What pissed you off today?

Mtn · 01-10-2012, 12:33 AM

My girl dealing with HATEFUL crap today. I haven't been that angry in a LONG time. Probably a good thing I wasn't down the block in this situation.

Princess · 01-10-2012, 12:50 AM

Honestly I know this sounds silly, but this morning I went grocery shopping. The cashier put some deli meat and cheese into a bag and then proceeded to put a package of raw chicken on top of it. HELLO, cross contamination! One of my biggest pet peeves is when cashiers do this, I asked him politely not to and I even pulled the chicken out myself, and he proceeded to do it AGAIN. Why? That's all I wanna know. Am I the only one with this problem? UGH!

smouldering · 01-10-2012, 08:14 AM

People who have no compassion or respect for others and think nothing about using others or causing unnecessary drama.

Karma, its whats for dinner for quite a few people.

BullRider_Dillon · 01-10-2012, 12:10 PM

Something that will always anger and confuse me is people who run roughshod over an honerable and decent man they claim to love and want to spend their life with and when they get a tiny taste of their own disgusting behaviour actually have the nerve to question the natural law of karma and wallow, cry wolf, and woe is me.Time to sheath your claws careless cat.

King James Version (KJV)

7Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap.

8For he that soweth to his flesh shall of the flesh reap corruption; but he that soweth to the Spirit shall of the Spirit reap life everlasting.

girl_dee · 01-10-2012, 12:39 PM

All of the excuses by the LSU coach who should be FIRED!

Cid · 01-10-2012, 03:37 PM

Bosses who tell you to work faster (even when you're doing the best you can do) and then go sit at their desk and talk on the phone or read emails at their desk. Man that burns me up!!

ruby_woo · 01-10-2012, 04:07 PM

My whole office is pissing me off today. I'm sick of fighting with people over meeting rooms that I booked and they didn't. I'm sick of people who never respond to emails or voice mails and I have to physically chase them in between my non-stop phone calls- if you're too busy and not ready to start recruiting a new employee, don't come ask me to start the recruit and then go MIA. That's so unprofessional.

I need a vacation.

Rockinonahigh · 01-10-2012, 06:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Cajun_dee

All of the excuses by the LSU coach who should be FIRED!

I agree the LSU coach made some really bad choices last night I know he will be hearing about it for a loooooonnnnngggg time.
But,I am glad he was such a nit whit cause I won a bunch of moola on the game playing a beting pool.

tonaderspeisung · 01-11-2012, 06:57 PM

a co worker infected me with this ear worm and it won't stop

Kelsfemme · 01-31-2012, 10:03 PM

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Admin · 01-31-2012, 10:17 PM

KelsFemme-

June JUST moderated this thread for an ugly post so I am kinda agog that you immediately came in here and posted something ugly.

I am going to give you the benefit of the doubt and not time you out for what you just posted since you have never been in trouble here but I want you to review the part of our Terms of Service where we ask folks to leave their personal drama and ugly posts off of the site.

Don't use this or any other thread to poke, jab, or otherwise post things that will spread drama across the site.

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Admin · 01-31-2012, 10:26 PM

All -

The Mod team is at their limit for people using these threads as their personal drama toilets and we will not be issuing any more warnings about posts that most people would KNOW are ugly.

Any further posts that poke at an ex, stir drama, or are just plain hateful or ugly will receive an immediate time-out.

We have had an inordinate amount of reported posts and crazy bullshit in the last week so if you find yourself feeling ugly, it would be best for you to log out and take a walk rather than test the boundaries of moderation here.

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Rockinonahigh · 01-10-2012, 06:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Princess

Honestly I know this sounds silly, but this morning I went grocery shopping. The cashier put some deli meat and cheese into a bag and then proceeded to put a package of raw chicken on top of it. HELLO, cross contamination! One of my biggest pet peeves is when cashiers do this, I asked him politely not to and I even pulled the chicken out myself, and he proceeded to do it AGAIN. Why? That's all I wanna know. Am I the only one with this problem? UGH!

No u r not the only one with this problem,I have had to educate a cashire a time ot two about this so now I shop when ever possable when one of them is on duity.If nither are there I will make shure the meat is bagged correctly.

Vlasta · 01-17-2012, 09:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Princess

Honestly I know this sounds silly, but this morning I went grocery shopping. The cashier put some deli meat and cheese into a bag and then proceeded to put a package of raw chicken on top of it. HELLO, cross contamination! One of my biggest pet peeves is when cashiers do this, I asked him politely not to and I even pulled the chicken out myself, and he proceeded to do it AGAIN. Why? That's all I wanna know. Am I the only one with this problem? UGH!

No! absolutely you are not silly and its sad that people in these days and in this economy even have a job not appreciate it the employment . I understand this it's not maybe job they were educated for it , but it's a job . It better than not a thing . I also , understand some are bitter about it . I most be likely be too to go flip the hamburgers like a kid in a High School .

