LGBT friends you have IRL

SugarFemme · 09-03-2012, 12:17 AM

I have ZERO gay/queer friends IRL. I hate it. I feel so isolated in my queerness. I am 100% out and no one to be queer with LMAO jk. Seriously,

Quintease · 09-03-2012, 01:31 AM

This is a toughie as ALL of my friends are gay, in every city I've lived in.

Instead I'll mention the few exceptions.

My bi curious ex-colleague who has told me many times that she should have been bisexual (she's quite political). My bestie in school who used to pretend I was her gf to get rid of creepy guys, now she's happily married to a man. My other school friend who was always gay-friendly only to unexpectedly fall in love with a woman. They've been together for almost a decade now. My other high school friend who's a doctor and has been with the same man since her teens. And that's it. Except for a few people that I was friends with IRL for a while but are now restricted to Facebook.

always2late · 09-03-2012, 03:04 AM

I would say the straight to queer ratio of my friends is about 60%-40%. I would like to get more active in my local gay community, but I think that is going to have to wait until I'm done with school. I don't see my friends, whether gay or straight, as often as I'd like due to my schedule, my son, etc...

girl_dee · 09-03-2012, 06:43 AM

Steph you sure are a thought provoker!

We had a gay guy friend over for dinner yesterday! i haven't really thought about it because to me we only associate with people who are accepting of our queerness and lifestyle, it's rather fluid so until now i haven't thought about it.

09-03-2012, 01:31 AM	#2
Quintease Member How Do You Identify?: Rainbow femme Preferred Pronoun?: princess Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: United Kingdom Posts: 514 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 508 Thanked 1,817 Times in 417 Posts Rep Power: 10560327	This is a toughie as ALL of my friends are gay, in every city I've lived in. Instead I'll mention the few exceptions. My bi curious ex-colleague who has told me many times that she should have been bisexual (she's quite political). My bestie in school who used to pretend I was her gf to get rid of creepy guys, now she's happily married to a man. My other school friend who was always gay-friendly only to unexpectedly fall in love with a woman. They've been together for almost a decade now. My other high school friend who's a doctor and has been with the same man since her teens. And that's it. Except for a few people that I was friends with IRL for a while but are now restricted to Facebook. __________________ It is not worth an intelligent person's time to be in the majority. By definition, there are already enough people to do that.

09-03-2012, 03:04 AM	#3
always2late Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: m'lady Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: NJ Posts: 2,000 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,834 Thanked 6,231 Times in 1,462 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	I would say the straight to queer ratio of my friends is about 60%-40%. I would like to get more active in my local gay community, but I think that is going to have to wait until I'm done with school. I don't see my friends, whether gay or straight, as often as I'd like due to my schedule, my son, etc... __________________ Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing there is a field. I'll meet you there ~ Rumi

09-03-2012, 12:17 AM	#1
SugarFemme Member How Do You Identify?: Fierce Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Singular Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: Southwest Posts: 1,029 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 650 Thanked 4,460 Times in 854 Posts Rep Power*: 21474851	I have ZERO gay/queer friends IRL. I hate it. I feel so isolated in my queerness. I am 100% out and no one to be queer with LMAO jk. Seriously,

09-03-2012, 06:43 AM	#4
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,832 Times in 13,908 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	Steph you sure are a thought provoker! We had a gay guy friend over for dinner yesterday! i haven't really thought about it because to me we only associate with people who are accepting of our queerness and lifestyle, it's rather fluid so until now i haven't thought about it.