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08-14-2012, 08:07 AM
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For me, i prefer a non -packing butch ! |
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08-14-2012, 08:59 AM
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I know of one that doesn't pack, though she doesn't come to this site, either.
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08-14-2012, 09:06 AM
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LOL. Why am I admitting that I don't pack? I figured maybe if I felt more male-oriented I would, but I definitely identify as a female and prefer female pronouns.
Eh, it's just a thought. Sue
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08-14-2012, 09:39 AM
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08-14-2012, 09:44 AM
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Pack or don't pack. It doesn't make anyone less or more butch either way. Do whatever you want.
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08-14-2012, 09:48 AM
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Exactly!!! Was waiting for someone to say that!!!! I've been with butches that do and those that don't. Some do sometimes, others never do. I certainly have never felt anyone was ever "more butch" than another. IMO being butch is in the mind and heart. It is not defined with what is hanging or not hanging between someone's legs.
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08-14-2012, 09:49 AM
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ebon-Thanks for that. I think the attitude I presented there is why people left b-f to create this site.
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08-14-2012, 09:54 AM
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Yeah what Ebon said. Some butches pack, some don't. Just be yourself.
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08-14-2012, 02:04 PM
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I think it's safe to say I'm just me, and take it or leave it, you know? Doesn't mean we're bad butches. Sue
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08-14-2012, 02:52 PM
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Joining in with the non-packers.
I used to think I had to pack to be butch - because I kept hearing about butches packing and rarely ever heard from the non-packing butches .... especially on the dash site. But I wasnt being authentic to myself when I packed because that wasnt who I really was, so now I only wear my cock when I intend to use it. If someone cant appreciate me for the butch that I *am* and not the butch that *they want me to be*, why would I want to be with them anyway? Truth is: I wouldnt.  |
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08-14-2012, 10:26 AM
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So does that make her c*ck a Femme c*ck, because she is not male ID'ing? hell no! I love the fact that for HER, she can feel comfortable in her own skin and with or without packing. Same as for everyone else. Find what is comfortable and TRUE for you, and live that life! |
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