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Turtle · 02-03-2012, 12:02 AM

Hey Y'all, I think treating one's self well on Valentine's Day is a great idea!! Whatever floats your boat - Starbucks, fancy underwear, making yourself the exactly perfect card you would want - it's all good. WOW!! Congratulations on wonderful youness!! Gotta go figure out what I'm gonna do for myself!

Leigh · 02-03-2012, 12:40 AM

Just came in to say hi to everyone

Licious · 02-03-2012, 01:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Turtle

Hey Y'all, I think treating one's self well on Valentine's Day is a great idea!! Whatever floats your boat - Starbucks, fancy underwear, making yourself the exactly perfect card you would want - it's all good. WOW!! Congratulations on wonderful youness!! Gotta go figure out what I'm gonna do for myself!

What a great idea! I have to take myself for a fancy drink at Starbucks, maybe buy myself some pretty underwear! Fun!

Thanks Unique!

SugarFemme · 02-03-2012, 03:18 AM

If I drank, I would get seriously drunk and take advantage of myself LMAO

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Originally Posted by Turtle

Hey Y'all, I think treating one's self well on Valentine's Day is a great idea!! Whatever floats your boat - Starbucks, fancy underwear, making yourself the exactly perfect card you would want - it's all good. WOW!! Congratulations on wonderful youness!! Gotta go figure out what I'm gonna do for myself!

fever · 02-03-2012, 03:43 AM

I don't look for cards or flowers, and have gotten used to being single at all holidays. So, I give a bunch of daffodils to friends, mail cards to my grandchildren, even though they live 5 min away, and try to make someone smile.

I am a pretty lucky woman, and celebrate myself by loving others.

But, I might get a pedicure lol ......................

SugarFemme · 02-03-2012, 03:50 AM

My kid summed it up perfectly today. Out of the blue, when we were in the car today, she said "Oh shit, in two weeks the holiday that we feel obligated to celebrate, that was manufactured by a card company, that has caused more aggravation and grief over the years will be sprung on us AGAIN. Makes people feel like losers if they have no one on that day. And is an all around silly day. People should not be told to show their love and give tokens of their love one day a year. It should be something people just naturally do when they feel it. Not when Hallmark tells em to". Gawd I love my daughter.

Mr Nice Guy · 02-03-2012, 05:08 AM

Good morning singles, coffee is on. Hope you all have a great day. Mine started off bad when I found out my mom thru out my W2's. Now I'm freaking out!!!

Wryly · 02-03-2012, 11:23 AM

hey all!

I had a really good night's sleep last night. And I even slept late this morning!
So now it seems I'm a bit behind on my plans for the day but it is all right - not going to bash myself up over it.

My SIL got home from her conference last night and was very happy with the work I did around the house. And she loved the "Birthday Tree" I decorated for her. She leaves her seasonal (Christmas) tree up all year long - - some years, anyway. So while she was gone I took all the Christmas decorations off the tree and put them away. I went to the dollar store and got a bag of balloons, some crepe streamers, some shiny centrepiece thing and noisemakers and decorated the tree. She thought it was lovely. Since both of our birthdays are in early February she said it is our tree. My sister feels so left out now because her birthday is in December.

Just had lunch and now going to do some laundry and other stuff.

see you later!

uniquetobeme · 02-03-2012, 11:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Wryly

hey all!

I had a really good night's sleep last night. And I even slept late this morning!
So now it seems I'm a bit behind on my plans for the day but it is all right - not going to bash myself up over it.

My SIL got home from her conference last night and was very happy with the work I did around the house. And she loved the "Birthday Tree" I decorated for her. She leaves her seasonal (Christmas) tree up all year long - - some years, anyway. So while she was gone I took all the Christmas decorations off the tree and put them away. I went to the dollar store and got a bag of balloons, some crepe streamers, some shiny centrepiece thing and noisemakers and decorated the tree. She thought it was lovely. Since both of our birthdays are in early February she said it is our tree. My sister feels so left out now because her birthday is in December.

Just had lunch and now going to do some laundry and other stuff.

see you later!

The Birthday tree...that is so sweet

uniquetobeme · 02-03-2012, 11:32 AM

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Originally Posted by OneOfAKind

If I drank, I would get seriously drunk and take advantage of myself LMAO

LMAO :-). Too funny :-)

02-03-2012, 12:40 AM	#2
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,024 Times in 4,784 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	Just came in to say hi to everyone __________________ "When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!"

02-03-2012, 03:43 AM	#5
fever Member How Do You Identify?: stonefemme Relationship Status: single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: near Vancouver, B.C. Canada Posts: 592 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,649 Thanked 1,279 Times in 357 Posts Rep Power: 17783436	Valentine's Day I don't look for cards or flowers, and have gotten used to being single at all holidays. So, I give a bunch of daffodils to friends, mail cards to my grandchildren, even though they live 5 min away, and try to make someone smile. I am a pretty lucky woman, and celebrate myself by loving others. But, I might get a pedicure lol ......................

02-03-2012, 03:50 AM	#6
SugarFemme Member How Do You Identify?: Fierce Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Singular Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: Southwest Posts: 1,029 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 650 Thanked 4,460 Times in 854 Posts Rep Power*: 21474851	Out of the mouth of babes My kid summed it up perfectly today. Out of the blue, when we were in the car today, she said "Oh shit, in two weeks the holiday that we feel obligated to celebrate, that was manufactured by a card company, that has caused more aggravation and grief over the years will be sprung on us AGAIN. Makes people feel like losers if they have no one on that day. And is an all around silly day. People should not be told to show their love and give tokens of their love one day a year. It should be something people just naturally do when they feel it. Not when Hallmark tells em to". Gawd I love my daughter.

02-03-2012, 12:02 AM	#1
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02-03-2012, 05:08 AM	#7
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02-03-2012, 11:23 AM	#8
Wryly Member How Do You Identify?: bemused butch Preferred Pronoun?: polite ones, please Relationship Status: single butch Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: my little butch house Posts: 988 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,789 Thanked 1,568 Times in 620 Posts Rep Power: 14094254	hey all! I had a really good night's sleep last night. And I even slept late this morning! So now it seems I'm a bit behind on my plans for the day but it is all right - not going to bash myself up over it. My SIL got home from her conference last night and was very happy with the work I did around the house. And she loved the "Birthday Tree" I decorated for her. She leaves her seasonal (Christmas) tree up all year long - - some years, anyway. So while she was gone I took all the Christmas decorations off the tree and put them away. I went to the dollar store and got a bag of balloons, some crepe streamers, some shiny centrepiece thing and noisemakers and decorated the tree. She thought it was lovely. Since both of our birthdays are in early February she said it is our tree. My sister feels so left out now because her birthday is in December. Just had lunch and now going to do some laundry and other stuff. see you later!