Scaring straight women.. rawwrrr... lol

[Ginger]

Originally Posted by Quintease

A straight girl really offended me recently, only she had no idea that she did so.

I went to a networking event and took my husband else I would have known nobody. A woman came up to talk to me and we got along quite well as we were both foreigners. It was during a conversation about our travels that I mentioned my ex wife..

Instantly she changed. She became flirtatious, 'admitted' to me she was bisexual and called me hot, before finally confessing the one time she slept with a woman, it was fun, but she walked away feeling as though something was missing.

I was really offended. She was assuming I'd be interested in her while expressing solidarity with me, yet not actually being sexually attracted to women. I didn't bother to keep in touch.

Not to mention, how inappropriate at a networking event! Can you imagine her workplace ethics? Boundaries, people!!!

[Quintease]

Lol, true, except she's an erotic writer

Which kind of made it worse in my eyes.

[Ginger]

Originally Posted by Quintease

Lol, true, except she's an erotic writer

Which kind of made it worse in my eyes.

I was thinking about this and realized that the most sexually ethical people I think I've ever met, are those in what many would consider the most kinky or fringe or sex-positive communities.

For example, read the Lesbian Sex Mafia's home page—their setting of ground rules and respectfulness toward play partners or anyone in their community is commendable—and an example I wish more groups would follow.

Not to put too fine a point on it, but the straight women who engaged you in sex talk at a public event was doing so without your consent. Not cool! I'd like to drop her into a sex party and take bets on how little time it would take for them to kick her out.