Bully - The Movie

nycfem · 04-01-2012, 09:38 AM

I went to see Bully by myself Friday night. I knew I'd be crying so I wanted to see it alone. The last two nights since seeing it I have had nightmares about being bullied. Most of us have either been bullied or been close with someone who has been bullied. The film is very powerful and moving. I was out very young and had the same thing happen to me in junior high as the lesbian in the movie did in high school, where she goes to sit down and everyone moves away from her. Devastating and all too common.

Scuba · 04-06-2012, 08:22 AM

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WolfyOne · 04-06-2012, 09:02 AM

I just read the rating was dropped from R to PG13, so now kids will get a chance to see it.

Scuba · 04-06-2012, 10:06 AM

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Originally Posted by WolfyOne

I just read the rating was dropped from R to PG13, so now kids will get a chance to see it.

Excellent to hear this!!! I know this has been a struggle for the filmmakers and there was some doubt that the PG13 rating would happen due to the number of F bombs dropped.

Scuba · 04-10-2012, 10:55 PM

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Bully opens around the country on Friday, May 13th

I'll be heading over to Seattle this weekend to see it.

aishah · 04-11-2012, 12:23 AM

i can't wait to see it! i only heard about it recently because a friend was mentioning that they excluded the fact that tyler long was on the autism spectrum from the movie. i thought that was interesting but other than that i haven't heard much about the film, so i just went to look at the website

now i'm very excited to see it.

i was bullied in school and i'm working on a project for youth who are queer and/or disabled who are responding to bullying and other forms of violence. one of the attitudes i've run up against a lot is that bullying is just "kids being kids" and that stopping it isn't important, we just need to teach kids to deal with it and get over it. i find that really troubling - that there is this belief that physical and emotional violence is okay or, like, a rite of passage.

Scuba · 04-11-2012, 08:48 AM

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Originally Posted by aishah

i can't wait to see it! i only heard about it recently because a friend was mentioning that they excluded the fact that tyler long was on the autism spectrum from the movie. i thought that was interesting but other than that i haven't heard much about the film, so i just went to look at the website

now i'm very excited to see it.

i was bullied in school and i'm working on a project for youth who are queer and/or disabled who are responding to bullying and other forms of violence. one of the attitudes i've run up against a lot is that bullying is just "kids being kids" and that stopping it isn't important, we just need to teach kids to deal with it and get over it. i find that really troubling - that there is this belief that physical and emotional violence is okay or, like, a rite of passage.

I find this extremely troubling too. As the spectrum of diversity becomes more visible (physically, mentally, socioeconomically challenged kids, gay youth, ethnic youth) in our communities and schools more attention needs to be paid to kids and their peer groups. Parents need to be aware of "indicators" of bullying. This is hard to accomplish when a community of adults is fearful of their own reputations should they take a stand against bullying. Taking a stand means that human beings, gay, straight, rich, poor, minorities, physically challenged or mentally challenged have a right to be treated with respect. That's a big leap for many, especially when it comes to gay and ethnic youth.

I was bullied in school for two reasons; socioeconomic class (I was middle class amongst the wealthy) and because I was gay (I looked like a tomboy).

Come back and post your thoughts after you have seen the movie. I'm incredibly excited and hope to actually see the original R rated version one of these days.

04-06-2012, 08:22 AM	#2
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