Why lipstick lesbians have to keep coming out of the closet

[Miss Scarlett]

i love my femininity/girly-girl side and everything that goes with it...curls, make-up, perfume and all other soft & pretty things. But i also embrace all the non-girly-girl things and make them my own. Femme is my core (just as being a submissive is my core)...so i don't need the accessories to make any sort of transformation...if i'm in grubbies because i've been turning a wrench on something i'm just as Femme as when i'm wearing make-up and something very feminine & pretty. Though i do so love the accessories...lol

At times in the past i felt the need to "explain myself" since i was often mistaken for a straight woman, but i no longer do this...perhaps this comes with age...i don't know. What i do know is that i am who i am...a Femme lesbian who is attracted to Butch lesbians...if the world can't figure that out it's not my problem...it only matters to me and my partner...