Crumbs in the butter and other Pet Peeves!

Medusa · 02-26-2012, 08:08 AM

Reading over my shoulder will send me into the red zone in 2 seconds!

We used to have a friend who, when at our home, would blatantly stand behind me and try to read over my shoulder and would even say "Wait, wait, I'm not done" when I was clicking to a next page or scrolling.

*grits teeth*

smouldering · 02-26-2012, 08:43 AM

2 BIG pet peeves of mine..

"you want to watch this movie with me? No, okay" -- In the middle of watching a movie that someone else didn't want to watch, then decides a half hour later to come in and sit down.. and starts asking me what is happening and who's who...

really?

Another pet peeve and one that really upsets me is the whole "Actions speak louder than words"..
.The biggest thing I cannot stand is when someone tells me something only because they think it is what i want to hear, or says one thing and does the complete opposite, not because they changed their mind- but because they only said it to "appease" me. the quickest way to get on my shit list is to lead me on lol.
Good or bad, all I ask is you just be honest with me, just be straight with me. I am a big girl and will have more respect for you if you are authentic and honest.

dark_crystal · 02-26-2012, 09:00 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by femmennoir

Toothpaste culprits, stay away!
Kitchen "assistants" who want to mess with my cooking (and taste my food before it is served), shoo!
......and if you must drown everything in ketchup, you can't come over for dinner!

Elle*

OMG my ex used to come in the kitchen while i was cooking and turn the fire up or down on the stove

made me want to walk right out to the couch and sit my ass down

"you apparently know better than me how to do what i am doing- so you go right ahead and do it"

Quote:

Originally Posted by ElusiveButch

Snapping gum

the EXISTENCE of gum

WolfyOne · 02-26-2012, 09:26 AM

Wow, after reading all the posts, I will probably be single a really long time

I seem to be as anal as others with their peeves...me thinks I'll keep my pets, thank you

That is all

girl_dee · 02-26-2012, 09:27 AM

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Originally Posted by WolfyOne

Wow, after reading all the posts, I will probably be single a really long time

I seem to be as anal as others with their peeves...me thinks I'll keep my pets, thank you

That is all

LOL what about when other people undermine you?

like when i am correcting my dog i don't want to hear *ohhh it's ok" and then continuing on like i just didn't correct my own dog

my dog, my rules!

WolfyOne · 02-26-2012, 09:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Cajun_dee

LOL what about when other people undermine you?

like when i am correcting my dog i don't want to hear *ohhh it's ok" and then continuing on like i just didn't correct my own dog

my dog, my rules!

Oh sure, let me add another thing to my peeves

When I had a dog, she was trained so well by me, no one would dare correct me

And as for the crumbs in anything, my brother would do it when we were kids and butter in the jelly jar
My peeves started oh so many years ago...wondering now if that will make me hard to live with
Surely there is one person out there that will accept me as I am...flawed with peeves, oh yes I am

girl_dee · 02-26-2012, 09:21 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Medusa

Reading over my shoulder will send me into the red zone in 2 seconds!

We used to have a friend who, when at our home, would blatantly stand behind me and try to read over my shoulder and would even say "Wait, wait, I'm not done" when I was clicking to a next page or scrolling.

*grits teeth*

This is a biggie for me too, so how does one tell someone it's annoying as hell without being RUDE?

femmennoir · 02-26-2012, 09:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cajun_dee

This is a biggie for me too, so how does one tell someone it's annoying as hell without being RUDE?

By simply telling the someone that reading the paper is a solitary pleasure they will be able to enjoy when I am finished with said paper. Nothing rude about that......

Elle*

girl_dee · 02-26-2012, 09:32 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by femmennoir

By simply telling the someone that reading the paper is a solitary pleasure they will be able to enjoy when I am finished with said paper. Nothing rude about that......

Elle*

that could work!

in the moment i wanna say

*DO you MIND?????????????*

not much finesse when i am peeved.

ONLY · 02-26-2012, 09:47 AM

Let's see...........

1- If I am having a conversation with you I do not appreciate that you look at your text and start texting.....

2- I don't like to be late for anything....and sure don't like to wait for someone who is running late (because of lack of organization, lost track of time, lack or respect etc)

3- While driving, if I let you in to merge, it doesn't take much to give a "Thank you"

4- When someone doesn't let you merge and you are at the end of your lane......that PISSES me off!!!!! Let me merge you idiot, might take 5 seconds off your ride.....WOW sorry....IDIOTS!!!!

oh one more...

5- I do not like word "DEAR" and also don't like that someone uses a term of endearment towards me, unless you are my girl/.

ONLY · 02-26-2012, 09:53 AM

okay I forgot a few

People who say they will do something and don't

People who use the word "LOVE" and don't mean it

People who use the words "I PROMISE" and don't mean it

I think I might have used the words "I PROMISE" a handful of times, because I know that things happen and we can't always follow through with it. So if I were to use it I say "I Promise to try my best" but again, I have rarely said even that. And have only said "I LOVE YOU" to very limited people. And that would be to my family or to the person I am involved with at the time.

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02-26-2012, 08:43 AM	#2
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02-26-2012, 09:26 AM	#4
WolfyOne Magically Delicious How Do You Identify?: Gentle Butch Relationship Status: Single and content Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Minnesota Posts: 6,558 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22,052 Thanked 15,392 Times in 4,138 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Wow, after reading all the posts, I will probably be single a really long time I seem to be as anal as others with their peeves...me thinks I'll keep my pets, thank you That is all __________________ Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength; loving someone deeply gives you courage --- Lao Tzo

02-26-2012, 09:47 AM	#10
ONLY Senior Member How Do You Identify?: well my girl calls me honeybear, sugarbear, sexy beast, hot tamale..... Preferred Pronoun?: female pronouns Relationship Status: Married to my Rare Beauty with a Beautiful Soul.....SS Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: eastern ontario, canada Posts: 2,783 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 975 Thanked 1,735 Times in 679 Posts Rep Power: 15139964	*Let's see...........* 1- If I am having a conversation with you I do not appreciate that you look at your text and start texting..... 2- I don't like to be late for anything....and sure don't like to wait for someone who is running late (because of lack of organization, lost track of time, lack or respect etc) 3- While driving, if I let you in to merge, it doesn't take much to give a "Thank you" 4- When someone doesn't let you merge and you are at the end of your lane......that PISSES me off!!!!! Let me merge you idiot, might take 5 seconds off your ride.....WOW sorry....IDIOTS!!!! oh one more... 5- I do not like word "DEAR" and also don't like that someone uses a term of endearment towards me, unless you are my girl/. __________________ *"If you talk about it, it's a dream, if you envision it, it's possible, but if you schedule it, it's real. "*

02-26-2012, 09:53 AM	#11
ONLY Senior Member How Do You Identify?: well my girl calls me honeybear, sugarbear, sexy beast, hot tamale..... Preferred Pronoun?: female pronouns Relationship Status: Married to my Rare Beauty with a Beautiful Soul.....SS Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: eastern ontario, canada Posts: 2,783 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 975 Thanked 1,735 Times in 679 Posts Rep Power: 15139964	okay I forgot a few People who say they will do something and don't People who use the word "LOVE" and don't mean it People who use the words "I PROMISE" and don't mean it I think I might have used the words "I PROMISE" a handful of times, because I know that things happen and we can't always follow through with it. So if I were to use it I say "I Promise to try my best" but again, I have rarely said even that. And have only said "I LOVE YOU" to very limited people. And that would be to my family or to the person I am involved with at the time. __________________ *"If you talk about it, it's a dream, if you envision it, it's possible, but if you schedule it, it's real. "*