Single Butch-Femme Questionnaire - Getting to know one another intimately...

[laruss]

Patiently waiting to hear from others in here.

[rockstar lover]

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only): Kirsten

Age: 34

Astrological Sign: Capricorn

Birth Date: (day only - not year): 9th

Location: Edmonton, AB

Height: 5'2"

Eye Color: brown/hazel

Hair Color: brown (w/ blond highlights)

Piercings - how many & where: none

Tattoos - how many & where: none

Cat person or dog person: cat

Job: finance

What do you like about your job?: I'm good at it

What do you loathe about your job?: can get boring at times

Favorite bands/musicians: serena ryder, celine dion, ABBA, amy bishop

Favorite movies: Mama Mia, The Notebook, Away We Go

Favorite websites: facebook, butchfemme planet

Favorite TV shows: CSI, Law & Order, Glee, 30 Rock

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? Ice-cream right? chocolate fo sho

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: a happy dance

What is your pet peeve: arrogance

Favorite curse word: fuck

Favorite magazine: Psychology Today

Do you like to dance? YES!!

Do you collect anything? tacky souvenirs

Would you ever have plastic surgery? no

Your idea of a good meal: med steak, grilled veggies

Introvert or extrovert: both (depending on the situation)

Dream profession: physiotherapist or psychologist

What are your Hobbies: camping, golfing, bootcamp, hot yoga, movies, singing

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: spiders!

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? yes

What do you get complemented on most often? my sweet nature

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? my height

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? mother theresa

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: spiritual, believe in a higher power

Do you generally feel understood? mostly

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? yes

Biggest concern about aging: loss of independance

What were you like in high school? class clown

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? yes

Issues that you feel most passionate about: domestic abuse

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: my mom's


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: lesbian/queer

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): soft-butch

Current relationship status: single

What you look for in a partner: sense of humor, passion, compassion, romantic, sweet

Number of times you've been in love: 3

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? how easily it was to lose myself in her

Monogamy or polyamory: for a life partner (monogamy)

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? don't want to say

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? yes

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? no

Age when you had your first kiss: 5

Describe your best kiss: full of passion and romance

Describe your last kiss: passion-filled

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: eyes, curves, smile, lips, long hair

What trait in a woman turns you off?: arrogance



PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: me lol

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? either is fine

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: dirty talk, submission,

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: too vocal or too aggressive

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? no

Do you have any Fetishes: no

Leather - yes or no?: no

BDSM - yes or no?: open to it. Ask & ye shall recieve

Have you ever had a one-night stand? yes

How often do you masturbate? every 2-3 days

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural? trimmed

[Babyangeleyez]

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only): Lisa

Age: 41

Astrological Sign: Virgo

Birth Date: (day only - not year): 9/15

Location: Virginia

Height: 5'2

Eye Color: Brown

Hair Color: Blonde highlights

Piercings - how many & where: 3 in each ear, nose, eyebrow

Tattoos - how many & where: 4 - Left ankle, right calf, upper back, left breast

Cat person or dog person: Both

Job: Certified Medical Assistant and Certified Phlebotomist

What do you like about your job?: Drawing blood

What do you loathe about your job?: Slow doctor. Always at least an hour behind.

Favorite books / authors:

Favorite bands/musicians: Stevie Nicks, Jason Aldean, Trace Adkins, Adele, Lil' Wayne

Favorite movies: You've Got Mail, Sweet Home Alabama, Dazed & Confused,

Favorite websites: This one

Favorite TV shows: Sister Wives, My Big Fat American Gypsy Wedding

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? All the flavors

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: Hmmm, I dunno

What is your pet peeve: People who don't use turn signals

Favorite curse word: F**k (yes I have a potty mouth)

Favorite magazine: People

A culture that intrigues you:

Do you like to dance? Yes

If you could change a law which would it be? A bunch

Do you collect anything? Not really


If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? 1969 Woodstock. I think that would have been so awesome to experience that.

Would you ever have plastic surgery? Maybe

Your idea of a good meal: Home cooked

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see?

