What have you learned?

msW8ing · 12-29-2011, 12:04 PM

WIHL...no matter how old my kids get..no matter how successful they are in their jobs and lives they will always need/want my guidance and help. And no matter what I will always be there for them. A mothers/grandmothers unconditional love.

Julien · 12-29-2011, 01:47 PM

I've learned nothing is set in stone and changes do occur. We must learn to roll with it no matter how bumpy it gets.
I also learned I do have true friends for which I am very lucky.

1ladyface · 12-30-2011, 07:01 PM

I've learned that honoring my need for quiet alone time makes me a better human when I do interact with others.

spritzerJ · 12-30-2011, 07:07 PM

I am putting this out there in all honesty... I have learned I will make some dumb/impulsive/seemed like a very good idea at the time mistakes and I may just have to limit to which areas of my life I make them. Right now I am pondering if.... maybe just maybe I could limit them to errors in judgement to involving sex. With safer sex practices in mind, I maybe I can afford to be a bit loosey goosey. I'd rather make better choices financially, at work, with my parenting and health. Save the stupid shit for sex.

I am just saying...

tazz · 12-30-2011, 07:35 PM

when i put my mind to something... i do it. i have failed at many attempts in my life... however, when i dust myself off i take another look at things from a different perspective.

i have 3 goals for 2012, #1 is passing the exam to earn my personal training certificate. i am confident with my studies; i know i need to step it up; do some online testing; then some hands on practicals.

i Can and will do this!

greeneyedgrrl · 12-30-2011, 07:43 PM

i have learned that expectations are premeditated resentments.. and that when i can keep myself from getting wrapped up in them, i am MUCH muchier happier.

greeneyedgrrl · 12-30-2011, 07:45 PM

i have learned it's a really bad idea to look at clothes when i'm sposed to be shopping for shoes.

greeneyedgrrl · 12-30-2011, 10:15 PM

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Originally Posted by greeneyedgrrl

i have learned that expectations are premeditated resentments.. and that when i can keep myself from getting wrapped up in them, i am MUCH muchier happier.

...and i'm less likely to be disappointed. it's a win-win... now if i could just remember to do it....

12-29-2011, 01:47 PM	#2
Julien Member How Do You Identify?: TG/GenderQueer Preferred Pronoun?: I'm flexible, but only up to a point. Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Alabama, Gulf Coast area Posts: 1,007 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,247 Thanked 2,702 Times in 737 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	I've learned nothing is set in stone and changes do occur. We must learn to roll with it no matter how bumpy it gets. I also learned I do have true friends for which I am very lucky. __________________ Julien “Self-plagiarism is style.” Alfred Hitchcock Formerly known as Graphiteta2s

12-30-2011, 07:01 PM	#3
1ladyface Junior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: loved and loving Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: SF Posts: 86 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 65 Thanked 279 Times in 66 Posts Rep Power: 3368880	I've learned that honoring my need for quiet alone time makes me a better human when I do interact with others. __________________ xoxo -ladyface http://www.1ladyface.blogspot.com

12-30-2011, 07:35 PM	#5
tazz Member How Do You Identify?: Athlete/tomboi Preferred Pronoun?: she, her, cutie Relationship Status: Estoy recibiendo cómodo con él Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: you never know where i might end up ;) Posts: 1,365 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,807 Thanked 1,759 Times in 642 Posts Rep Power: 20456639	when i put my mind to something... i do it. i have failed at many attempts in my life... however, when i dust myself off i take another look at things from a different perspective. i have 3 goals for 2012, #1 is passing the exam to earn my personal training certificate. i am confident with my studies; i know i need to step it up; do some online testing; then some hands on practicals. i Can and will do this! __________________ "She walks a different path than some of us, but those on her wavelength enjoy the journey with her." --DLOS

12-29-2011, 12:04 PM	#1
msW8ing Member How Do You Identify?: multi-faceted gem, femme, submissive babygirl if the chemistry is there. Preferred Pronoun?: lady Relationship Status: working on myself Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Lewiston, Idaho Posts: 920 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,700 Thanked 2,497 Times in 654 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	WIHL...no matter how old my kids get..no matter how successful they are in their jobs and lives they will always need/want my guidance and help. And no matter what I will always be there for them. A mothers/grandmothers unconditional love. __________________ *Don't judge me by my past..I don't live there anymore* A lady who knows the ropes..will never be bound. ~Mae West

12-30-2011, 07:07 PM	#4
spritzerJ Timed Out - Permanent How Do You Identify?: Queer (gender), female (biological marker) Preferred Pronoun?: she will work as a default. Relationship Status: engaged to jac until 8/10/14 Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: Maine Posts: 3,154 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,307 Thanked 15,802 Times in 2,905 Posts Rep Power: 0	I am putting this out there in all honesty... I have learned I will make some dumb/impulsive/seemed like a very good idea at the time mistakes and I may just have to limit to which areas of my life I make them. Right now I am pondering if.... maybe just maybe I could limit them to errors in judgement to involving sex. With safer sex practices in mind, I maybe I can afford to be a bit loosey goosey. I'd rather make better choices financially, at work, with my parenting and health. Save the stupid shit for sex. I am just saying...

12-30-2011, 07:43 PM	#6
greeneyedgrrl Member How Do You Identify?: femme/queer Preferred Pronoun?: she/her Join Date: May 2011 Location: cali Posts: 1,484 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 7,932 Thanked 3,266 Times in 835 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	i have learned that expectations are premeditated resentments.. and that when i can keep myself from getting wrapped up in them, i am MUCH muchier happier.

12-30-2011, 07:45 PM	#7
greeneyedgrrl Member How Do You Identify?: femme/queer Preferred Pronoun?: she/her Join Date: May 2011 Location: cali Posts: 1,484 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 7,932 Thanked 3,266 Times in 835 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	i have learned it's a really bad idea to look at clothes when i'm sposed to be shopping for shoes.