What pissed you off today?

shiagirl · 06-11-2012, 10:36 PM

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Originally Posted by GreeneyedMe

Where is the respect??? Why is it that you are in a texting conversation with someone, and they just stop texting?? Leaving you hanging, wondering....did I say something wrong? Please have the common decency to at least end the conversation in a respectful manner! Grrrrrrrrrrr.....it happened 3 times with 3 different people today! WTH????

That is one of my pet peeves. I find it so rude and disrespectful. I hate it when people do that.

Leigh · 06-11-2012, 11:56 PM

I was only slightly pissed when the LA Kings won the Stanley Cup but eh, such as life

Ranger Butch Force · 06-12-2012, 01:26 PM

Sinks FULL of dirty dishes and the dishwasher was completely empty. Really folks, I can't wait for my new place to be done and I can move in.

Hollylane · 06-27-2012, 06:46 PM

The saga of my travel trailer break-in continues...

After going out to do one last look over, prior to a much needed, and much anticipated camping trip with my sister and her family, who I have not had the pleasure of camping with in 2 years (they live in AZ, I live in OR)...

I have discovered that the $400+ stabilizer bar, ball, and hitch, and even the grease can for these are gone. I didn't notice this previously, because the compartments they were located in, still appeared to be locked, which I'm certain was intentional.

Even if I could stomach putting out the $400 today, the parts have to be ordered. There will be no camping this week. I am in tears. I am so angry. I cannot believe it. I really needed this time in the outdoors with my family. I will now have to drive out to the campsite each morning for each day's activities. Worse things have happened to me, but right now, this feels pretty bad.

Previously, I thought homeless people had stolen just camping gear. That was something I could come to terms with. They needed it to survive. But, knowing how much this weighed, and the size of it, I now know that it was one of my frigging neighbors, who had access to the RV storage area. I am seeing red right now, but mostly this just makes me feel temporarily defeated, and very sad.

I would not mind tent camping, but due to my recent surgery, and the lack of tent camping supplies, I am not able to do even that. I can't even move the frigging trailer to a more secure facility, because I have no way to tow it.

Glenn · 06-27-2012, 08:23 PM

i think i sprained or pulled something.....cuz my right arm hurts when i move it.Damn... mosquito karma! 1888WAACK

clay · 07-01-2012, 07:24 PM

at first sight, it was that red hair and white chest
those soulful brown eyes that got to me the most
all the while knowing no one else wanted to claim you for their own
so it was I who wound up bringing you to my home
and now our tenure has been for 7 years
filled with lots of passion, kisses, and tears
my relationship with you is solid & grounded
while your fears of abandonment are unfounded
whether lying close, side by side
or with you snuggled on my lap
you are my very best friend
and you are mine until the very end
because your pawprint is on my heart
and you own my soul forever!!

girl_dee · 07-01-2012, 08:11 PM

inconsideration!

Kenna · 07-13-2012, 11:30 AM

I don't like destructive behaviors or red flags or physical and mental abuse...

I also don't like getting piss-poor edits from an anal think-she-knows-it-all coworker that completely messes up the formatting to a very difficult project that took COUNTLESS hours to create. I'd love to say back to her about her track changes "It AIN'T GONNA HAPPEN"... I'm the Policy Expert and Consultant... your requested, insisted upon edits obviously show your lack of knowledge...I don't give a rat's azz if your mother did beat you up over your grammatical use and punctuations... this is NOT a document that needs to be grammatically correct, it uses Acronyms for a reason...it's a "snap shot" billing matrix with billing codes... not a dang 200 page legal brief document.

aishah · 07-20-2012, 11:55 AM

today i am pissed off about...

cismen, even men in supposedly progressive muslim communities, thinking they are entitled to opinions about how muslim women dress and whether our dress is islamic/modest/permissible/okay. and generally taking up a LOT of space in conversations about dress. with no apparent awareness of how fucked up and misogynist their entitlement is.

and then needing to point out that "gender apartheid hurts men too." NO FUCKING SHIT. but men have more institutional power and ability to confront other men about that than women do. so, no, i'm not going to devote all my limited energy to addressing/fixing how much it hurts your entitled ass.

an older white cismale photographer turning frida kahlo into softcore porn by piecing together images of her body with nude images of other white women and women of color. these images (one in particular) have been passed all over facebook, tumblr, and elsewhere. i have seen people point out, rarely, that they are photoshopped. i have seen them lauded as revolutionary and artistic. i have not seen anybody point out how FUCKED UP THIS SHIT IS.

I AM SO FUCKING MAD ABOUT THIS SHIT.

what is fucking revolutionary and artistic about an old white dude appropriating and exploiting the bodies of women of color? old white men have been cutting apart the bodies of women of color for centuries. old white men have been objectifying, exploiting, and eroticizing the bodies of women of color for centuries. now just cause some dude does it in the name of art that makes it okay? NO. FUCKING. WAY.

i have not been this angry in awhile. i don't understand why i'm apparently the only one getting pissed off about this. or why people around me think it's unreasonable that this makes me angry. i am seriously vibrating with rage right now.

aishah · 07-20-2012, 12:32 PM

also anger during ramadan during the daylight is really really really bad spiritually.

but oh god. i am so mad i could cry. and i don't cry.

thedivahrrrself · 07-20-2012, 12:50 PM

Nothing yet... but I'm sure by tonight I will be pretty pissed at myself for my own procrastination, so I'm going to post this preemptively.

mariamma · 07-20-2012, 02:36 PM

I'm pissed at some dumb-assed douche-bag in Colorado.
gggrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr rrrrrrrr........................