Introvert or extrovert: Both

Dream profession: Own my own business

What are your Hobbies: Flower gardening, scrapbooking

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: I'm afraid of heights, snakes. Don't what "phobias" they are...LoL

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? Yes. No clue with mine.

What do you get complemented on most often? My eyes and hair

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer?

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? Preserve land, Clean up the rivers, lakes, etc.

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose?

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: Spiritual

Do you generally feel understood? Yes

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others?

Biggest concern about aging:

What were you like in high school? I was considered a "redneck". I was shy and only had a few close friends.

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? Yes

Issues that you feel most passionate about: Marriage equality

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: My mom


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: Lesbian

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): Femme

Current relationship status: Single for 14 months

What you look for in a partner: Honesty, patience, kindness

The "type" of person you tend to attract: emotionally "unavailable" butches.

Number of times you've been in love: 2 or 3 times

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? How overwhelming the feeling was.

Monogamy or polyamory: Monogamy

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? My son. I know its probably an odd answer, but I lost my son 4 years ago and if I could just hold him again it would make me so happy.

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? No

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? Never

Age when you had your first kiss: 12

Describe your best kiss:

Describe your last kiss: Mmmm....slow, sensual, with just a little nibble on the bottom lip

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: Their smile and eyes get me every time.

What trait in a woman turns you off?: Cheaters, liars, drama queens



PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: Someone I dated briefly

What are you self-conscious about naked? Nothing really.

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? Doesn't matter

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: Kiss on my neck

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: Being too vocal

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? Guilty

Do you have any Fetishes: No

Name your fetishes:

Leather - yes or no?: No

BDSM - yes or no?: No

Have you ever had a one-night stand? Yeah

How often do you masturbate? Every day...LoL

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural? Shaved

[Miss_J]

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only):
Jackie
Age:
43
Astrological Sign:
Libra
Birth Date: (day only - not year):
10/17
Location:
Detroit MI
Height:
5’6”
Eye Color:
Hazel
Hair Color:
Red
Piercings - how many & where:
ears 2 in one 5 in other. 6 additional
Tattoos - how many & where:
Left arm two, left shoulder to chest 1, center back 1, right back shoulder 1Cat person or dog person:
Animal person, I have 2 dogs and 2 birds
Job:
Casino/Dealer
What do you like about your job?:
The people and hours
What do you loathe about your job?:
The people
Favorite books / authors:
Green eggs and Ham.. Dr Seuss
Favorite bands/musicians:
Lil Wayne, Bruno Mars, Big N Rich, Dolly, M Etheridge, M Ferrick, The butchies, The Clicks
Favorite movies:
A walk to remember, first wives club, last samurai.. to name a few.
Favorite websites:
BFP, Fetlife, goregasm, suicide girls
Favorite TV shows:
How I met your mother, Bones, the Closer, House, SVU
Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors?
Chocolate
A silly thing you do when no one is watching:
Sing into remote
What is your pet peeve:
put the lid back on it!
Favorite curse word:
Son of a Biscuit eatin bastard!
Favorite magazine:
Bird talk
A culture that intrigues you:
Vulcan
Do you like to dance?
Yes
If you could change a law which would it be?
Helmet law
Do you collect anything?
Yes
If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why?
1935 to meet my mothers parents. They both passed shortly after
Would you ever have plastic surgery?
Yes
Your idea of a good meal:
Almost anything mama makes lol
If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see?
I wouldnt
Introvert or extrovert:
In the middle
Dream profession:
Pool side margarita sipping nymph
What are your Hobbies:
stamping, beading, learning herbs
Do you have Phobias, what are they?:
deep water…
Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours?
I believe in energy
What do you get complemented on most often?
my smile and eyes
What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer?
my knees want to give out on me
If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be?
1. Global warming 2. Pollution 3. Human condition
If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose?
My grandmothers
Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any:

