Femme Invisibility? - Page 4

LaneyDoll · 03-23-2012, 09:18 AM

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Originally Posted by ArkansasPiscesGrrl

They really DO have apps for everything, why not this??

(wondering how, and in what manner, all us Femmes will be 'tagged". Will it be a small, under-the-skin GPS tracker?)

We could just install the app and keep our phones on us. It could work like "searching/listening" does for Bluetooth.

kannon · 03-23-2012, 09:57 AM

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Originally Posted by LaneyDoll

We could just install the app and keep our phones on us. It could work like "searching/listening" does for Bluetooth.

exactly!!!! and, it would be fairly easy to develop this app.

LaneyDoll · 03-23-2012, 09:58 AM

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Originally Posted by kannon

exactly!!!! and, it would be fairly easy to develop this app.

And it could still be called "searching/listening."

spritzerJ · 03-23-2012, 11:03 AM

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Originally Posted by LaneyDoll

And it could still be called "searching/listening."

This app idea shows promise. there seems to be an app for everything, why not locating femme's or butches?... and as if I need more reinforcement to keep the phone set to vibrate...

The_Lady_Snow · 03-23-2012, 11:18 AM

My cure for Femme Invisibility:

I see someone that I may find to be rather dashing, or I may want to get to know or I may want in their pants..

I go up and introduce myself and see how it goes, the worse than can happen is they say sorry I'm not that kinda girl/butch/boy/boi

Lady_Di · 03-23-2012, 12:01 PM

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Originally Posted by jenna8987

This app idea shows promise. there seems to be an app for everything, why not locating femme's or butches?... and as if I need more reinforcement to keep the phone set to vibrate...

Gay men already have it and it appears to be working quite well for them I saw it on LOGO, so it must be true~

aishah · 03-23-2012, 12:14 PM

i don't have a fancy phone, otherwise i'd love the app idea! mine just calls and texts, lol.

i need to get me a 2x4 though...or a necklace at least.

JAGG · 03-23-2012, 12:35 PM

Here is the problem. If a femme starts talking to me of course I assume she is straight. Even if she goes out of her way to talk to me, and is overly friendly. It doesn't make me think she is gay or interested in me . I just think she is a straight women, who knows can tell I'm gay, just by how I look and is in her own friendly way trying to tell me she is ok with it. In other words she's trying to show me in a subtle way, that she isn't homophobic. So talking to me and smiling and being friendly wouldn't make me think you were femme. I would think you were kind and just a friendly lady. Lol. Sorry .
You would have to say something really flirty for me to understand you were femme, not straight.

LaneyDoll · 03-23-2012, 12:40 PM

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Originally Posted by JAGG

I would think you were kind and just a friendly lady. Lol. Sorry. You would have to say something really flirty for me to understand you were femme, not straight.

Hmmm. I am a kind and friendly lady. Who is also very flirty. And femme, not straight.

Damn. I guess I have been doing this wrong all along. Someone pass me a 2 x 4.

~hands Jagg a hotdog "his way" to apologize for picking at him~

JAGG · 03-23-2012, 12:56 PM

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Originally Posted by LaneyDoll

Hmmm. I am a kind and friendly lady. Who is also very flirty. And femme, not straight.

Damn. I guess I have been doing this wrong all along. Someone pass me a 2 x 4.

~hands Jagg a hotdog "his way" to apologize for picking at him~

Thank you Laney. I love being picked on . No apologizes needed, but I will take the chili dog since you offered. *smirk*

LaneyDoll · 03-23-2012, 12:59 PM

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Originally Posted by JAGG

Thank you Laney. I love being picked on . No apologizes needed, but I will take the chili dog since you offered. *smirk*

You are lucky I am not single. I may serve it to you on a 2 x 4.

lol

Morgan · 03-23-2012, 01:03 PM

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Originally Posted by JAGG

Here is the problem. If a femme starts talking to me of course I assume she is straight. Even if she goes out of her way to talk to me, and is overly friendly. It doesn't make me think she is gay or interested in me . I just think she is a straight women, who knows can tell I'm gay, just by how I look and is in her own friendly way trying to tell me she is ok with it. In other words she's trying to show me in a subtle way, that she isn't homophobic. So talking to me and smiling and being friendly wouldn't make me think you were femme. I would think you were kind and just a friendly lady. Lol. Sorry .
You would have to say something really flirty for me to understand you were femme, not straight.

This is true....It would have to take some flirting or outright saying "I am a femme" for me to get it. Otherwise I too would think you were just a friendly straight woman who was accepting of me. Now the flirting on the other hand would get my attention, and I would act accordingly....when I say stand up and be counted, I mean approach me, talk to me, let me know, I really cannot guess. And yes if you are at a gay function or bar, I will believe you are a femme....

Christy51274 · 03-23-2012, 01:37 PM

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Originally Posted by kannon

I propose the development of a new Iphone app called:

femme visibility.

it will work like a GPS tracking device.

What a novel idea, Kris. If you ever get one developed, I get first dibs!

Sassy · 03-23-2012, 02:02 PM

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Originally Posted by JAGG

Here is the problem. If a femme starts talking to me of course I assume she is straight. Even if she goes out of her way to talk to me, and is overly friendly. It doesn't make me think she is gay or interested in me . I just think she is a straight women, who knows can tell I'm gay, just by how I look and is in her own friendly way trying to tell me she is ok with it. In other words she's trying to show me in a subtle way, that she isn't homophobic. So talking to me and smiling and being friendly wouldn't make me think you were femme. I would think you were kind and just a friendly lady. Lol. Sorry .
You would have to say something really flirty for me to understand you were femme, not straight.

