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06-16-2012, 07:10 PM
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Kia ora from Malaysia
I'm a New Zealander teacher training in Malaysia (hope big brother isn't looking over my shoulder!). It's tough being a lesbian here, especially where I am. No clubs to speak of and the only other expat lesbian I know is busy being mummy. So ... when I'm not at work I'm at home with my 11 year old dog and complaining cat, and, from next month, my Master's (online) - although I do have some visitors coming but not of the sapphic persuasion. I haven't added any photos yet so all you blossoms will just have to imagine! ((fluttering eyelashes))
I read A LOT although I have to say not much literature. It's hot here ALL THE TIME (even when it rains!) and I read a lot of teen/young adult literature. It's easy, ok? And cheaper than alcohol. I watch cable tv. I love "Smash" and "Glee". What I most wanted to say is that I stumbled across this website from livejournal and it's a life saver! I've spent this past week being absolutely miserable over my ex (six long years ago I left San Diego), crying up a storm over what was apparently a joke (Ex "come and live with me in **country** for a year." Me "what about L?" Ex "She doesn't need to know"). When I finally messaged her saying that I'm not interested in crumbs, she said it was a joke. I'm still not laughing. Not even on the inside. I came across BFP and the first thread I read was Butch C*ck. I'm SOOOOO much happier! I have a meeting in an hour and a half (it's just after 9am Sunday morning right now) and then I REALLY MUST CLEAN AND ORGANISE my office. That's what I was supposed to be doing yesterday before I was derailed by the Butch c*ck thread (naughty evil butches!). And then I must get organised for an all-day workshop tomorrow and I need to fit in grocery shopping and dog grooming into that as well (mustn't forget to get tall colleague around to help me get the curtains down). It's an exciting life eh? But now, I have BFP.  "as she grew older, she cleared out more clutter & made room for matters of the heart" 
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happiness is a form of courage. George Holbrook Jackson Risk! Risk anything! Care no more for the opinions of others, for those voices. Do the hardest thing on earth for you. Act for yourself. Face the truth. Katherine Mansfield Motivate yourself or be miserable. Whatever has to be done, it's always your choice. Wayne Dyer |
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06-16-2012, 07:14 PM
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Welcome to the Planet! It is an awesome community
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06-16-2012, 07:36 PM
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06-16-2012, 09:27 PM
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welcome to the planet!
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06-16-2012, 09:48 PM
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06-21-2012, 08:13 AM
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Bumping this thread!
Let's show our newbie a good, old-fashioned BFP welcome!
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~Anya~ Democracy Dies in Darkness ~Washington Post "...I'm deeply concerned by recently adopted policies which punish children for their parents’ actions ... The thought that any State would seek to deter parents by inflicting such abuse on children is unconscionable." UN Human Rights commissioner |
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06-21-2012, 08:30 AM
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06-21-2012, 08:34 AM
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06-21-2012, 08:45 AM
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Riding off into the sunset with my Cowboi 
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06-21-2012, 08:47 AM
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howdy
Welcome to the Planet!
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what's a cowboy got to do to get a drink around here? 
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06-21-2012, 08:58 AM
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Happy with my butch.
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Nawwww thank you lovelies. I'm heading off to bed feeling all gooey
 sweet dreams 
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happiness is a form of courage. George Holbrook Jackson Risk! Risk anything! Care no more for the opinions of others, for those voices. Do the hardest thing on earth for you. Act for yourself. Face the truth. Katherine Mansfield Motivate yourself or be miserable. Whatever has to be done, it's always your choice. Wayne Dyer |
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06-21-2012, 09:03 AM
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feeling pretty darned blissful right now! 
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Welcome, welcome, welcome! We are so glad you are here!
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06-21-2012, 09:32 AM
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Spiritual Warrior..She Ra..Baby Doll, or anything close..ha! Relationship Status:
In perfect love and perfect trust I believe that will be directed..for now Just friends in my life. 
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hello
Stopping by to welcome you to the planet!
Looking forward to reading your posts.
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Believe what people show you the first time. It will keep you in balance, and will show you truth! ~*~ Author unknown ~*~ When negative thoughts come to mind, Let them die stillborn. Speak and do posotive in any situation, And watch your dreams grow and flurish. If you can't say anything posotive, Zip it up. Do not give birth to that which you do not want to see grow. See it, Believe it, Own it, Have it! ~*~ Lady Pamela ~*~ |
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