Modern Manners - Facebook et al

[Sachita]

Originally Posted by chai~

I agree with this in the sense of the mind being a powerful sexual organ, and for me, it all starts in my brain.

Words chosen carefully, inuendo, intrigue. Deep conversations, idea's and opinions discussed. To me, all important stuff.

Physical attraction can be just that, superficial and shallow.

I would rather be someone's friend first with stuff to talk about, then to jump into some relationship with a person who doesn't tweek my mind.

What I would NOT do is, let the talking get too racy, because eventually if people choose to meet, and the physical connection isn't there, well, it's just disappointing and embarrasing!!!

Now as for the bad manners...I also agree with the changing of the times....but how do we get manners back? Or do we just suck it up and become those old geezers who complain about the "good ole days", when people would say please and thank you, and I don't want to see you anymore, to your face!!!!

A text or relationship status change is so nice and tidy and drama free.

Blah blah blah, go ahead, dump me by text, show me what you're really made of!

I'm glad you brought this up because too often you meet someone and although I'm ok with with some casual flirting I find it offensive when someone engages in sexual innuendos or phone sex. wow thats a long sentence! lol

I understand that you want to make sure that you're compatible sexually but there's no way we'll even get to all that unless I like & respect you. You've got to stimulate my mind before my panties come off. lol

A lot can happen in cyber world especially among lonely people. It's easy to dream and create false emotions and lustful intentions only to have reality come crashing down. I need so much more before I can go there sexually. Trust me, I'm pretty open minded but just not casual when it comes to sex. For me sex is a sacred and intimate act I preserve for those I find worthy.

If someone really wants me they will make me their direct focus and they won't be all over the place. If not I won't give you the time of day.