What pissed you off today?

ruffryder · 03-27-2012, 09:38 AM

nothing yet. hope to stay that way!

Epicpwn · 03-27-2012, 09:54 AM

Damn cat spitting her meds out.. Those things are EXPENSIVE!

1QuirkyKiwi · 03-27-2012, 10:16 AM

Just my Scottish cousin bawling me out for not remembering his girlfriend's Birthday last Sunday.......HELLOOOO!? You didn't remember mine two weekends ago!

always2late · 04-09-2012, 11:55 PM

Something happened today...and even now as I write, I am having a hard time believing it. I have a good friend who is an FtM and who lives a "stealth" life. He no longer speaks to his family, and no one in his acquaintance knows him as anything but a straight male. Well...apparently he recently found religion...and he contacted me today to wish me a belated happy Easter. During our conversation, he asked how I was, and how my relationship was going. I replied that both I and my partner were fine and happy. He then said, "Doesn't it ever bother you?" I asked him what he meant and he said, "Well you know, living that life, being gay." He then went on to say something or other about "sin" but at that point I was too shocked to really hear anything he said. At first, I thought he had to be joking...then I thought that perhaps I had a seizure or a stroke, because I couldn't POSSIBLY have heard that coming out of his mouth! Quite honestly, it was one of the few moments in my life when something has struck me absolutely speechless! When I was finally able to speak again I said "ARE YOU FRIGGIN KIDDING ME??? WTF is wrong with you???" He tried to bullshit something about how he was just worried about me, because he thinks I'm a nice person, and now that he "found God" I guess he wants to save me from hell or whatever. SERIOUSLY DUDE??? What's it like in that glass house of yours?? Have you lost your mind?? Needless to say, our conversation did not end well, and I don't know if he will ever speak to me again...or if I even want him to. Sigh.

mariamma · 04-10-2012, 01:01 AM

...wow... That's boneheaded.

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Originally Posted by always2late

Something happened today...and even now as I write, I am having a hard time believing it. I have a good friend who is an FtM and who lives a "stealth" life. He no longer speaks to his family, and no one in his acquaintance knows him as anything but a straight male. Well...apparently he recently found religion...and he contacted me today to wish me a belated happy Easter. During our conversation, he asked how I was, and how my relationship was going. I replied that both I and my partner were fine and happy. He then said, "Doesn't it ever bother you?" I asked him what he meant and he said, "Well you know, living that life, being gay." He then went on to say something or other about "sin" but at that point I was too shocked to really hear anything he said. At first, I thought he had to be joking...then I thought that perhaps I had a seizure or a stroke, because I couldn't POSSIBLY have heard that coming out of his mouth! Quite honestly, it was one of the few moments in my life when something has struck me absolutely speechless! When I was finally able to speak again I said "ARE YOU FRIGGIN KIDDING ME??? WTF is wrong with you???" He tried to bullshit something about how he was just worried about me, because he thinks I'm a nice person, and now that he "found God" I guess he wants to save me from hell or whatever. SERIOUSLY DUDE??? What's it like in that glass house of yours?? Have you lost your mind?? Needless to say, our conversation did not end well, and I don't know if he will ever speak to me again...or if I even want him to. Sigh.

mariamma · 04-10-2012, 01:44 AM

Last Saturday I went to a local lesbian dinner. It's a light and fun occasion usually. But I make women compete with me all the time. I'm quite passive and hate competing. And usually competing with others is usually about asserting alpha dominance. The fight is never about the issue being fought over. Anyways, I love lesbian culture. I went to a dyke dinner at a local restaurant. A basket of rolls was passed around. I passed them up thinking that others at the other end of the long table didn't have any the first time around. Turned out they did. So I asked for the basket to return. I don't mind a hot roll with butter while I'm waiting for something better.
A pretty woman at the other end pulled out a roll, showed it to me and motioned as if she were going to throw it. I said "no" several times. "I'm a femme. I don't catch things." I know femmes play ball and catch/throw many things. But I don't. I'm way too girly to. She threw the roll. Good thing I ducked and it hit the back of my head. If I had not, the roll would have hit me in the face. What I don't get is...this woman looked at me as if I did something wrong. And she didn't pick up the roll which was now on the floor.

girl_dee · 04-10-2012, 02:53 PM

the scale, pissed at myself!

