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05-14-2012, 11:30 PM
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i love this thread so much
 these are qualities that are important to me in friendships... fierce loving honest direct communication being accountable when we fuck up showing up for each other, especially when it's hard being willing to stretch past our comfort zone for each other listening and honoring our feelings (all of the time but especially) when we need to vent and we're just pissed off sharing pleasure being kind to each other asking when we don't know, not assuming things about each others' identities, preferences, or anything else standing up for each other |
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05-15-2012, 01:57 AM
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Don't allow jealousy - of looks, of cleavage, of ability to do great make up, of brains (and yes, I'm guilty of all these) - get in the way of getting to know a fellow femme.
I've lost the chance to forge some great potential relationships by focusing on what 'she' has rather than what I have to offer in the way of genuine friendship and for that, I am truly sorry. Words |
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05-15-2012, 05:22 AM
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another thing that is important...
acknowledge us! let us know you see us (and love and accept us!) for who we really are! i was talking to my partner last night and to me that's one of the most wonderful things he's ever done for me.
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05-15-2012, 07:14 AM
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by recognizing how brave they are to come out
over and over  acknowledging how fn easy some of us butches have it because it's written all over our face we don't have to sayyyyy a word 
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05-16-2012, 07:59 AM
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But oh! the blessing it is to have a friend to whom one can speak fearlessly on any subject; with whom one's deepest as well as one's most foolish thoughts come out simply and safely. Oh, the comfort - the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person - having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words, but pouring them all right out, just as they are, chaff and grain together; certain that a faithful hand will take and sift them, keep what is worth keeping, and then with the breath of kindness blow the rest away. ~Dinah Craik, A Life for a Life, 1859
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 Squint your eyes and look closer. I'm not between you and your ambitions. I am a poster girl with no poster. I am thirty-two flavors and then some. And I'm beyond your peripheral vision, so you might want to turn your head~AniI want to think again of dangerous and noble things; I want to be light and frolicsome; I want to be improbable, beautiful and afraid of nothing as if I had wings Mary Oliver
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