Was at the Dr today for my Militia physical

[yotlyolqualli]

Originally Posted by funkyfemme

I'm not hating sweetheart, I can smell BS when it's fresh and have no problem calling someone out on it.

Now, how's about you go back and look through my 600+ posts and see if you can find any fuckin drama!! I DO NOT do drama AT ALL!! It just so happens that this last thread was the final straw (maybe my raging PMS had something to do with it, whofuckinknows!)! I smelled BS from day one with this person and simply rolled my eyes, laughed and let it go thread after ridiculous thread started by her and then.I.snapped! I hate when I lose control like that.

Oh and BTW, I'm not belittling or putting her down. I simply asked for a little proof (along with several other ppl) to back up some of her outrageous claims. Funny how she has continued to ignore folks that (in the beginning) showed an interest and wanted to see just how amazing she supposedly is. Where's the harm in that? When someone is that badass/awesome, we lesserthans just wanna gawk and perv.

"Bless her heart"

"I feel sorry for her"

"SWEETHEART!!??"

Ok, now, your above posts, taken of course, at face value, because obviously, I don't KNOW you, but, apparently, that doesn't mean a damned thing when it comes to judging people, at least for you... based on that above post, you don't truly give a flying fuck if her heart is ever blessed, you could give a rats ass about her... and hence can't feel sorry for her.. and I don't know where you come from... but if I were in a workplace and ANYONE I did not know, called me sweetheart, which, unless it is said from a lover to her lover is diminishing in it's use, I would turn your ass in.

I would never call anyone by anything but there name, or, on here, their handle, without first, asking permission.

But, again, looking back at your responses here (the entire PMS excuse) and again, without TRULY knowing you, (and we've already established that that isn't necessary to judge someone) I'd say you knew damned full well when you said those afore mentioned things, you were being demeaning, in a honey coated kind of way. I too KNOW the southern "polite" sweet as pie, ways of putting others down, and they are no less demeaning then one's spouted straight out.

As for thriving on drama... well.. ya'll... I challenge you to look at any of my posts and find any place where I have deliberately and methodically tried to rip someone, or their authenticity, apart. The only harsh words I have ever posted, were in response to hate filled posts directed at an individual. Especially when they are done by a mob mentality... it feeds off of itself and really, aren't we all just a little to OLD and intelligent to simply say or do something just because we can??

I am genuinely (tongue in cheek) concerned for you, however. If an online forum can make you lose your temper, what does the real world do to you?

Ok... that last bit was snarky, I'll just blame on the anemia and low hemoglobin, the cramps, ovulating and just being downright grumpy today.

[yotlyolqualli]

steph, do you take any kind of protein supplements? I am always, always, always low on iron and protein... like mal nourished low... and I've not been able to tolerate protein supplements, however, I am sure they are coming up with new ones and am always looking for things I can do that doesn't include raw liver, beef or even eating meat every single day for the rest of my entire life (cause while I like meat, my stomach doesn't always).

BTW, welcome to the Planet. I've enjoyed reading your threads!

[Toughy]

Everybody keeps talking about how much weight she can lift. I'm clueless about that. Anybody want to share it and was it a dead lift, a bench press, clean and jerk or what?

I'm also clueless about her lying or not.........and who cares.....

Certainly instead of a new thread this could have been posted in the WTF/Zombie thread, but then we would not have all this drama about truth-telling. And she is a newbie and might not yet have the hang of all the threads.

[princessbelle]

In the words of Paul...

[firegal]

Originally Posted by Toughy

Everybody keeps talking about how much weight she can lift. I'm clueless about that. Anybody want to share it and was it a dead lift, a bench press, clean and jerk or what?

I'm also clueless about her lying or not.........and who cares.....

Certainly instead of a new thread this could have been posted in the WTF/Zombie thread, but then we would not have all this drama about truth-telling. And she is a newbie and might not yet have the hang of all the threads.

Toughy stephs post in another thread here states she does...

Bench 450- 20 reps
Squat 670 10 reps
Dead lift 915-5 reps

World powerlifting Federation records

Womens open class
Liz Freel USA dead Lift 227 Kg.=500 pounds 9/6/10

Deborah Fennel USA benched 419.5 pounds 5/2006

These were ONE rep mind you.

So 20 reps at 450 would make more than a few folks cock their head to the side and go....what?????

Alot has been chewed up and spit out.... what i,m hearing that saddens me is justification for untruth....if one of our bros or sisters get lied to and hurt we dont sit and defend....

and we wouldnt sit and ignore.

Some of these claims are very questionable.... played 6 years on a team thats only been formed since 2008.

I noticed it weeks ago and ignored it.... but the stuff going on here got me to post.

Especially when i hear untruths being defended and in the same breath talking about folks here being hurt by lies and DECEPTION.

Is it ok or isnt it folks? Is there good deception and bad deception?

Which is acceptible?

[BullDog]

Not one single person has defended lying or deception. If she is lying about how much weight she lifts she only hurts herself. Don't believe her if don't want to.

[QueenofSmirks]

A perfect example of irony and contradiction: claiming not to care about what someone posts, but obviously caring enough to ask why other people care. Perfect.