Do you generally feel understood?
Most of the time
Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others?
I don’t fear death but the pain associated with it. I would choose to save others.
Biggest concern about aging:
Not being able to take care of myself
What were you like in high school?
Quiet lil stoner with a 3.8
Is the idea of marriage appealing to you?
Not so much
Issues that you feel most passionate about:
Elder abuse, child abuse, sexual freedom
The person whose opinion matters the most to you:
My mothers

PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation:
Lesbian
How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity):
Femme
Current relationship status:
Single
What you look for in a partner:
Realistic, honorable, loving, passionate, self assured, dependable, attentive, Dominant w/o being overbearing, fun loving, family loving, sarcastic in a fun way, independent, healthy in mind body and spirit.
The "type" of person you tend to attract:
I don’t know if it’s a type
Number of times you've been in love:
3
What surprised you most the first time you fell in love?
That it happened
Monogamy or polyamory:
poly friendly
Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world?
my father. I’ve missed him so much since he passed.
Have you ever had a long-distance relationship?
Yes
Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online?
Yes
Age when you had your first kiss:
5
Describe your best kiss:
that was toe curling soft sighs hands roaming yummm
Describe your last kiss:
sad
What are you most physically attracted to in women?:
Eyes
What trait in a woman turns you off?:
Insecurity


PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked:
My Roomie
What are you self-conscious about naked?
Not much
When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off?
I don’t have a preference
Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on:
pressed me up against a wall and kissed me hard, hand in my hair pulled slightly, talked.. explicitly
Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off:
Talked TO much, checking in every 5 seconds.. is that good for you?
Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself?
Yes
Do you have any Fetishes:
Corsetry, bondage, shoes

Leather - yes or no?:
Yes
BDSM - yes or no?:
Yes
Have you ever had a one-night stand?
Yes
How often do you masturbate?
Just enough
Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural?
Little bit of both.

[JistMe]

IslandScout .... Best answer EVER = Your idea of a good meal: Healthy and tasty, not labor intensive, but involving some chopping (which I enjoy), and prepared in a familiar and colorful kitchen with someone I love, both of us barefoot, the windows open, a breeze from the garden slipping through, a bottle of wine on the counter. We’re sharing music we just found, switching around on an IPod on the counter, and neither of us has to get up early, and everyone in our lives is okay for at least that one day. That is my idea of a really, really good meal.



The Single Butch-Femme Compatibility Questionnaire

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only):
Crys
Age:
37
Astrological Sign:
Sagittarius
Birth Date: (day only - not year):
December 18th
Location:
Cottage Grove, Oregon
Height:
5'4"
Eye Color:
Brown
Hair Color:
Dark Brown
Piercings - how many & where:
One ear, had my tongue done in my twenties, but not now
Tattoos - how many & where:
One on my chest (Many more are in my future)

Cat person or dog person:
Dog
Job:
Privately Contracted Research Assistant

What do you like about your job?:
I work mostly from home, make my own hours, and it's different every day. I'm a learning geek anyway, and learning new things every day keeps it interesting. The money isn't bad either.
What do you loathe about your job?:
My biggest client is SOOO hard to work with. I also hate the politics involved. I'm a pretty good writer, but I absolutely haaaaaaaaaaate doing it, so the articles and interviews... radio shows, etc... all get very old.

Favorite books / authors:
As I said, I am a learning nerd... so a lot of what I read is nonfiction. But I do like some literary fiction, and I absolutely love poetry.
Favorite bands/musicians:
Neko Case, Adele, Five for Fighting, Sister 7, Yiruma or any really good piano music, Acoustic anything, Anything country... LOVE the blues... I like it all.
Favorite websites: fmylife.com -- penzu.com -- Literotica.com -- Many Blog Sites... Open Source... PBS.org ...need I go on?

Favorite TV shows:
Documentaries, Science and History, Animal Shows... Also like some comedy, and reality shows.
Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors?
All the flavors
A silly thing you do when no one is watching:
Play with the baby's cookie monster piano
What is your pet peeve:
Toothpaste in the sink. Disgusting.
Favorite curse word:
Fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck

Favorite magazine:
Pastel Journal, Wet Canvas.. I dont read many mags anymore.

A culture that intrigues you:
All cultures are interesting.

