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07-11-2012, 01:12 AM
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I miss the beach in February ..feeling the awe and loving every minute I spent there.
.... back rubs .... picking up seashells ...taking pictures of the sunrise and sunset |
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07-11-2012, 04:39 AM
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i miss...
my Mom...she was the glue that held my family together... Spending hours dolphin spotting with Clay... Home as in OUR Island... Sitting on the veranda with Clay, sipping coffee, talking...or not, listening to OUR Island wake up and watching the gentle sway of the Spanish moss in the breeze... Seductive sapphire blue eyes and that bright smile... |
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07-11-2012, 07:05 AM
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Timed Out
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disinterested 
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i miss the walk for a danish
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07-11-2012, 11:08 AM
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single  Join Date: Jun 2010
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I miss being visible to my community.
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07-11-2012, 11:56 AM
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Infamous Member
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femme *blows a kiss off my finger tips ** Preferred Pronoun?:
~ hey girl ~ Relationship Status:
~ single & content ~ 
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peeks around Jesse's corner .. peek - a - boo I see u lol.. send imvites to the LGBT community for a BBQ @ Jesse's hola Jesse ~~
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07-11-2012, 11:58 AM
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Timed Out
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I don't drive a Uhaul. :) 
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I miss the Gallery.
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07-11-2012, 12:00 PM
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Practically Lives Here
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My young friend, and ex-coworker Alexandra...so, I'm going to meet her for coffee...Right now
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07-11-2012, 12:02 PM
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Oblivion and avoidance of difficult feelers.
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07-11-2012, 01:15 PM
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Magically Delicious
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Single and content 
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I miss having someone to hang out and do things with on a regular basis
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07-14-2012, 11:54 AM
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Senior Member
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Being able to go to the beach whenever, walks as the sun is rising, and nights with my thoughts.. Ahh the beach.
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07-14-2012, 12:15 PM
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Practically Lives Here
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Darn that Novelafemme....Tucson cravings...
Quart size, half lemon, and half strawberry:  The Eegee's Meatball Grinder... and places to work it all off... 
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07-15-2012, 04:58 AM
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Timed Out - Permanent
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masculine ones work best... Relationship Status:
♥ engaged to spritz ♥ 
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I miss my sweetheart!! Working extra hours to make the bucks has me not only not with her but not with her on the phone as much as i would like to be.
One more night babygirl and we can at least go back to our ear whispers again!!  
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07-15-2012, 07:54 AM
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Senior Member
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I miss...
Having that chemistry ...that spark... the wildly intense feeling of desire that consumes my thoughts of how much I want to please them in every way... that feeling of "I can't wait till they get home "...the excitement and tenderness when they reached over to hold my hand... that twinge of hope at eventually becoming a sincere, recognized member of their family as their accepted and recognized partner ....chemistry so intense that I would melt at the sound of their voice dropping even deeper when they were seducing me... I miss the incredibly passionate, "I WANT YOU, I NEED YOU..DAMN YOUR HOT!!" look on their face that very first moment while on top that I switched positions so they could watch and they could lay back and enjoy while still being in control, at that moment how their grip on my hips and thighs grasped harder telling me I hit my mark and they wanted more, realizing that was the first moment they had ever felt pleasure that intensely, striking me to "torture them with pleasure" for as long as I could hold out, I miss doing that for them and because it was ALL FOR them with the intent to totally and fully pleasure and give to them (thank goodness I was that flexible then)... I miss how they held me after that, arms wrapped tightly around me, face buried in my neck or under my chin, cooing softly of how much they enjoyed me... I miss discovering new things, "practicing " and exploring (growing together over months of discovery) ....I miss submitting to them all I am, and them later telling me "you're in control now"... I miss tenderness and connection ...
