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11-23-2011, 01:53 PM
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I came in here today because the grief is welling up again and I find it nearly impossible to contain...yet reading some of the other posts, I am reminded how very lucky I was to have had my loved ones as long as I did.
Dean, I am firm in my belief of God....but the first person who said my loved ones were better off with the Lord got a pretty good tongue lashing from me regarding insensitive comments. I realize they just don't know what to say and the first stupid thing pops out, but seriously, they are better off dead and with the Lord???? I am so very sorry for the loss of your children. 
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11-23-2011, 02:36 PM
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today is the 8th anniversary of my mom passing.. im missing her so much this year... love you mom
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I am sorry I missed your post a few days ago. I hope the wave of sadness has receded a little. It is so hard to lose your Mom. Sending you light and strength, Keri |
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04-10-2012, 07:54 AM
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Boys to Men...One sweet day
"One Sweet Day"
Sorry I never told you All I wanted to say And now it's too late to hold you 'Cause you've flown away So far away Never had I imagined Living without your smile Feeling and knowing you hear me It keeps me alive Alive [Chorus:] And I know you're shining down on me from heaven Like so many friends we've lost along the way And I know eventually we'll be together One sweet day Momma I never showed you Assumed you'd always be there I took your presence for granted But I always cared And I miss the love we shared [Chorus] Although the sun will never shine the same again I'll always look to a brighter day Lord I know when I lay me down to sleep You will always listen as I pray [Chorus] Sorry I never told you All I wanted to say |
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04-14-2012, 05:40 PM
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Andrew, I'm so sorry for your loss of your sister. I wish I could say it gets better with time but I don't think it does; I think we just learn to integrate the loss into our sense of self, and it becomes part of us, in way that expands who we are. Which in the end is a good thing. Take care of yourself. IslandScout
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07-30-2012, 01:09 PM
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What can I say.............
I am on my way to the cemetary where my mom is buried. It is a year today that she lost the fight with her kidneys and that nasty C word. Has it really been a year? It feels like only yesterday that I was heading off somewhere with her to shop, eat, talk. There are so many things I didn't tell her, so many times she wanted to have private time with me so she could reveal some of her hopes, dreams, alleged failures and wonderful successes. She was kind hearted yet had a sharp tongue. We are of British heritage, maybe that is why. lol I miss her, I love her, I am thankful that I had her for a mother. And I apologize for all the times she waited patiently for me to come to visit, and I had something "more important" to do.
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09-08-2012, 09:08 AM
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My mom
Just having a difficult time with grieving.The four year anniversary of her death is fast approaching-and damn it-I miss my mom immensely!
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09-22-2012, 06:52 PM
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Thank-You Ms Tinkerbelly for this poem. My beloved sweet kind and good #1 cat son Scott Fitz got murdered by a loose pit bull today, and I could'nt find the words...
Sorry I never told you All I wanted to say And now it's too late to hold you 'Cause you've flown away So far away Never had I imagined Living without your smile Feeling and knowing you hear me It keeps me alive Alive [Chorus:] And I know you're shining down on me from heaven Like so many friends we've lost along the way And I know eventually we'll be together One sweet day Momma I never showed you Assumed you'd always be there I took your presence for granted But I always cared And I miss the love we shared [Chorus] Although the sun will never shine the same again I'll always look to a brighter day Lord I know when I lay me down to sleep You will always listen as I pray [Chorus] Sorry I never told you All I wanted to say[/QUOTE] |
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10-03-2012, 05:25 PM
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A year ago today..
A year ago today, my family and I returned my Mother to the earth she so loved! It was her final wish that she return to the land that so blessed her with all that is good and kind! She is now walking in the Garden with her God and holding the simple gifts of life in her kind and gentle hands.
Today we rejoice in the nourishment that she gave to all of us! Ks- |
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My mom died over 32 years ago, when i was 19.
For no particular reason, i miss her terribly today. I want to lay my head on her lap so she'll play with my hair like i remember. I dream about her a lot lately, and in my dreams she is old and frail - like she looked when she was dying, even though she was only 60. I was taking care of her, unlike i was able to do when she was dying because of lack of resources at my young age. I'm 51 now, but i don't care how this sounds: I want my mommy. |
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When my Mom died many years ago, the priest who gave her last rights said. "Your mother was a good woman. Her time in Purgatory should be short." I wanted to choke him, I wanted to slap him (really hard!) Somehow I managed to remain silent. I knew he was not educable on this subject, and I had more important things to do. But to this day his words ring in my ears. People do say stupid things. I am sorry you had to hear these stupid comments, which I am sure were repeated to you more than once. Sending you (((hugs.))) Smooches, Keri |
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