I think this is more common than some gals might think.

When I met my SO she was friendly, but not willing to (in her words) "scare the straight girl" no matter how much I batted my lashes. So, I flat out asked her if she was single. After she said yes, I told her she looked delicious in those vintage jeans and asked if I could buy her dinner one Friday night. I wasn't creepy stalkerish in my approach. Just to the point. If it had gone the other way, no harm, no foul.

My opinion, Say Something. Even if they turn out to not be available, you may have made someone's day by just making them realize they've "still got it"

JAGG · 03-23-2012, 02:14 PM

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Originally Posted by LaneyDoll

You are lucky I am not single. I may serve it to you on a 2 x 4.

lol

Hey now you're talking my language, I would catch on to that ! HaHaHa

Martina · 03-23-2012, 02:15 PM

And saying something really flirty might make you assume we want to date you or as Snow says, get into your pants. i do not want to confuse anyone. i sure don't want to be rejected when i wasn't even on the make. So . . . .

1QuirkyKiwi · 03-23-2012, 03:25 PM

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Originally Posted by LaneyDoll

Hmmm. I am a kind and friendly lady. Who is also very flirty. And femme, not straight.

Damn. I guess I have been doing this wrong all along. Someone pass me a 2 x 4.

What about the Butch’s suffering from splinters and bruising; are we Femmes responsible? If so, I’d best pack the First Aid kit!

clay · 03-23-2012, 06:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Christy51274

@Clay: What sweet, kind words! They made my day. Ms. Scarlett is a lucky woman.

Have a lovely day.

Hi Christy:
I am the lucky one here...grins! She is absolutely amazing!!! So many tried to win her heart BUT I had the winning card....smiles!!! She has been elusive for about 8 years....smiles!
I am touched by your post. I write from my heart..and I am one Big Butch who KNOWS that it is the femme who makes me who I am!!!
Have a wonderful weekend yourself...and enjoy the Planet.
If I can ever help you with anything, feel free to ask....enjoy the evening yourself...smiles...Clay

Miss Scarlett · 03-23-2012, 06:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Christy51274

@Clay: What sweet, kind words! They made my day. Ms. Scarlett is a lucky woman.

Have a lovely day.

Thank you Christy...i am indeed one lucky femme to have such a completely kind, respectful,well mannered and loving partner...i am constantly in awe of this amazing person the Universe blessed this undeserving child with...

socialjustice_fsu · 03-23-2012, 07:27 PM

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Originally Posted by JAGG

Hey now you're talking my language, I would catch on to that ! HaHaHa

Attention all Femmes:

What do you say about gethering up JAGG and hauling him to the lumber yard and let him get cozy with some of those 2 x 4's.

03-23-2012, 11:18 AM	#65
The_Lady_Snow MILLION $$$ PUSSY How Do You Identify?: Kinky, Raw, Perverted, Uber Queer Alpha Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Iconic Ms. Relationship Status: Keeper of 3, only one has the map to my freckles Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: La Reina del Sur Posts: 22,488 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 32,231 Thanked 80,077 Times in 15,670 Posts Rep Power: 21474875	I have a cure!!! My cure for Femme Invisibility: I see someone that I may find to be rather dashing, or I may want to get to know or I may want in their pants.. I go up and introduce myself and see how it goes, the worse than can happen is they say sorry I'm not that kinda girl/butch/boy/boi __________________ "If you’re going to play these dirty games of ours, then you might as well indulge completely. It’s all about turning back into an animal and that’s the beauty of it. Place your guilt on the sidewalk and take a blow torch to it (guilt is usually worthless anyway). Be perverted, be filthy, do things that mannered people shouldn’t do. If you’re going to be gross then go for it and don’t wimp out."---Master Aiden

03-23-2012, 12:35 PM	#68
JAGG Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: JAGG Relationship Status: =) Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Tulsa (cat free zone) Posts: 6,093 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 18,651 Thanked 17,530 Times in 4,137 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	Here is the problem. If a femme starts talking to me of course I assume she is straight. Even if she goes out of her way to talk to me, and is overly friendly. It doesn't make me think she is gay or interested in me . I just think she is a straight women, who knows can tell I'm gay, just by how I look and is in her own friendly way trying to tell me she is ok with it. In other words she's trying to show me in a subtle way, that she isn't homophobic. So talking to me and smiling and being friendly wouldn't make me think you were femme. I would think you were kind and just a friendly lady. Lol. Sorry . You would have to say something really flirty for me to understand you were femme, not straight. __________________ I don't want to spend my life with someone I can live with, I want to spend my life with someone I can't live without.

03-23-2012, 12:14 PM	#67
aishah Member How Do You Identify?: queer stone femme shark baby girl Preferred Pronoun?: she, her, little one Relationship Status: dating myself. Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: dallas, tx Posts: 1,495 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,823 Thanked 6,440 Times in 1,288 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	i don't have a fancy phone, otherwise i'd love the app idea! mine just calls and texts, lol. i need to get me a 2x4 though...or a necklace at least.

03-23-2012, 02:15 PM	#76
Martina Senior Member How Do You Identify?: * Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: * Posts: 4,999 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,409 Thanked 18,283 Times in 4,166 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	And saying something really flirty might make you assume we want to date you or as Snow says, get into your pants. i do not want to confuse anyone. i sure don't want to be rejected when i wasn't even on the make. So . . . .