)

06-22-2011, 03:52 PM	#164
TxBelle Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: she, her, etc Relationship Status: single Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: Based in Austin area, TX. I travel a lot. Posts: 298 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 85 Thanked 133 Times in 45 Posts Rep Power: 197685	I think Ashton told me. I went to the other one and no one was there.

06-23-2011, 08:19 AM	#166
luv2luvgirls Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Asshole Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Kentucky/Austin/Wherever Posts: 2,310 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,387 Thanked 5,470 Times in 1,827 Posts Rep Power: 0	was using a search..but seen it on a someones FB so here I am.

06-23-2011, 10:20 AM	#168
LaneyDoll Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Girly girl femme Preferred Pronoun?: She; Ma'am; Miss ;) Relationship Status: Pitbull protected. Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Birmingham, AL Posts: 2,204 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,892 Thanked 7,683 Times in 1,607 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	I found it because of FetLife. I am part of a few butch/femme groups there. One day, I was reading a thread and someone mentioned that this site was good for learning more. So, I followed their advice. A little while later, I told them "thank you" for sharing the info with us all. In a short period, I have met some amazing people, read a huge variety of interesting thoughts and learned A LOT!!! Next to FL, this is my fave site to visit and immerse myself in. And please don't think second is bad-lol. I "work" for FL so I think that in this case, second is pretty great. __________________ There are beauties who stop traffic and then there are beauties who grow obsessively in the hearts of the susceptible.

06-24-2011, 12:00 AM	#169
Arwen Joy Seeker How Do You Identify?: Smartly-Flavored Preferred Pronoun?: Goddess Relationship Status: Mrs. Syzygy 1/9/14 Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Joyville, NM (aka Land of Enchantment) Posts: 10,140 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,636 Thanked 28,119 Times in 6,414 Posts Rep Power: 21474862	I really love hearing how you found the Planet. Thanks for sharing. __________________ I wrote a book, y'all! *FREE* Tarotscopes Seek Joy, y'all. Eschew hate. 9Words: A Poetry Challenge \| Do you like me?

06-24-2011, 12:02 AM	#170
chefhottie25 Member How Do You Identify?: boi Preferred Pronoun?: hy Relationship Status: happily taken Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: ohio Posts: 1,406 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 26 Thanked 889 Times in 478 Posts Rep Power: 1175217	a really good friend, who is on the site, told me about it.

10-31-2011, 12:15 PM	#171
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,833 Times in 13,908 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	Great day to bump this thread!

10-31-2011, 12:26 PM	#172
ruby_woo Member How Do You Identify?: queer femme Preferred Pronoun?: her/she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Vancouver, BC Posts: 427 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,848 Thanked 1,941 Times in 376 Posts Rep Power: 17615392	Um...not sure, haha. I think friends of mine from the old site were talking about it on Facebook? I created a log-in, introduced myself, and didn't come back for almost 2 years. My user name from the old site (Andrea) was already taken, so I just used my old livejournal user name instead.

10-31-2011, 12:41 PM	#173
clay Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Butch (Silver Fox) Dom Daddi Preferred Pronoun?: 50 Shades of Clay Darker & Deeper Relationship Status: married to my forever Join Date: May 2011 Location: salt air & sandy beaches Posts: 13,136 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 97,020 Thanked 31,675 Times in 7,748 Posts Rep Power: 21474864	Someone I dated earlier this year had mentioned being on the BF dating site...and after we stopped seeing one another, I found the dash site...and not long after..it "disappeared"..came back up, and disappeared again..so I googled butch femme..VOILA! I found the Planet..joined immediately..and have been a permanent resident of the Planet since early May 2011..and I never looked back..I am HOME here...it rocking fits me..well...and I LOVE it here...smiles...so I am planning to retire and live my golden years out here...going to have to be "evicted" to leave....smiles... __________________ To find someone who will love you for no reason, and to shower that person with reasons, that is the ultimate happiness. ~Robert Brault

10-31-2011, 12:48 PM	#174
1QuirkyKiwi Senior Member How Do You Identify?: BBW. Unique femininity that does not encompass the western paradigm. Preferred Pronoun?: Anything Respectful! Relationship Status: Single, Happy, not Desparate or Looking, but Open to Possibilities... Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Europe and Aotearoa on a 5:2 ratio. Posts: 2,308 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,003 Thanked 6,035 Times in 1,617 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I found it through a BF dating site - I've been hanging about on here, showing everyone what I've got......well, you know......err, my personality and stuff, almost daily, lol! __________________ What will make the difference to me is your strength of character and what's in your heart...

10-31-2011, 01:23 PM	#175
SugarFemme Member How Do You Identify?: Fierce Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Singular Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: Southwest Posts: 1,029 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 650 Thanked 4,460 Times in 854 Posts Rep Power*: 21474851	Welllll....I was on the 405 freeway and made a wrong turn LOL

10-31-2011, 01:29 PM	#176
Anya Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Lesbian non-stone femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her Relationship Status: Committed to being good to myself Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: West Coast Posts: 8,258 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 39,306 Thanked 40,459 Times in 7,283 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	I simply Googled "butch-femme" and up it popped. I had also noticed it on Wiki when I searched for butch-femme. It is on the list of external links. __________________ ~Anya~ Democracy Dies in Darkness ~Washington Post "...I'm deeply concerned by recently adopted policies which punish children for their parents’ actions ... The thought that any State would seek to deter parents by inflicting such abuse on children is unconscionable." UN Human Rights commissioner

10-31-2011, 02:15 PM	#177
untangle Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Queer Preferred Pronoun?: whatever works Relationship Status: single Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: Arizona Posts: 14 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 34 Thanked 48 Times in 12 Posts Rep Power: 918101	I found BFP accidentally. I was a bit..(okay, a lot) bored and googling those silly quizzes you can take..I believe the one I was linked to was the left/right brain quiz. I don't even remember my results for that one, lol.

10-31-2011, 03:04 PM	#178
Lady Pamela Senior Member How Do You Identify?: A Lady..Femme..Free Spirit with a touch of survivalist woman in me. Preferred Pronoun?: Spiritual Warrior..She Ra..Baby Doll, or anything close..ha! Relationship Status: In perfect love and perfect trust I believe that will be directed..for now Just friends in my life. Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Live in Utah but take trips to Arkansas. Plan to move there eventually. Posts: 2,579 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,073 Thanked 5,940 Times in 1,609 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Simple..DAYWALKER AND LADYFLAMEZZ told me about the site..btw Ty for that. __________________ Believe what people show you the first time. It will keep you in balance, and will show you truth! ~~ Author unknown ~~ When negative thoughts come to mind, Let them die stillborn. Speak and do posotive in any situation, And watch your dreams grow and flurish. If you can't say anything posotive, Zip it up. Do not give birth to that which you do not want to see grow. See it, Believe it, Own it, Have it! ~~ Lady Pamela ~~

10-31-2011, 03:54 PM	#179
nekohl Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: . Relationship Status: . Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Gone Posts: 446 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 632 Thanked 2,162 Times in 382 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	A Nice Guy told me in about this place. I don't post much but I do enjoy the conversations __________________

10-31-2011, 04:08 PM	#180
macele Member How Do You Identify?: a bold-assed maximus Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: mississippi Posts: 1,066 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,178 Thanked 3,231 Times in 847 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	believe it or not, i don't have a facebook. never will lol. but i do love to play on pogo games. i rarely chat, but do read chat from time to time. i don't recall the folks chatting about this site, wish i did ... i could say thank you. so there you go, pogo lol.