LaneyDoll · 04-18-2012, 10:03 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mariamma

Last Saturday I went to a local lesbian dinner. It's a light and fun occasion usually. But I make women compete with me all the time. I'm quite passive and hate competing. And usually competing with others is usually about asserting alpha dominance. The fight is never about the issue being fought over. Anyways, I love lesbian culture. I went to a dyke dinner at a local restaurant. A basket of rolls was passed around. I passed them up thinking that others at the other end of the long table didn't have any the first time around. Turned out they did. So I asked for the basket to return. I don't mind a hot roll with butter while I'm waiting for something better.
A pretty woman at the other end pulled out a roll, showed it to me and motioned as if she were going to throw it. I said "no" several times. "I'm a femme. I don't catch things." I know femmes play ball and catch/throw many things. But I don't. I'm way too girly to. She threw the roll. Good thing I ducked and it hit the back of my head. If I had not, the roll would have hit me in the face. What I don't get is...this woman looked at me as if I did something wrong. And she didn't pick up the roll which was now on the floor.

That is wild! Next time, tell her that civil people do not throw food in restaurants

03-27-2012, 09:54 AM	#2
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03-27-2012, 10:16 AM	#3
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04-09-2012, 11:55 PM	#4
always2late Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: m'lady Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: NJ Posts: 2,000 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,834 Thanked 6,231 Times in 1,462 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Something happened today...and even now as I write, I am having a hard time believing it. I have a good friend who is an FtM and who lives a "stealth" life. He no longer speaks to his family, and no one in his acquaintance knows him as anything but a straight male. Well...apparently he recently found religion...and he contacted me today to wish me a belated happy Easter. During our conversation, he asked how I was, and how my relationship was going. I replied that both I and my partner were fine and happy. He then said, "Doesn't it ever bother you?" I asked him what he meant and he said, "Well you know, living that life, being gay." He then went on to say something or other about "sin" but at that point I was too shocked to really hear anything he said. At first, I thought he had to be joking...then I thought that perhaps I had a seizure or a stroke, because I couldn't POSSIBLY have heard that coming out of his mouth! Quite honestly, it was one of the few moments in my life when something has struck me absolutely speechless! When I was finally able to speak again I said "ARE YOU FRIGGIN KIDDING ME??? WTF is wrong with you???" He tried to bullshit something about how he was just worried about me, because he thinks I'm a nice person, and now that he "found God" I guess he wants to save me from hell or whatever. SERIOUSLY DUDE??? What's it like in that glass house of yours?? Have you lost your mind?? Needless to say, our conversation did not end well, and I don't know if he will ever speak to me again...or if I even want him to. Sigh. __________________ Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing there is a field. I'll meet you there ~ Rumi

03-27-2012, 09:38 AM	#1
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04-10-2012, 01:44 AM	#6
mariamma Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: single Join Date: May 2011 Location: Oregon Posts: 352 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,458 Thanked 1,115 Times in 281 Posts Rep Power: 9628891	Last Saturday I went to a local lesbian dinner. It's a light and fun occasion usually. But I make women compete with me all the time. I'm quite passive and hate competing. And usually competing with others is usually about asserting alpha dominance. The fight is never about the issue being fought over. Anyways, I love lesbian culture. I went to a dyke dinner at a local restaurant. A basket of rolls was passed around. I passed them up thinking that others at the other end of the long table didn't have any the first time around. Turned out they did. So I asked for the basket to return. I don't mind a hot roll with butter while I'm waiting for something better. A pretty woman at the other end pulled out a roll, showed it to me and motioned as if she were going to throw it. I said "no" several times. "I'm a femme. I don't catch things." I know femmes play ball and catch/throw many things. But I don't. I'm way too girly to. She threw the roll. Good thing I ducked and it hit the back of my head. If I had not, the roll would have hit me in the face. What I don't get is...this woman looked at me as if I did something wrong. And she didn't pick up the roll which was now on the floor.

04-10-2012, 02:53 PM	#7
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