[Nomad]

show of hands.....how many people have never told a lie or made a fool of themselves? fact: some of us do it repeatedly until the self-respect light comes on. yep. self-respect. has nothing to do with the audience and everything to do with thinkin you're not good enough as you are.

there are lots of nice people who used to be serious idiots. i spent decades of my life being a f*ck up and i'm never gonna be anything other than a person who used to be a f*ck up. hell i coulda made a damn profession outta being stoopid. sometimes it takes half a lifetime or more to learn basic human being sh*t, believe it or not. if owning that means that i cant become a better person in your eyes then by all means, click the 'ignore' option next to my name. i'll help you point the cursor.

so sick of the 'i'm better than you because i dont tell lies' attitude. tell lies all you want. i might not trust you with everything but i'll always look to understand the reasons why you lie because there's information there that will help me understand something about you and maybe learn something myself. but publicly deride others for their humanity, weaknesses and short comings and i wont bother trying to understand your reasoning. i already know it:

- a liar thinks they need to be better than they are, so they lie. it's sad but it's usually fixable.
- the sanctimonious already believe they're better than everyone else and they're out to prove it. gotta be careful tho. that holier than thou sh*t can be permanent if you're not payin attention.

[BullDog]

I certainly see a lot of contradictions all right.

I care about how new and young people are treated here- not one of our strong points. As I say, until I see any reason not to, I will cut them slack. I don't care for lying or deceit of any kind, but if they aren't endangering others it is their problem to deal with.

[Daywalker]

We've seen it all on the forums, and have probably at one
point in our lives done one or more of the following:

Embellishing

Exaggerating

Fabricating

The kind of thing that seems harmless...right?

Then there is lying.
And the Intent.

To Me
...to lie with the intent to make yourself feel better does not mean
that you're always aware of the fact that while doing
so you are making others feel as though the intent
is to make them feel bad about themselves.

I learned this one at a young age.

But there's a default feature of my own
that follows the veins of the 'benefit of the doubt' theory.


Throwing in statistics that make the OP's numbers from another thread
seem unobtainable surely has to have folks wondering whether
there's embellishing or otherwise happening.

So I think that speculating seems fairly ordinary at this point.

Of course, the manner in which we all engage about it should
not be such that it raises the blood pressure of our keyboards...n stuff.

[Ginger]

Originally Posted by Daywalker

We've seen it all on the forums, and have probably at one
point in our lives done one or more of the following:

Embellishing

Exaggerating

Fabricating

The kind of thing that seems harmless...right?

Hi, Daywalker.

No, I haven't been aware of seeing any of those things on the threads.

And there were only a couple times when I thought there was intentional fabrication designed to manipulate readers in a potentially malicious way—and I reported it.

But the vast majority of the time, I take things at face value. Your post makes me wonder if I'm not a critical enough reader.

Thinking about it.
Scout

[Strappie]

Quite honestly I'm a little sad Admin hasn't shut this thread down... This has gone way to far and to be honest... The truth will come out eventually....

Let it be already!

[QueenofSmirks]

Originally Posted by Strappie

Quite honestly I'm a little sad Admin hasn't shut this thread down... This has gone way to far and to be honest... The truth will come out eventually....

Let it be already!

I'm not sure what you're basing your opinion on, but I don't see anything that far out of line. I saw some shitty posts, yes, but nothing I haven't seen before, and I'm not even sure they broke any TOS. I see a lot of posts where people are questioning the OP's statements because they are quite fantastic, but like so many of these types of threads, when the OP doesn't return to respond to even the most neutral and sincerest of questions, it leads to speculation by others who have already posted. And like other threads before this, if the OP never comes back, it'll be chalked up to another hoax and everyone will forget about it.

[CharmingButch25]

I apologize I didn't mean anything bad, hope everyone has a good evening

[stephfromMIT]

Originally Posted by Toughy

Everybody keeps talking about how much weight she can lift. I'm clueless about that. Anybody want to share it and was it a dead lift, a bench press, clean and jerk or what?

I'm also clueless about her lying or not.........and who cares.....

Certainly instead of a new thread this could have been posted in the WTF/Zombie thread, but then we would not have all this drama about truth-telling. And she is a newbie and might not yet have the hang of all the threads.

My calithestics are:

425 Situps
295 Pushups
180 Chinups

[apretty]

I'm getting a Pap tomorrow, I hope I'm cleared to play, too.

[Kobi]

Originally Posted by apretty

I'm getting a Pap tomorrow, I hope I'm cleared to play, too.

Considering the Militia season ended in July, your PAP might be a moot point.

[ruffryder]

Originally Posted by stephfromMIT

My calithestics are:

425 Situps
295 Pushups
180 Chinups

Isn't the word calisthenics?

And what are you doing with a Militia physical? Just wondering... What did you need one for? How did your dr measure your body fat?

Thanks!

[tazz]

Originally Posted by stephfromMIT

My calithestics are:

425 Situps
295 Pushups
180 Chinups

***geeeeezus!! will you be my trainer?? and if i felt like stopping would you push me beyond??

SERIOUS.