Do you like to dance?
Yes... mostly with the music up, and the lights low... with someone special in my arms, us in our socks, and her face in my neck.
Do you collect anything?
Yes, I do. Maps, art, books... and apparently heart shaped rocks. I keep finding them everywhere.

Your idea of a good meal:
(smiling at IslandScout) Perfect answer.

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see?
I would go back to watch my kids grow up, and although it would be difficult to see how hard it was for them without me, I would make myself watch so I could better understand them today, and know where they are coming from.

Introvert or extrovert:
A little of both. I can be shy under the right circumstances, but am generally very friendly, bold, and outgoing. I have learned, however, that I like time alone.
Dream profession:
Artist
What are your Hobbies:
Art, Building Models, Fishing, Music, Reading... There's more.

What do you get complemented on most often?
That I look young.

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer?
I'm just generally a small person. When you look like a short and scrawny teenage boy, it's hard to get people to take you seriously -- professionally, and personally.
If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose?
Someone with really cool shoes.
Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any:
No, thank you.
Do you generally feel understood?
No.
Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others?
How would I know? That would be entirely situational. But more than likely, I would.
Biggest concern about aging:
Being alone.

What were you like in high school?
Same as I am today... almost exactly.
Is the idea of marriage appealing to you?
Yes, if I found someone whose world was that much richer with me in it, and mine with her... I wouldn't hesitate. It has to come easy for both of us.
The person whose opinion matters the most to you:
Mine.

PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation:
Gay
How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity):
Handsome.... and Awesome.
Current relationship status:
Single
The "type" of person you tend to attract:
Emotionally Unavailable Psychobitches
Monogamy or polyamory:
Monogamy
Have you ever had a long-distance relationship?
Yes
Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online?
Yes, long term. Successful? I like to think so, although we aren't together anymore. Any growth is success, in my world.
Describe your best kiss:
When I met "her".... we went walking around and window shopping. I bought her a bathing suit for her upcoming vacation, and a tiny ring with stars on it. It was hot out, so we got gelato. She put her legs across my lap, and fed me bites. She had the most beautiful smile, and when she looked at me, everything else just disappeared. I carried her shopping bags to her car, and watched as she put them in the trunk. When she closed it, I put my hand over hers.... and as she turned to look at me, I put my other arm around her, and kissed her there against the car. The whole world swirled away, and we got so lost in each other that we slid off the trunk.... just... FELL OVER... together, in each other's arms. I realized just in time, and caught us both. We both laughed, and she reached up and touched my face, and I was gone.

Describe your last kiss:
Same girl. But instead of laughing, this time we cried.

What are you most physically attracted to in women?:
Her heart.

What trait in a woman turns you off?:
Pushy, Bossy, Self Centered.

PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked:
Uhh... me?

What are you self-conscious about naked?
Nothing
When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off?
Low lights.
Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on:
Intimate moments with other's is not something I'm willing to share in a public forum.

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off:
(see above)
Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself?
Yes.
Do you have any Fetishes: *
Name your fetishes: *
Leather - yes or no?: *
BDSM - yes or no?: *
Have you ever had a one-night stand?
No

* = For details, send a SASE to my inbox lol

[Heavenleahangel]

The Single Butch-Femme Compatibility Questionnaire

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only):Tammy

Age:42 almost 43

Astrological Sign: Leo

Birth Date: (day only - not year): August 7th

Location: Upstate, NY

Height: 5' 5"

Eye Color: sparkling blue

Hair Color: blond

Piercings - how many & where: just my ears

Tattoos - how many & where: 1 on upper left shoulder I *just* got!

Cat person or dog person: both

Job: caretaker of the developmentally delayed

What do you like about your job?: the love I get from the people most of society has thrown away.

What do you loathe about your job?: State and federal budget cuts forcing some people to decide whether to buy meds or eat!!! ARGH!!!

Favorite books / authors:

Favorite bands/musicians: Country, hip hop, some rap, oldies, classic rock....

Favorite movies:

Favorite websites: BFP of course!

