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I am with the gray area responses. It depends. A lot of situations have to stay this way...for awhile...but just...for awhile.
But, an additional thought to think about: Make sure that you are not a rebound. Make really sure enough time has passed since that relationship ended and she has grieved. Ask her about it. It is an important piece to the breaking up process with a close ex in any situation, especially one where they still live together. She may be hurt and needing someone. Doesn't mean a relationship right now is a great idea. Try to just be there as a friend first, especially if this is a new breakup. Lots of good advice here..Red Flags, gut feelings, acting strange on the phone with you when the ex is around...and proper time to have grieved the past relationship. ..i hope you come back and post and let us know how it is going.
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I had a couple really bad experiences with partners with exes around. NO THANK YOU. That will never happen again to me, no matter what an angel an ex might be. I dont have it in me.
But this is about you. You say you dont want to lose her. Well, that tells me she is seen as "property". From one person to the next, possession seems to be the key here in your statement. A gal isnt a possession...a gift, yes, but not a possession. If she is yours, she is yours. It wouldnt matter if Mother Theresa lived with her or Cassonova. can you see the difference....?
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Excellent advice pink princess. I could not have said it better myself. |
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