I was lucky so far not run in this type of situation , but if I would , I would kindly say something

Kenna · 01-17-2012, 09:42 PM

Every morning or after every bath I get pissed and upset lately at loosing so much hair ... by the handful ... wondering why I'm not bald yet? It brings flash backs to when mom lost her's due to chemo. Lupus and other health issues piss me off. So limiting.

Vlasta · 01-17-2012, 10:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Sweet

Every morning or after every bath I get pissed and upset lately at loosing so much hair ... by the handful ... wondering why I'm not bald yet? It brings flash backs to when mom lost her's due to chemo. Lupus and other health issues piss me off. So limiting.

I am sorry , but I am in the same situation . Never in my life I was loosing my hair , Now, for the past three months , I think due to the stress, I just get out of the shower and I am pulling handful hair out of my head . It almost feels like I am on a round of chemotherapy .

My life has been in turmoil and I didn't have a time to make appointment with a MD . I never specialized in Dermatology so I am not as educated about conditions . I know a basic things , but that about it .

I am hoping when my situation resolve , I will make an appointment and I will see what is going on . Good luck to you , take care yourself . You are important

Random · 01-18-2012, 01:57 AM

I had semi sweet choc morsals in the pantry...
Now I don't...

hmmmmm

So much for choc dipped choc haznut sandwich cookies..

Honey · 01-18-2012, 03:10 AM

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Originally Posted by Random

I had semi sweet choc morsals in the pantry...
Now I don't...

hmmmmm

So much for choc dipped choc haznut sandwich cookies..

No Cookies ?!! F**k !! now Im pissed off !!!! Wheres ma girl Smouldering...She bakes !!

Gráinne · 01-18-2012, 07:27 PM

I think the events of the last few days prove I should just shut up, because people make no damn sense.

Some background, to make a long story even longer: My daughter (13) is good friends with a fifth-grade girl who lives in the next building, "Hannah". Hannah has a 3rd grade brother who is friends with my son (11). They live with their father.

Downstairs from us is our neighbor, his oldest daughter, OD's two children, OD's boyfriend, neighbor's younger daughter (who goes to school with my daughter), and the boyfriend's younger brother. I don't like neighbor, but he is the supervisor of maitenance for the complex, and so I have to stay on his good side.

So that's the cast of characters.

Last weekend, Hannah asked if she could spend Sunday night at my apartment (Monday was no school). As I understood, her father was going to be out of town all night. I was concerned about this, and so told her that I had to talk to her dad myself to understand. I asked about her brother, and she said he would stay in their apartment with the boyfriend's younger brother, age 14.

I do know that the younger brother has a juvvie record, and I just plain feel hincky around him. He's ridden other kids' bikes (including mine) without permission. I've combated bad language from the kids ever since he's been here. I've discouraged my kids from playing with him.

Nothing more was said about Sunday until Sunday afternoon, when I finally spoke with Hannah's father. He was coming home after all, and I told him I'd just needed to verify where he was going to be before Hannah spent the night. He bristled at this, and said "So she isn't welcome in your home?"

I assured him he was, but I needed to know where a parent was going to be when there was a sleepover. I then said something like, "I'm probably overstepping my bounds, but I do have to say I was concerned about *Hannah's brother* staying with *younger brother*. I felt that *younger brother* was probably not such a hot influence for my own kids, and have discouraged the friendship." Father seemed grateful to hear that, as they are fairly new here and didn't know anyone too well.

Well, according to my daughter, all the sh*t hit the fan. Somehow, the father is angry with me (of course; he probably knows I'd call the authorities if I knew a 14 year old was staying overnight alone with a 9 year old). The family downstairs is angry with me. My daughter is angry with me. Not one adult has come to talk to me; this is all second-hand.

I don't understand people. I know minding my own business isn't my strong suit, but I don't see what I did wrong. My take is everyone knows I will call them on bullshittery and that's what makes them angry. I don't know.

I have so much to do tonight, and all I want to do is curl up and listen to music.

Sassy · 02-28-2012, 07:11 PM

People I refer to as friends are planning a going away party for a dear friend of mine. They all seem to think it's a great idea of it's held at my ex husband's house. This would effectively uninvite me. I can be in the same room as my ex and politely ignore him. There's no way I can go hang out in the house he lives in, among all of the things/possessions/furnishings/art/dvds/etc that were purchased by my paychecks over the course of a decade, and listen to his egotistical rantings, abrasive soliloquies and crass jokes and NOT pull a sword from a wall and stab him repeatedly. I just can't. I won't. And it's BS for anyone to ask me to. ... So I guess I'll see just who gives a damn about whether or not I get invited to my friend's send off. Oh, and it's a surprise party. So I can't talk to my friend and mention this. He would just show up to a big send off and I wouldn't be there. RAWR~!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

01-10-2012, 12:33 AM	#1
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01-10-2012, 08:14 AM	#3
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01-10-2012, 12:10 PM	#4
BullRider_Dillon Timed Out Preferred Pronoun?: Permanently Banned 2/1/2012 Relationship Status: Accepting applications for marriage.Only DEVOUT CHRISTIAN!Women who unsex themselves need not apply. Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Permanently Banned 2/1/2012 Posts: 86 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 62 Thanked 60 Times in 32 Posts Rep Power: 0	Galatians 6:7-8 Something that will always anger and confuse me is people who run roughshod over an honerable and decent man they claim to love and want to spend their life with and when they get a tiny taste of their own disgusting behaviour actually have the nerve to question the natural law of karma and wallow, cry wolf, and woe is me.Time to sheath your claws careless cat. King James Version (KJV) 7Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap. 8For he that soweth to his flesh shall of the flesh reap corruption; but he that soweth to the Spirit shall of the Spirit reap life everlasting.