06-11-2012, 11:56 PM	#2
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06-12-2012, 01:26 PM	#3
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07-01-2012, 07:24 PM	#6
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07-20-2012, 12:50 PM	#11
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06-27-2012, 06:46 PM	#4
Hollylane Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: . Preferred Pronoun?: . Relationship Status: . Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: . Posts: 11,495 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 34,694 Thanked 26,361 Times in 5,875 Posts Rep Power: 21474862	The saga of my travel trailer break-in continues... After going out to do one last look over, prior to a much needed, and much anticipated camping trip with my sister and her family, who I have not had the pleasure of camping with in 2 years (they live in AZ, I live in OR)... I have discovered that the $400+ stabilizer bar, ball, and hitch, and even the grease can for these are gone. I didn't notice this previously, because the compartments they were located in, still appeared to be locked, which I'm certain was intentional. Even if I could stomach putting out the $400 today, the parts have to be ordered. There will be no camping this week. I am in tears. I am so angry. I cannot believe it. I really needed this time in the outdoors with my family. I will now have to drive out to the campsite each morning for each day's activities. Worse things have happened to me, but right now, this feels pretty bad. Previously, I thought homeless people had stolen just camping gear. That was something I could come to terms with. They needed it to survive. But, knowing how much this weighed, and the size of it, I now know that it was one of my frigging neighbors, who had access to the RV storage area. I am seeing red right now, but mostly this just makes me feel temporarily defeated, and very sad. I would not mind tent camping, but due to my recent surgery, and the lack of tent camping supplies, I am not able to do even that. I can't even move the frigging trailer to a more secure facility, because I have no way to tow it.

06-27-2012, 08:23 PM	#5
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07-01-2012, 08:11 PM	#7
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07-13-2012, 11:30 AM	#8
Kenna Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Fiery, Sassy, Tough As Nails, Femme Tomboy Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: I am your favorite hello and hardest goodbye. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: NC & CO Posts: 4,806 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,624 Thanked 12,194 Times in 3,779 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	I don't like destructive behaviors or red flags or physical and mental abuse... I also don't like getting piss-poor edits from an anal think-she-knows-it-all coworker that completely messes up the formatting to a very difficult project that took COUNTLESS hours to create. I'd love to say back to her about her track changes "It AIN'T GONNA HAPPEN"... I'm the Policy Expert and Consultant... your requested, insisted upon edits obviously show your lack of knowledge...I don't give a rat's azz if your mother did beat you up over your grammatical use and punctuations... this is NOT a document that needs to be grammatically correct, it uses Acronyms for a reason...it's a "snap shot" billing matrix with billing codes... not a dang 200 page legal brief document.

07-20-2012, 11:55 AM	#9
aishah Member How Do You Identify?: queer stone femme shark baby girl Preferred Pronoun?: she, her, little one Relationship Status: dating myself. Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: dallas, tx Posts: 1,495 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,823 Thanked 6,442 Times in 1,288 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	today i am pissed off about... cismen, even men in supposedly progressive muslim communities, thinking they are entitled to opinions about how muslim women dress and whether our dress is islamic/modest/permissible/okay. and generally taking up a LOT of space in conversations about dress. with no apparent awareness of how fucked up and misogynist their entitlement is. and then needing to point out that "gender apartheid hurts men too." NO FUCKING SHIT. but men have more institutional power and ability to confront other men about that than women do. so, no, i'm not going to devote all my limited energy to addressing/fixing how much it hurts your entitled ass. an older white cismale photographer turning frida kahlo into softcore porn by piecing together images of her body with nude images of other white women and women of color. these images (one in particular) have been passed all over facebook, tumblr, and elsewhere. i have seen people point out, rarely, that they are photoshopped. i have seen them lauded as revolutionary and artistic. i have not seen anybody point out how FUCKED UP THIS SHIT IS. I AM SO FUCKING MAD ABOUT THIS SHIT. what is fucking revolutionary and artistic about an old white dude appropriating and exploiting the bodies of women of color? old white men have been cutting apart the bodies of women of color for centuries. old white men have been objectifying, exploiting, and eroticizing the bodies of women of color for centuries. now just cause some dude does it in the name of art that makes it okay? NO. FUCKING. WAY. i have not been this angry in awhile. i don't understand why i'm apparently the only one getting pissed off about this. or why people around me think it's unreasonable that this makes me angry. i am seriously vibrating with rage right now.

07-20-2012, 12:32 PM	#10
aishah Member How Do You Identify?: queer stone femme shark baby girl Preferred Pronoun?: she, her, little one Relationship Status: dating myself. Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: dallas, tx Posts: 1,495 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,823 Thanked 6,442 Times in 1,288 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	also anger during ramadan during the daylight is really really really bad spiritually. but oh god. i am so mad i could cry. and i don't cry.

07-20-2012, 02:36 PM	#12
mariamma Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: single Join Date: May 2011 Location: Oregon Posts: 352 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,458 Thanked 1,115 Times in 281 Posts Rep Power: 9628891	I'm pissed at some dumb-assed douche-bag in Colorado. gggrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr rrrrrrrr........................