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Old 06-30-2012, 07:21 PM   #1
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Myth: All butches identify as "He" or "Hym".

Fact: Many masculine butches embrace that they are female, woman and butch!

Fact: Some butches even identify as Gender-free!
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why did you quote me?

Can you clarify ?
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Myth: All butches identify as "She"
Are you serious?

You wrote "Myth: all butches identify as "She"."

Conversely, it is a myth that all butches identify as "He" or "Hym". There are plenty of masculine, female and women-identified butches that do not use male pronouns or identify as male.

There are also butches that identify as gender-free.

Simple.

I thought it was self-explanatory.
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Old 07-01-2012, 09:41 AM   #2
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Are you serious?

You wrote "Myth: all butches identify as "She"."

Conversely, it is a myth that all butches identify as "He" or "Hym". There are plenty of masculine, female and women-identified butches that do not use male pronouns or identify as male.

There are also butches that identify as gender-free.

Simple.

I thought it was self-explanatory.
Yes, I am serious

The last time I checked websters dictionary "Myth" meant not true, not real, a fantasy.

Why you would quote me personally, when I stated MY post on "Myths", you decide to correct them?

I understood perfectly what you meant as far as Myths, but not your facts as stated in your previous post. This thread is about myths.
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Yes, I am serious

The last time I checked websters dictionary "Myth" meant not true, not real, a fantasy.

Why you would quote me personally, when I stated MY post on "Myths", you decide to correct them?

I understood perfectly what you meant as far as Myths, but not your facts as stated in your previous post. This thread is about myths.
I am not going to debate you.

Conversely means the opposite of something!

We are both correct in our posts.

It is a fact that not all butches identify as he or hym!

There are many butches, right here on the Planet that do not identify as male but identify as masculine, female and women!

I was not saying you were wrong!

People have posted both myths and facts about gender on this thread. I am allowed to post a fact as I see it, in in the same way you are allowed to post a myth as you see it!

End of issue for me.

Period.
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I am not going to debate you.

Conversely means the opposite of something!

We are both correct in our posts.

It is a fact that not all butches identify as he or hym!

There are many butches, right here on the Planet that do not identify as male but identify as masculine, female and women!

I was not saying you were wrong!

People have posted both myths and facts about gender on this thread. I am allowed to post a fact as I see it, in in the same way you are allowed to post a myth as you see it!

End of issue for me.

Period.
Why quote me if my post didn't pertain to your post?

It clearly looked like you were correcting my post.

Im done too.
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Yes, I do understand anyone can quote a post as a jumping off point, we all do it. What bothered me were the "facts" that proceeded.Usually we jump off other post to continue to make a statement, or to agree with.

Didn't seem like either to me.
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