Newbie femme here--and a question about butches :)

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Originally Posted by dancer611

Hey! I'm a young (20s) pansexual high femme, primarily attracted to butch women. I'd love to make some friends and learn more about the butch-femme community...but my first question is, WHERE ARE ALL THE BUTCHES?! Especially near my age! And butch-femme groups as well...the dynamic seems to be rarely appreciated these days in many areas...all I see are other femmes, who want to be with other femmes, and a few butch girls who are always already taken. Where in the world are there strong butch/femme communities? I've heard Toronto!

I'm from Toronto and not sure how we compare to the US as I...don't really go there lol. The queer community here is pretty strong around the downtown area. My area is pretty queer, for example. There is a b-f community here as well, and there are occasional b/f/trans nights/get togethers. But I think most people just kind of meld into the general queer community and find each other that way, instead of sticking to b/f only venues. And yeah, still a lot of us who are in our 20s as well