The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over.

Licious · 01-15-2012, 04:05 AM

just touching base with everyone. I tend to drop out due to nature of my health. But... I am dropping in again. Going to be hellamonth with a million appts. But so far all deadlines solid. Wishing everyone a good week and month.

morningstar55 · 01-15-2012, 08:26 AM

morning lofters and peekers

hangin here in frozen miniesooothaaa... lol
hope ya'll are having a awsome weekend.

Heavenleahangel · 01-15-2012, 08:40 AM

Good Morning, Everyone! It's actually below 0* outside and windy! I had to turn my heat up two more times this morning! I think I will invest in an electric blanket!!!

clay · 01-15-2012, 10:40 AM

gooooodddddd morning all my fellow lofters......hope everyone has an awesome day! I woke to bright, beautiful, sunny blue skies...temp is almost 60...AND I have on my shorts and tank top!!!! Reading some of the posts above me makes me soooo glad I am way down here in the South....lol....
STAR.....frozen Minniesoootha....brrrrr......keeep it!
HEAVENLEAHANGEL: Yep I think an electric blanket would be a very good investment for you!! I know for myself when I was in the upstate of SC, which gets much colder than here...I owned an electric blanket. I HATE getting in on those oh so collldddd sheets. They feel like they are damp they are so cold...anyway..good luck on the blanket buy!
ALL other lofters....stay warm..enjoy this gorgeous day...and see you all around..hugs alll...Clay

SweetJane · 01-15-2012, 10:54 AM

Morning lofters! Trying to get started on a very busy day. Raising a cupa to y'all.

morningstar55 · 01-15-2012, 11:02 AM

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Originally Posted by claybaby

gooooodddddd morning all my fellow lofters......hope everyone has an awesome day! I woke to bright, beautiful, sunny blue skies...temp is almost 60...AND I have on my shorts and tank top!!!! Reading some of the posts above me makes me soooo glad I am way down here in the South....lol....
STAR.....frozen Minniesoootha....brrrrr......keeep it!
HEAVENLEAHANGEL: Yep I think an electric blanket would be a very good investment for you!! I know for myself when I was in the upstate of SC, which gets much colder than here...I owned an electric blanket. I HATE getting in on those oh so collldddd sheets. They feel like they are damp they are so cold...anyway..good luck on the blanket buy!
ALL other lofters....stay warm..enjoy this gorgeous day...and see you all around..hugs alll...Clay

oHH sure..... rub it in..

clay · 01-15-2012, 11:11 AM

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Originally Posted by morningstar55

oHH sure..... rub it in..

aww Morningstar....I was just sharing some sunshine on those who are with all the cold and snow....lol

blueeyes226_l · 01-16-2012, 08:17 PM

I had a very shoking phone call today. I found out my best friend was found in a snow bank friday frozen. It was as if someone punched me in the gut. her and I was best friends for many years. I called there to talk to her and I was told she died on friday.I was talking to Rich Jr. her son. I couldn't help to keep from crying. I told him I was very sorry I was crying. He told me its ok. My goodness the things we use to get into befor both are lives changed. We was drinking buddies and use to do bar hopping. When,I told her I was a Lesbian she excepted it as if it was no big deal as long as I was happy thats what counts. She was on the "hippy "side of life. A very very loving and careing fun to be with person. We had many good times together. The pass getting in to stuff and are "new life" being good. S.Chind R.I.P.

my dear buddy

blueeyes226_l · 01-17-2012, 09:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Licious

just touching base with everyone. I tend to drop out due to nature of my health. But... I am dropping in again. Going to be hellamonth with a million appts. But so far all deadlines solid. Wishing everyone a good week and month.

I hope you are feeling better.

rustedrims · 01-18-2012, 07:24 AM

Hey Blueeyes kinda know how you feel..I got a call at 7:00am on saturday morning and i was in the Funeral Home at 4:00pm..Not something we like doing and didnt plan that for my saturday but i gotta be there for my friend of many years..Her Dad died..He was a Good Guy..I dont think we ever get over loosing someone..We just figure out how to survive after our losses..Sorry to hear about your friend..

wishing everyone a good rest of the week

s..

blueeyes226_l · 01-18-2012, 07:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rustedrims

Hey Blueeyes kinda know how you feel..I got a call at 7:00am on saturday morning and i was in the Funeral Home at 4:00pm..Not something we like doing and didnt plan that for my saturday but i gotta be there for my friend of many years..Her Dad died..He was a Good Guy..I dont think we ever get over loosing someone..We just figure out how to survive after our losses..Sorry to hear about your friend..

wishing everyone a good rest of the week

s..