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01-10-2012, 12:50 AM	#2
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01-17-2012, 09:42 PM	#15
Kenna Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Fiery, Sassy, Tough As Nails, Femme Tomboy Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: I am your favorite hello and hardest goodbye. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: NC & CO Posts: 4,806 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,624 Thanked 12,189 Times in 3,779 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	Every morning or after every bath I get pissed and upset lately at loosing so much hair ... by the handful ... wondering why I'm not bald yet? It brings flash backs to when mom lost her's due to chemo. Lupus and other health issues piss me off. So limiting.

01-18-2012, 01:57 AM	#17
Random Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: back in the land of trees and snow Posts: 2,072 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,017 Thanked 5,326 Times in 1,378 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	I had semi sweet choc morsals in the pantry... Now I don't... hmmmmm So much for choc dipped choc haznut sandwich cookies.. __________________ ~Volunteer~ "It gets in your blood"

01-18-2012, 07:27 PM	#19
Gráinne Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Neither, nada, out of the box Preferred Pronoun?: My name always works Relationship Status: Happy whatever happens Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: Little Rock Posts: 1,865 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,119 Thanked 7,389 Times in 1,458 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	tired, frustrated, angry I think the events of the last few days prove I should just shut up, because people make no damn sense. Some background, to make a long story even longer: My daughter (13) is good friends with a fifth-grade girl who lives in the next building, "Hannah". Hannah has a 3rd grade brother who is friends with my son (11). They live with their father. Downstairs from us is our neighbor, his oldest daughter, OD's two children, OD's boyfriend, neighbor's younger daughter (who goes to school with my daughter), and the boyfriend's younger brother. I don't like neighbor, but he is the supervisor of maitenance for the complex, and so I have to stay on his good side. So that's the cast of characters. Last weekend, Hannah asked if she could spend Sunday night at my apartment (Monday was no school). As I understood, her father was going to be out of town all night. I was concerned about this, and so told her that I had to talk to her dad myself to understand. I asked about her brother, and she said he would stay in their apartment with the boyfriend's younger brother, age 14. I do know that the younger brother has a juvvie record, and I just plain feel hincky around him. He's ridden other kids' bikes (including mine) without permission. I've combated bad language from the kids ever since he's been here. I've discouraged my kids from playing with him. Nothing more was said about Sunday until Sunday afternoon, when I finally spoke with Hannah's father. He was coming home after all, and I told him I'd just needed to verify where he was going to be before Hannah spent the night. He bristled at this, and said "So she isn't welcome in your home?" I assured him he was, but I needed to know where a parent was going to be when there was a sleepover. I then said something like, "I'm probably overstepping my bounds, but I do have to say I was concerned about Hannah's brother staying with younger brother. I felt that younger brother was probably not such a hot influence for my own kids, and have discouraged the friendship." Father seemed grateful to hear that, as they are fairly new here and didn't know anyone too well. Well, according to my daughter, all the sh*t hit the fan. Somehow, the father is angry with me (of course; he probably knows I'd call the authorities if I knew a 14 year old was staying overnight alone with a 9 year old). The family downstairs is angry with me. My daughter is angry with me. Not one adult has come to talk to me; this is all second-hand. I don't understand people. I know minding my own business isn't my strong suit, but I don't see what I did wrong. My take is everyone knows I will call them on bullshittery and that's what makes them angry. I don't know. I have so much to do tonight, and all I want to do is curl up and listen to music. __________________ The odds of going to the store for a loaf of bread and coming out with only a loaf of bread are three billion to one. ~Erma Bombeck

02-28-2012, 07:11 PM	#20
Sassy Member How Do You Identify?: Female Relationship Status: Together Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: In the sunshine Posts: 598 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 815 Thanked 1,929 Times in 460 Posts Rep Power: 19641164	People I refer to as friends are planning a going away party for a dear friend of mine. They all seem to think it's a great idea of it's held at my ex husband's house. This would effectively uninvite me. I can be in the same room as my ex and politely ignore him. There's no way I can go hang out in the house he lives in, among all of the things/possessions/furnishings/art/dvds/etc that were purchased by my paychecks over the course of a decade, and listen to his egotistical rantings, abrasive soliloquies and crass jokes and NOT pull a sword from a wall and stab him repeatedly. I just can't. I won't. And it's BS for anyone to ask me to. ... So I guess I'll see just who gives a damn about whether or not I get invited to my friend's send off. Oh, and it's a surprise party. So I can't talk to my friend and mention this. He would just show up to a big send off and I wouldn't be there. RAWR~!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1