Favorite TV shows: Crime, mystery, medical shows,

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? ALL the flavors

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: let myself believe I can dance! Its quite comical!

What is your pet peeve: being late

Favorite curse word: Dayum!

Favorite magazine: Reader's Digest

A culture that intrigues you: the Amish

Do you like to dance? yes-if thats what you wanna call it..lol

If you could change a law which would it be? Allowing gay in every state

Do you collect anything? Monkeys


If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? Somewhere in the era of Gone with the Wind. I love those dresses!!!!

Would you ever have plastic surgery? Yes if I could

Your idea of a good meal: steak, good salad bar and warm bread

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? not sure

Introvert or extrovert: both depending on the situation

Dream profession: to be a doctor

What are your Hobbies: writing, singing, cooking/baking

Do you have Phobias, what are they?:

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? Im not sure. I sometimes believe that I lived before when I have bits and pieces of flashbacks and dreams.

What do you get complemented on most often? My beautiful blue eyes, writing abilities; how cute my son is

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? my diabetes being so fickle

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? end world hunger, stop the droughts in all countries, end human traficking

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? Jesus Christ

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: Christian

Do you generally feel understood? Yes

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? Definitely!

Biggest concern about aging: Being financially under-prepared

What were you like in high school? a little quirky, I didn't fit in as it was such a hige taboo to be "gay"

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? definitely

Issues that you feel most passionate about: human rights, equality

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: My son, Jacob. He is 5 so as long as it doesn't hurt him, then he's ok with it...


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: Femme: I never considered myself as a "lesbian" though.

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): see above

Current relationship status: Single

What you look for in a partner: too many things to list here, but the common-sense basicsl the strong/confident type

The "type" of person you tend to attract: Ya really wanna know?? lol

Number of times you've been in love: 3

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? How liberating it felt to be in love and appreciated

Monogamy or polyamory:

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? My soulmate

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? yes

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? yes I have

Age when you had your first kiss: 14

Describe your best kiss: the first time I kissed my first love passionately

Describe your last kiss: Jacob's "mommy kisses" the best in the world

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: the "strong/confident" stone/butch type mind

What trait in a woman turns you off?: those that do not take care of themselves



PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: Jacob when I thought he was sleeping

What are you self-conscious about naked?

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? both

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: sensual massage, showed their confidence;

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: wet/sloppy kissing; being obnoxiously gropy/feely

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? yes

Do you have any Fetishes: not sure

Name your fetishes:

Leather - yes or no?:

BDSM - yes or no?: some

Have you ever had a one-night stand? Honestly, no, I havn't

How often do you masturbate? very rarelly

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural? trimmed

[lusciouskiwi]

The Single Butch-Femme Compatibility Questionnaire

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only): Linda

Age: 47

Astrological Sign: Aries/Snake

Birth Date: (day only - not year): March 25th

Location: Malaysia (I'm a New Zealander)

Height: [B]5'8"

Eye Color: bluish/grayish with a bit of yellow

Hair Color: medium brown with quite a bit of grey, currently blonde

Piercings - how many & where: 3 in each ear

Tattoos - how many & where: one, lower belly, in from my left hip

Cat person or dog person: both

Job: Teacher Trainer

What do you like about your job?: being able to use my intellect, my teaching experience, being independent, helping others, teaching kids

What do you loathe about your job?: No ac in Malaysian classrooms

Favorite books / authors: so many! Judith Grahn, Witi Ihimaera, Patricia Highsmith, Janet Frame, Jennifer Levin, so many more!

Favorite bands/musicians: Joan Armatrading, Julia Fordham, Me'Shell NdegeOcello, kd lang, the pixies, Split Enz, The Topp Twins, Crowded House, disco, electronic/house, celtic, ... and more

Favorite movies: Strictly Ballroom, Shall We Dance (original Japanese version), Dirty Dancing, Ghibli anime, more ...B\

Favorite websites: [B]fb, bfp,

Favorite TV shows: Grey's Anatomy, Smash, Glee, Sherlock, So YOu Think You Can Dance...