I miss the chemistry I had never felt before them and how alive I felt... how damn good it felt to be a Giver and receiver... too bad all that was thrown away because we didn't understand each other. I miss all that because I know I will never feel that intensity again .. I am dedicated to shutting myself off completely so I never again.....feel that chemistry or that twinge of hope at becoming accepted by their family as an acknowledged partner and the openness of that acknowledgment. |
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07-18-2012, 09:34 PM
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Practically Lives Here
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The sounds of the late night traffic that floats up from Mason street, while I am lying in a comfy King George Hotel bed, and watching the filmy white curtains billow into the room on a breeze.
Baby, will you meet me in San Francisco? |
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07-18-2012, 09:57 PM
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Senior Member
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it looks similar to this...
 I miss it cuz it seems I lost it some time ago, but only noticed it missing recently.. time and location of last seen not disclosed, to protect the bashful and innocent  I miss the shocked, excited look on their face when they discovered it was "there"... and the passion that ensued... I hope it didn't get tossed out when I replaced the Route 66 box... Time to make another trip to Adam & Eve 
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07-20-2012, 06:54 PM
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Senior Member
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I've been recently told that my post below was disrespectful and a gross violation of privacy. That was never my intent at all. (I rarely share online about who I date and when I'm dating, to protect their privacy and to not come over as immature and childishly infatuated.)
My intent was to describe the beautiful connection and chemistry I shared with someone and why I miss it. It was also my way of saying that being differently abled physically now, is preventing me from enjoying certain things/positions with a partner. I feel my physical health has robbed me of certain enjoyments... it's very hard to adjust to. I am also missing the mental space I had to be in to enjoy sex with any kind of penetration involved. Several years ago, I could never get to "that space" and penetration would trigger me into awful memories. Penetration with cock of any kind would send me into a very dark place filled with despair and ugly feelings about myself...then add to these feelings with my naive confusion of sex with a female who used cock, I had much inner turmoil for a long time. When I was with the partner described in the post below, it initially came natural to be totally connected to that mind space and our enjoyment of each other. I felt ALIVE for the first time ever! Not because of cock penetration, but because of the chemistry and connection. For over a year, I could "get there" to that mental space...then I lost that ability and developed a mind block... which is (my feeling and opinion) a reason why we didn't work out and why they no longer found me desirable. I have serious questions about that - having the mental place/mind fuck then loosing it and struggling to get it back - that I want to pose in open forum... but I can't. I miss being open and finding answers. I miss being open and free about sexuality and being able to explore what makes me an ALIVE and vibrant woman. I miss feeling unashamed about enjoying and exploring my sexuality, what turns me on and who I'm attracted to. I miss being "out of the closet" and permitted to be openly proud of who I am and proud of my gender and sexuality. Growing up like I did, I was always ashamed of these things and women where "made to feel sinful and disgusting" for enjoying themselves... then becoming a victim of many acts of violence, I lived ashamed of myself for years and years.... for a while, I felt unashamed and free... now I'm feeling forced back into a box/closet for several reasons, one being to protect those that don't share my feelings. Instead, I will refrain so I can prevent violating someone's privacy or their personal beliefs about sexuality. I sincerely did not mean to offend. Quote:
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07-20-2012, 07:19 PM
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we all miss pretty much the same things. we need the same things. love does that to us. you know, i told myself once (after falling in love) that i could not ask for more. if i die, i have experienced the art of making love to its fullest, i was satisfied. well i'm not LOL.
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07-20-2012, 01:12 AM
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Junior Member
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Butch, Boi, Relationship Status:
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Miss having a femme to do things with
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07-20-2012, 02:23 AM
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Senior Member
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Anything except for "aunty" Relationship Status:
Happy with my butch. 
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suddenly homesick
A good mate of mine from home has finally put her photo on fb and I suddenly find myself missing her, Auckland, and her ... we had some many laughs, hugs, sometimes cry, wine ... so many good times. Wow.
Going to look for some tissues.
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07-20-2012, 03:19 AM
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Timed Out
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I miss my dog.
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