Rustedrims,I'm sorry about your loss. You any his family are in my prayers.

blueeyes226_l · 01-18-2012, 08:02 PM

I know if I had passed away my friend would be there for my family. I want to be there how ever on the way home tonight after looking for dress pants and dress shirt I did't find a thing in the stores. How ever I didn't come home with out any thing. I came in the back door with a ticket in my hand``I got picked up. My n.y. Inspectsion was out dated by 3 mounths. Great. I couldn't drive it till it gets inspected. I will have to call to try to get it done in the A.M. because,I got to go out of town....And life goes on....LOL

blueeyes226_l · 01-19-2012, 01:16 PM

I called this A.M. and I take the car in at 3:30 P.M. But,kind of late to go for pants and shirt in Hornell. I might try it. I need something to ware. I don't want to use my jeans because I have to roll the pant legs. I'm short legged so a 30 in linth is too long I need a 28. I will come up with something.

Rustedrims, How are you doing hun?
The Dr. called here today and said Mrs....... I said no I'm her daughter. He started telling me about my moms health. I couldn't belive it....Some Dr. Oh well,I know partly what is what. My Mom has polyps and at her age they are cancer and if she can stand taking the surgery they will do it. This is what the Dr. said to me. I know i don't want any thing to happen to my Mom. How ever I know God will call her home when its her time.

rustedrims,I want to share something with you. Yes,he isn't here in body but,He will be with you and his family as long as you have memery of him in your heat. I know its very hard. I'm at peace about my dads passing over years ago. I have peace about that Because,I knew if he lived longer the death he would have wood be much worce. Now about my brother,I do not have peace about his death. The Hospital killed him he had a horrable death. My brothers son wasn't going to let me see him because,I was gay. He made trouble between Mom and I. Belive me it was a typ of h_ l_. The last thing my brother said to me I'm pi_ _t at you and will not for give you. That hurt me so deeply.
My brother and I was very close. My main point I'm trying to make Our love ones who have passed over are still with us in are hearts. I hope you don't mind me shareing this with you in a post and not just between you and I. I hope this will help you and any one who needs to read this. Lately things I have helped people with it seems like I'm going through the same things. I guess maybe because,I need to do what I "preach".
I have not met any of you nice people on here but,I do care about all of you. You all are very careing.

Nadeest · 01-20-2012, 05:06 AM

Blueeyes226_l , I'm sorry that your nephew was such a jerk to you. He should not have been. So many people do not realize that we are just being true to ourselves and that this is NOT a choice that we have made.
I hope that your brother forgives you, and pray that he does, in time. I think that he will. To my mind, simply because we no longer inhabit our bodies does not mean that the essential 'us', or as some would put it, our soul, dies. We simply go to another plane of existence.

01-15-2012, 08:26 AM	#2
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,240 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	morning lofters and peekers hangin here in frozen miniesooothaaa... lol hope ya'll are having a awsome weekend. __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

01-15-2012, 08:40 AM	#3
Heavenleahangel Member How Do You Identify?: OFOS Femme; Earth bound Angel and Babygirl; Preferred Pronoun?: She, Angel, as long as it's respectful Relationship Status: Waiting for the One who can complete me Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Albany, NY~but originally from Georgia Posts: 562 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,257 Thanked 2,069 Times in 468 Posts Rep Power: 18675554	Good Morning, Everyone! It's actually below 0* outside and windy! I had to turn my heat up two more times this morning! I think I will invest in an electric blanket!!! __________________ Sweet Georgia Peach

01-15-2012, 10:40 AM	#4
clay Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Butch (Silver Fox) Dom Daddi Preferred Pronoun?: 50 Shades of Clay Darker & Deeper Relationship Status: married to my forever Join Date: May 2011 Location: salt air & sandy beaches Posts: 13,136 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 97,020 Thanked 31,668 Times in 7,748 Posts Rep Power: 21474864	gooooodddddd morning all my fellow lofters......hope everyone has an awesome day! I woke to bright, beautiful, sunny blue skies...temp is almost 60...AND I have on my shorts and tank top!!!! Reading some of the posts above me makes me soooo glad I am way down here in the South....lol.... STAR.....frozen Minniesoootha....brrrrr......keeep it! HEAVENLEAHANGEL: Yep I think an electric blanket would be a very good investment for you!! I know for myself when I was in the upstate of SC, which gets much colder than here...I owned an electric blanket. I HATE getting in on those oh so collldddd sheets. They feel like they are damp they are so cold...anyway..good luck on the blanket buy! ALL other lofters....stay warm..enjoy this gorgeous day...and see you all around..hugs alll...Clay __________________ To find someone who will love you for no reason, and to shower that person with reasons, that is the ultimate happiness. ~Robert Brault

01-16-2012, 08:17 PM	#8
blueeyes226_l Member How Do You Identify?: soft butch-I am who I am Relationship Status: single and looking Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: near Olean,N.Y. Posts: 119 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 37 Thanked 107 Times in 57 Posts Rep Power: 171	Best friend I had a very shoking phone call today. I found out my best friend was found in a snow bank friday frozen. It was as if someone punched me in the gut. her and I was best friends for many years. I called there to talk to her and I was told she died on friday.I was talking to Rich Jr. her son. I couldn't help to keep from crying. I told him I was very sorry I was crying. He told me its ok. My goodness the things we use to get into befor both are lives changed. We was drinking buddies and use to do bar hopping. When,I told her I was a Lesbian she excepted it as if it was no big deal as long as I was happy thats what counts. She was on the "hippy "side of life. A very very loving and careing fun to be with person. We had many good times together. The pass getting in to stuff and are "new life" being good. S.Chind R.I.P. my dear buddy