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? everything

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: riggling my glasses up my nose by twitching my nose

What is your pet peeve: selfishness, dropping rubbish anywhere

Favorite curse word: FUCK!, also BUGGER!

Favorite magazine: Flavours, a Singaporean/Malaysia food magazine

A culture that intrigues you: Bugis, Sulawesi, Indonesia, they have five genders

Do you like to dance? LOVE dancing and a butch to dance on , would love to go to ballroom dancing classes with my butch

If you could change a law which would it be? laws that discriminate based on gender, sexual orientation or ethnicity

Do you collect anything? not at the moment


If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? to 1840 when the British Crown signed a Treaty with Maori - I would make it more legally binding in order to protect indigenous rights

Would you ever have plastic surgery? for surgical reasons already, for vanity, why not

Your idea of a good meal: either one I've cooked for my darling for a special occasion (or just to impress the pants of her) or somewhere special I've been taken to

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? John Key, Prime Minister of NZ, so I could then leak it

Introvert or extrovert: extrovert mostly

Dream profession: what I'm doing right now is pretty good

What are your Hobbies: bit of a boring fart these days - reading, watching tv, occasionally going to the movies

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: scared of heights

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? nope

What do you get complemented on most often? n the past, my eyes

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? [COLOR="Indigo"]the size of my feet. Please don't laugh.

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? end global warming, clean drinking water for all, reliable and appropriate sanitation for all

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? Oprah Winfrey would be pretty cool

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: be kind to everyone, torturing and abusing animals is not ok, give to others where and when you can

Do you generally feel understood? no, but maybe that's changing as I understand myself more

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? yes

Biggest concern about aging: diabetes

What were you like in high school? nothing much - didn't think I was intelligent or pretty or good at anything, didn't know I could question my identity or even that I had choices other than the ones presented to me

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? yes, would love to

Issues that you feel most passionate about: discrimination, lack of education for girls and poor kids in general, animal cruelty

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: trying to focus on myself


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: lesbian

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): femme/lipsick lesbian/lesbian feminist

Current relationship status: single

What you look for in a partner: a butch who's kind to themself, is comfortable in their own skin/body, where they are in their life and knows what they want, is an explorer and an active participant in life, understands and knows their own boundaries, enjoys seeking new experiences (in and out of bed), likes animals, has strong family/friend connections, smells good! Someone who wants to get to know me and is patient and persistent enough to do so, someone who can map every freckle on my body, someone who is proud of me and interested in me, someone who will seduce me to "ingenue"

The "type" of person you tend to attract: kind to others but doesn't look after themselves, passive (not always obviously passive). I'ma changing that!

Number of times you've been in love: three

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? thought she was my friend, I was surprised when a lesbian I knew teased me about it, this was at the beginning of my coming out

Monogamy or polyamory: long term relationship, monogamy

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? a couple of months ago I would have said my American ex, but now that I've been on bfp I'm ready for someone else ... if we're talking about fantasy, then kd lang

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? es

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? yes

Age when you had your first kiss: about 15 with a boy, early 20's with a lesbian

Describe your best kiss: in the shower with my darling, told her that she made me go kneak at the wees

Describe your last kiss: My Malaysian ex kissing me when I was almost asleep after we had broken up, trying to be dominant, too little too late

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: I must admit a tall, well built butch makes my grrly bits go all squishy apart from that lively eyes, nice hands, nice hair, energy, swagger , nicely shaped lips ...

What trait in a woman turns you off?: conceit, laziness, lack of drive/passiveness, unwilling and/or unable to hold a conversation, whiny or unsubstantial voice (I know that's not a trait but still ... there's not going to be any phone sex if your voice doesn't turn me on)



PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: my Malaysian ex

What are you self-conscious about naked? generally no

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? either or

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: stroking me - my arms, my side, my neck, stroking is nice, biting me on my shoulders, really looking into my eyes, groaning

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: asking me how long it was going to take me to cum, noisy wet sloppy kisses (shudder), kneading my breasts like they're loaves of bread

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? photos yes

Do you have any Fetishes: don't think so

Name your fetishes:

Leather - yes or no?: maybe

BDSM - yes or no?: maybe

Have you ever had a one-night stand? yes

How often do you masturbate? sometimes up to three times a day, but sometimes I find it too emotionally painful to masturbate and so sometimes it can be weeks or months, sometimes it's every day

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural? "down there"? natural but I can wax, trim or shave if you really want me too ...

