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Old 09-04-2012, 09:10 AM   #1
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I question myself, my ability to be relationship material after being rather burned this last time, I know I'm still
that invisible lesbian to most that I come in contact with....now I will appear "older" I'm afraid.....
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I can so relate to what you've written. I try every day to stay positive and know that I am lovable and desirable. Not always easy but when I don't believe it myself, I pretend that I do until I do. May sound crazy but it works for me when I need it to.
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I can so relate to what you've written. I try every day to stay positive and know that I am lovable and desirable. Not always easy but when I don't believe it myself, I pretend that I do until I do. May sound crazy but it works for me when I need it to.
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I do that to....
Cuz I just dont understand y am still single, and wonder what is
wrong with me.
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Cuz I just dont understand y am still single, and wonder what is
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Been there, done that. Not a good feeling. I was told when you stop looking your love will find you. So, I stopped looking and love found me. That was almost 13 years ago. Love will find you as well.
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I can so relate to what you've written. I try every day to stay positive and know that I am lovable and desirable. Not always easy but when I don't believe it myself, I pretend that I do until I do. May sound crazy but it works for me when I need it to.
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Well, I suppose there are a few of us that need to work on that! Glad I'm not alone . Im having hip replacement at a fairly young age, it feels very scary to think that that will have a bearing on whether or not anyone will ever want me...how I'll be "seen", if that makes sense. Always been a go getter and have been seriously side lined for the past year+, so I definitely will have some work to do!
Right now my dryer is buzzing....downstairs, omg
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Well sitting here...... waiting to get truck loaded..... thn its off to the Texas hot lands
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[nomedia="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kOtiyzk3MYI&feature=youtube_gdata_player"]Karmin - Brokenhearted (Official Music Video) - YouTube[/nomedia]
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When things go wrong or not how I'd like them to do, my first instinct is to wonder what in the hell is wrong with me. I feel so messed up in so many ways; defective, almost. It makes me wonder why I even bother with wanting a relationship, but yet, I keep waiting for it.

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When things go wrong or not how I'd like them to do, my first instinct is to wonder what in the hell is wrong with me. I feel so messed up in so many ways; defective, almost. It makes me wonder why I even bother with wanting a relationship, but yet, I keep waiting for it.

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.....DITTO ....
ON THAT....

I always hear how id make someone a great wife..... so many times... sooooo
here I sit .... broken hearted waiting for the right one to call me ......
Maybe someone will claim the song I posted above ..... if they know my number ... sigh....
And heres my number is another song. Ha
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Evening fellow Lofters! I have a brand new hip!
Ready to dance very soon.....ll

Hope everyone is well
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Ready to dance very soon.....ll

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WooHoo! Great for you

I am a terrible dancer...Toes beware! Though I do very well with the slow dances when I don't have to pick up my feet When you are ready, give a holler!
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thats awsome news......... Lipstick....

i went mall shopping today... and geezers now im pooped. could barely climb bk in my truck lol
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thats awsome news......... Lipstick....

i went mall shopping today... and geezers now im pooped. could barely climb bk in my truck lol

Good evening MS. It is late, but thought I would say hi before calling it a night!

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