01-15-2012, 04:05 AM	#1
Licious Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she, her Relationship Status: single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: California Posts: 686 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,502 Thanked 1,973 Times in 546 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	just touching base with everyone. I tend to drop out due to nature of my health. But... I am dropping in again. Going to be hellamonth with a million appts. But so far all deadlines solid. Wishing everyone a good week and month.

01-15-2012, 10:54 AM	#5
SweetJane Member How Do You Identify?: stone femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: always solo Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: New Mexico Posts: 368 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 380 Thanked 815 Times in 198 Posts Rep Power: 4309957	Morning lofters! Trying to get started on a very busy day. Raising a cupa to y'all.

01-18-2012, 07:24 AM	#10
rustedrims Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: she/her Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Northern Ohio close to Lake Erie and ice-cream places Posts: 444 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,123 Thanked 2,553 Times in 367 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	Hey Blueeyes kinda know how you feel..I got a call at 7:00am on saturday morning and i was in the Funeral Home at 4:00pm..Not something we like doing and didnt plan that for my saturday but i gotta be there for my friend of many years..Her Dad died..He was a Good Guy..I dont think we ever get over loosing someone..We just figure out how to survive after our losses..Sorry to hear about your friend.. wishing everyone a good rest of the week s..

01-18-2012, 08:02 PM	#12
blueeyes226_l Member How Do You Identify?: soft butch-I am who I am Relationship Status: single and looking Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: near Olean,N.Y. Posts: 119 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 37 Thanked 107 Times in 57 Posts Rep Power: 171	I know if I had passed away my friend would be there for my family. I want to be there how ever on the way home tonight after looking for dress pants and dress shirt I did't find a thing in the stores. How ever I didn't come home with out any thing. I came in the back door with a ticket in my hand``I got picked up. My n.y. Inspectsion was out dated by 3 mounths. Great. I couldn't drive it till it gets inspected. I will have to call to try to get it done in the A.M. because,I got to go out of town....And life goes on....LOL

01-19-2012, 01:16 PM	#13
blueeyes226_l Member How Do You Identify?: soft butch-I am who I am Relationship Status: single and looking Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: near Olean,N.Y. Posts: 119 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 37 Thanked 107 Times in 57 Posts Rep Power: 171	I called this A.M. and I take the car in at 3:30 P.M. But,kind of late to go for pants and shirt in Hornell. I might try it. I need something to ware. I don't want to use my jeans because I have to roll the pant legs. I'm short legged so a 30 in linth is too long I need a 28. I will come up with something. Rustedrims, How are you doing hun? The Dr. called here today and said Mrs....... I said no I'm her daughter. He started telling me about my moms health. I couldn't belive it....Some Dr. Oh well,I know partly what is what. My Mom has polyps and at her age they are cancer and if she can stand taking the surgery they will do it. This is what the Dr. said to me. I know i don't want any thing to happen to my Mom. How ever I know God will call her home when its her time. rustedrims,I want to share something with you. Yes,he isn't here in body but,He will be with you and his family as long as you have memery of him in your heat. I know its very hard. I'm at peace about my dads passing over years ago. I have peace about that Because,I knew if he lived longer the death he would have wood be much worce. Now about my brother,I do not have peace about his death. The Hospital killed him he had a horrable death. My brothers son wasn't going to let me see him because,I was gay. He made trouble between Mom and I. Belive me it was a typ of h_ l_. The last thing my brother said to me I'm pi_ _t at you and will not for give you. That hurt me so deeply. My brother and I was very close. My main point I'm trying to make Our love ones who have passed over are still with us in are hearts. I hope you don't mind me shareing this with you in a post and not just between you and I. I hope this will help you and any one who needs to read this. Lately things I have helped people with it seems like I'm going through the same things. I guess maybe because,I need to do what I "preach". I have not met any of you nice people on here but,I do care about all of you. You all are very careing.

01-20-2012, 05:06 AM	#14
Nadeest Member How Do You Identify?: as myself Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Leesburg, FL Posts: 595 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,876 Thanked 2,118 Times in 501 Posts Rep Power: 17077997	Blueeyes226_l , I'm sorry that your nephew was such a jerk to you. He should not have been. So many people do not realize that we are just being true to ourselves and that this is NOT a choice that we have made. I hope that your brother forgives you, and pray that he does, in time. I think that he will. To my mind, simply because we no longer inhabit our bodies does not mean that the essential 'us', or as some would put it, our soul, dies. We simply go to another plane of existence.