[ferret]

My answers...

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only): Sue

Age: 40

Astrological Sign: Leo

Birth Date: (day only - not year): 8/8

Location: KY

Height: 5'3

Eye Color: Blue

Hair Color: Dark brown

Piercings - how many & where: None

Tattoos - how many & where: 4; upper arms, upper back

Cat person or dog person: Dog

Job: Verification coordinator

What do you like about your job?: I can dress how I want, the work is interesting, and management leaves you alone to let you do your job.

What do you loathe about your job?: Having to talk on the phone

Favorite books / authors: Lori Lake or pretty much any lesbian fiction

Favorite bands/musicians: Fleetood Mac, Duran Duran, Elvis, Brian Setzer

Favorite movies: Rear Window, Fried Green Tomatoes, Batman Begins

Favorite websites: facebook, websites where I can buy graphic tees, Bella Books

Favorite TV shows: Grimm, Being Human, Walking Dead, Rachel Maddow Show

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? Vanilla

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: Sing in my car

What is your pet peeve: People who are always late

Favorite curse word: Fuck

Favorite magazine: Curve

A culture that intrigues you: BDSM, even though it scares me

Do you like to dance? Yes, but I do it badly

If you could change a law which would it be? That gays would be allowed to get married in all 50 states

Do you collect anything? Batman memorabilia, books, movies


If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? 1955. Rock music was just starting to come out, and Elvis was at his prime.

Would you ever have plastic surgery? No

Your idea of a good meal: A good steak, salad, potato, and a really good bread

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? I would want to go and be with my sister for a day. We have a polite relationship, and I don't think I have a really good idea as to what she's like.

Introvert or extrovert: Extrovert -aka fun-herder

Dream profession: Novelist

What are your Hobbies: Photography

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: I don't like spiders, bugs, or bats

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? No

What do you get complemented on most often? My eyes

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? That I have aches and pains that I never used to.

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? Endless food supply, stopping deforestation, and hunting animals that are on the verge of extinction.

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? The president. He has a very difficult, stressful job, and I often wonder what it would be like to be in his position.

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: None, besides everything happens for a reason

Do you generally feel understood? No

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? I'm not sure. It would depend on the circumstances.

Biggest concern about aging: Slowing down, being forgetful, or maybe having to be put in a nursing home

What were you like in high school? I didn't fit in anywhere, really. I had a few friends, but generally kept to myself.

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? Not right now.

Issues that you feel most passionate about: Equality for all to get married and fair elections where our officials can't buy anything like, say, the presidency.

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: My mother's. Still.


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: Gay

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): I identify as myself, if that makes sense.

Current relationship status: Single.

What you look for in a partner: Femme, but not helpless. And I mean no offense by that. Someone where there's a physical attraction, but what's on the inside also matters. She has to have a good sense of humor, is intelligent, and can carry on a good conversation.

The "type" of person you tend to attract: People who I'm not physically attracted to, or loons.

Number of times you've been in love: Once.

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? I really didn't know it at the time; I just knew that I wanted to be around that person as much as possible.

Monogamy or polyamory: Monogamy

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? A girl that belongs to a social group that I do, although, we haven't been officially introduced yet.

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? Yes. And they suck.

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? No

Age when you had your first kiss: 19

Describe your best kiss: Passionate and it lead to other things

Describe your last kiss: It was more out of lust, I think

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: Eyes, smile, intelligent

What trait in a woman turns you off?: If she's extremely overweight.



PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: My ex

What are you self-conscious about naked? That I'm a little bit "pudgy"

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? I just want to be able to see the other person

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: Kissing the back of my neck, sucking on my nipples, kissing in general

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: When that other person is in a rush to get me off

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? No. Who in the hell would ever want to see me nekkid?

