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cara, your values of love, respect for others, and self-reliance are all solid values to live by so thank you for taking the truth dare, I can vouch for it not being an easy thing to do. Also, excuse me for taking so long to respond to your answer.
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yep im waiting for a truth
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![]() ...All right, I guess ya got me...Mr. Dickly... ![]() ![]() |
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I'd like to dip my toe into the water with a truth.
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Yikes and I thought TheDivahrrself was evil!!! Oh come on now you know you love me!!!!! Good thing I'm fast. I'm hard to catch , I zig and zag, I'm pretty slippery! Blows kisses to Talon!!!
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Coming out for me was so hard - there was so much shame - and it took me, literally, years to come to terms with not only who I was but that it was ok; and it all happened right when I first joined the Navy, which I always felt was kind of ironic. Interestingly enough, I dont remember the first time I kissed a woman. I remember the first time a woman touched my hand in a suggestive way - she was on watch duty and I was visiting her because it was late at night and I thought she could use the company. She was the first lesbian I'd ever "known" and we met right after boot camp when we were waiting to go to airman apprenticeship school (a basic school for those of us who just "signed up" and didnt have an actual job yet). When she touched my hand, I froze - I had no idea what to do with myself. Spending so many years kinda sorta thinking you like girls but being told that was wrong, while trying to like boys even though that felt weird created an unbelievable lack of experience - so it wasnt as though I had been through this before with dudes - I literally had no clue what to do. All I remember is my head feeling very thick, I got quite dizzy, and a voice in my head just kept screaming, "kiss her damnit! kiss her!" Eventually - which in reality was probably like 2 seconds later lol, I pulled my hand away and made an excuse as to why I had to leave. ![]() The next "first" I remember with a woman was my first sexual experience, which started out as though I had no idea what body parts were what! Again, I froze and I was so scared and unsure of myself. It wasnt that it felt "wrong" it was more like I felt like I wasnt "allowed" to be doing this and feeling this way. I was scared and excited, unsure and ready for anything, I was filled with shame and boldness at the same time. In the beginning, the shame and fear won out and she literally had to put my hands where she wanted them and talk me through things; but eventually, the boldness won out and I was able to wrap my head around what I was doing, let go, and just run with it. It's fun to look back on that scared little baby dyke now and remember how scary all of those firsts were - a time when you thought every mistake would be remembered and mocked forever, without realizing that the exploration was the fun part ... and really, kinda the point. ![]() |
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digging in deep on this one.... I was 10 or 11 and my dad had picked me up for the weekend and we went clothes shopping for me and i got the cutest new pair of jeans and a couple new blouses, anyway we went to dads AA meeting somewhere in downtown and there were absolutely no bathrooms to be found...at least by me anyway and i was looking trust me....there was a balcony of some sorts and i stepped out onto it and really had no choice when my bladder burst all on its own....after the meeting i was in tears telling my dad what had happened, he felt really bad and told me that from now on he would show me the restrooms first in strange places...oy i cant believe i just shared that awful memory. ill take another truth though
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Gaea, what are three habits that other people have that you find annoying?
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Parker, do you like eggs and if so how do you like them cooked?
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I like to make scrambled eggs with a splash of milk, a sprinkle of Bisquick, and a dollop of Dijon mustard, which I then mix with diced and fried potatoes right in the skillet - top it all with cheese and sometimes I add some grilled chicken and wrap it all up in a tortilla. ![]() But my favorite is sunny side up so I can mix the runny yokes with my hash browns. ![]() |
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bellying up to bar...ordering a DARE....grinz
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I think this thread scares me just a little, but I'll offer myself up for a truth.
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Dammmnnn, you don't mess around! Sounds delicious!
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Ok Clay ......
Let's see ..... I dare you to write a really moving piece of poetry (at least 12 lines long) about something or someone you are completely passionate about and then post it in the "What Pissed You Off Today?" thread. |
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It's been my experience that where I live, a lot of femmes generally are interested in dating another femme. Or, people will get to know me, and/or eventually see a picture of me, and they drop of the face of the earth. I don't think I'm a troll or anything....And I certainly don't think I'm "too butch." Maybe it's because I'm honest to the point of being blunt (I feel like sometimes when people say they want honesty or the truth, that they just want a little bit, if that makes sense). I never thought it would be as hard as it is to find that connection with someone - both the physical and emotional- but apparently, it is. LOL, sorry. That's probably more of an answer than you bargained for.
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