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12-24-2011, 09:26 AM
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GPS - If I could find FTMs I would be in better shape lol - I have looked and most are taken or are not interested
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12-24-2011, 09:36 AM
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I'm attracted to women, and I find women who identify as femmes, to be the kind which I am most compatible with.
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12-24-2011, 09:39 AM
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Well, since this site is primarily focused, though not exclusively (because it is INclusive!!
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12-24-2011, 09:55 AM
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I'm trans and I'm only attracted to femmes. The girlier the better.
 Hi.....and welcome to the Planet. Where are you from in Florida? It's beautiful down there. |
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12-24-2011, 05:49 PM
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12-24-2011, 06:12 PM
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Trans here and I Adore all femmes. <3
For those femmes that can't seem to find a ftm, Trans, or Butch interested in them, I think you finally came to the right place !
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12-24-2011, 06:45 PM
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hey ~Bo I am on the east coast and it is beautiful in FL but right now in my opinion it is way to hot for it to be Christmas!! I would like some 60 degree weather about now!
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01-10-2012, 05:32 PM
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I'm not sure it has ever occurred to me to date a butch or ftm I've always been into femmes.
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01-11-2012, 01:43 AM
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High femme doesn't necessarily mean high maintenance. I keep myself high-femmified on my own with no assistance from my partner. I would never ask my partner to do my hair and makeup etc because I am self sufficient. And because that would be a disaster.
I really don't like the term high maintenance at all. I think it makes women question themselves and their needs which are usually perfectly reasonable. I love and respect my partners. And I'll only date someone who who loves and respects me. In my world that includes emotional maturity, communication skills and chivalry. I certainly hope that wouldn't earn me the "high maintenance" label. And I'd never expect my partner to pay my way or buy me expensive things. In fact, that would (and does) make me really uncomfortable. My favorite Valentines day my partner and I were both underemployed and broke. I did the laundry in the morning after he'd gone to work and spelled out I love you in sweatsocks on the bed. He made a chicken and rice dinner that night and cut canned cranberry sauce rounds into hearts. We couldn't be fancy but we could still be good to each other. |
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01-11-2012, 01:50 AM
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And I thought the alternative to high femme was femme. Or vice versa. I've never heard anyone self-identify as low femme. Am I wrong? Are there self identified low femmes out there?
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05-05-2012, 02:10 PM
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I am an FTM/Stone....if one has to be in a box that's where I'd stand.
Personally I am highly attracted to the Femme energy, but that's just me. We're all entitled to love who we want to love for crying out loud. The trick is to stop lying to ourselves, get out there on that dance floor and live. Gender is a fluid thing...there are genders within genders, if you want to split hairs. To say one thing is wrong is to not understand the very nature of what gender identification and expression are all about. It's highly personal...very individualistic....customized, if you will, to each person. Just because I am deeply attracted to Femmes doesn't mean that's the only way for others to live. Heck no. Let's celebrate love, not limits. Great forum, great Planet. Thanks for being here! |
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05-05-2012, 02:41 PM
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im single..... i never dated someone whom is FTM..
have had relationships and some dates whom id as stone.. im not even sure if Im even femme enough for some.. i mean i am a lady/girl/femme even though my job is not very lady like.. but i do see a lot of very femine women out there whom drive them big rigs. im just a girl next door kinda girl. some say i just hadnt met the right one yet......... well crap im 57 already. im not holding my breath. i am lonely .. but i know im not desperate either. maybe im doing something wrong. anyways............. this is a interesting thread. will subscribe........ annnnd guess i need to get to work... have a awsome day/ weekend , everyone.
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05-15-2012, 09:45 AM
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Don't give up!
You're plenty feminine! Don't you dare think otherwise! Driving a truck, far out! Nothing wrong with that! Hell! Turns me right the heck on! I like it when people are who they want to be, regardless of stereotyping and labeling. There is someone out there for you. Hang in there. Love's a funny thing, it sneaks up on you lots of times right after you've given up...then WHAMMO! So don't worry...love is coming. You don't have to change a thing...just be there for it. You're perfect, just the way you are. |
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11-21-2016, 08:31 PM
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OK, I'm a trans-guy that is only attracted to femme women.
all that I can say is it must be in my DNA.... I'm not attracted at all to butches, too manly for me in whatever way....
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12-04-2016, 09:56 PM
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Hi to all, For me I'm only attracted to femme women...I don't know why, I just say it must be in my DNA...
 They look so sexy and are so hot.. 
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02-14-2017, 11:48 PM
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I have also experienced the "youre too femme" treatment... and it has left me scratching my head. It also seems that guys are really intimidated by me and my ultra femmeness, either that, or all the glitter.
But seriously... I'm approachable! Talk to me! I'm starting to get a complex. |
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