Do you have any Fetishes: Yes, but I've never been able to try it yet

Name your fetishes: Fisting

Leather - yes or no?: No

BDSM - yes or no?: No

Have you ever had a one-night stand? No

How often do you masturbate? Couple times a month, if that.

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural? Completely natural. For now.

[Girl_On_Fire]

The Single Butch-Femme Compatibility Questionnaire

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only): Jaime

Age: 32

Astrological Sign: Saggitarius

Birth Date: 29th

Location: Connecticut

Height: 5'3"

Eye Color: Blue

Hair Color: Blonde

Piercings - how many & where: None

Tattoos - how many & where: None

Cat person or dog person: Cat

Job: Writer

What do you like about your job?: Writing, promoting

What do you loathe about your job?: Editing, taxes

Favorite books / authors: Dean Koontz, Stephen King, James Patterson

Favorite bands/musicians: Tori Amos, Pink, Linkin Park, The Cranberries, Depeche Mode

Favorite movies: Labryrinth, Legend, Halloween (1978), The Strangers

Favorite websites: ButchFemmePlanet, CuteOverload, DamnYouAutoCorrect, Facebook

Favorite TV shows: Hot in Cleveland, The Client List

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? Chocolate please

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: Talk to myself

What is your pet peeve: People chewing noisily

Favorite curse word: Fuck

Favorite magazine: Don't read magazines

A culture that intrigues you: Native American

Do you like to dance? LOVE to dance

If you could change a law which would it be? Oh my. Just one?

Do you collect anything? I used to collect rocks but I left them in North Carolina

If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? I don't know

Would you ever have plastic surgery? Not unless I got mangled in a car wreck

Your idea of a good meal: Anything home cooked and gluten free

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? Hmmmm

Introvert or extrovert: Introvert

Dream profession: Writer

What are your Hobbies: Hiking, reading

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: Bees and highways

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? Oh yes. I'm an old soul.

What do you get complemented on most often? My hair, my eyes, my boobs lol!

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? It's very delicate and sensitive and allergic to everything

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? End poverty. Universal health care (with no strings attached). No discrimination, everybody lives equally.

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? I'm not sure

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: I'm a spiritualist

Do you generally feel understood? No, not at all

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? Without hesitation

Biggest concern about aging: Losing control

What were you like in high school? Geeky, quiet, terrified

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? It used to be...

Issues that you feel most passionate about: Bullying, equal rights

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: My aunt's

PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: Queer femme

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): Queer femme

Current relationship status: Single

What you look for in a partner: A strong, patient, calm person with a good heart and a spiritual side. Somebody with intellect and a sense of humor. Confidence and a take-charge attitude in the bedroom is a must.

The "type" of person you tend to attract: I tend to attract needy, clingy bois but I need to stop

Number of times you've been in love: Madly, completely, and totally committed? Twice.

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? How intense it is

Monogamy or polyamory: I'm on the fence about that

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? Yeah. Lemme skip that.

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? Yes

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? Yes. It was trying but yes.

Age when you had your first kiss: Boy: 14 Butch: 22

Describe your best kiss: I've had a few good kisses. The best is always the one where someone completely takes me over.

Describe your last kiss: Painful. Lots of tears.

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: Arms, Butt

What trait in a woman turns you off?: Being clingy, obsessive

PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: Her

What are you self-conscious about naked? My stomach. I'm thin but it's not flat.

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? Lights off please

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: Pulled that clump of hair at the crown of my head, bit me, held me down

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: Hesitating, stopping, being uncertain

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? Yes, a few

Do you have any Fetishes: Yes

Name your fetishes: I like to suckle ears, I love being held down, I love being bitten

Leather - yes or no?: Yes, in my fantasies (It hasn't quite become a reality yet)

BDSM - yes or no?: I'm open

Have you ever had a one-night stand? Yes and I regret it

How often do you masturbate? Um...yeah. Skip!

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural? That's my secret