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Old 03-11-2010, 12:37 PM   #1
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OMG!!! Can you tango? It's my favorite dance and music!!! And I love, love, love the Argentinian accent!!! Eh, che??

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ps. I speak Spanish too. I grew up ion Argentina.
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OMG!!! Can you tango? It's my favorite dance and music!!! And I love, love, love the Argentinian accent!!! Eh, che??
Me encanta el Tango tambien! I am listening to it today actually. Dancing it? Very very basic knowledge.

The Porteño accent is very sexy!

Buenos Aires en cinco años, instead of España then.
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Bueno, mi amor, mis abuelos son de Las Canarias, so, I would like to see Tenerife before I depart this planet. However, quiero ver a la tumba de Evita (my personal heroine), and learn tango from a native Porteño. Hey, and why not do both - Las Canarias, y Buenos Aires...que viva la Hispanidad!!!

Ok, now you got me in the mood to hear tango...heading for my cd collection...hmmm, let's see - Libertad LaMarque, or Carlos Gardel (my mom's favorite)...oh dear, decisions, decisions...

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The Porteño accent is very sexy!

Buenos Aires en cinco años, instead of España then.
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Bueno, mi amor, mis abuelos son de Las Canarias, so, I would like to see Tenerife before I depart this planet. However, quiero ver a la tumba de Evita (my personal heroine), and learn tango from a native Porteño. Hey, and why not do both - Las Canarias, y Buenos Aires...que viva la Hispanidad!!!
Bueno, Both places it is!
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Yayyyyyyy!!!! Okey, dokey.

Now, back to reality...and I'm *still* on this damned computer!!!! Gosh, I'm an addict!!!! Ok, later, my friend - for real now, lol.

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Five years from now, I will be 2 months away from (very comfortably) retiring after 20 years of federal civil service. I intend to travel a bit and buy some property in a cooler climate (possibly Montana), so I won't have to roast in Las Vegas during the summer months.

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Para ti, con cariño. From my favorite movie The Tango Lesson
[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z_exd6U1ubY"]YouTube- Libertango - Video de película Lección de Tango (Yo Yo Ma)[/ame]

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The Porteño accent is very sexy!

Buenos Aires en cinco años, instead of España then.
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I thought as much, but Vancouver, WA is lovely too.

If you continue to include WA state in your potential areas to move to, consider Seattle and the areas surrounding it. I live about 45 minutes by ferry away from it and about an hour and 15 minutes driving time away and I really like it.
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I thought as much, but Vancouver, WA is lovely too.

If you continue to include WA state in your potential areas to move to, consider Seattle and the areas surrounding it. I live about 45 minutes by ferry away from it and about an hour and 15 minutes driving time away and I really like it.

Definitely will keep it in mind.
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I will try to get pregnant when I am 35.
In 5 years.
gives us plenty of time to get things in order and prepare.

are you ever really prepared for that?




on the way, I will continue to do a good job keeping my finances in order, keeping my head right with work and life and getting my butt into shape.
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1. Finish my Ph.D, or be real close
2. Buy a house-or move
3. Kids near graduation-plan for college
4. Get published
5. In much better shape than now-in fact, running marathons
6. Having a productive, fulfilling career
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Hell if I know where I'll be in five years. I just hope I remember to take my mind with me.
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I'd like to be debt free outside of the usual monthly living expenses, Ebon to be in school or finishing up and to have reached a huge goal of his that affects me as well, and to be in a career that I enjoy and/or going back to school.

Oh!

I'd like to have one complete suit of furniture. It's been years and, though I like the eclectic look of mismatched furniture, I want one complete set.
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in 5 yrs..actually in 50 months i should have my home paid off if not sooner.. i will hope to keep my health/weight under control. be traveling/sight seeing alot. lol and i hope within the next 5 years i will meet my match!
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In five years, I'll have a lot of debt paid off and be actively funding my retirement plan.

We should be ready to do some significant work on this house to bring it more up to date--kitchen, bathroom, screened porch. Till then, I dream!

I expect to see both of my daughters launched into their lives, happy, healthy, and successfully independent.

I will have celebrated ten years with my sweetie, four years happily married.

Whatever my job is, I will be working toward greater professionalism and responsibility. I may have finished my RN degree by then, and be working on the NP program. Or, I may have put that aside so I can focus on my dream job.

Both my honey and I will be in the best shape of our lives, entering the last part of our 50's (nearly 60) in good health and many years ahead.
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Hopefully in a loving relationship that I can be myself in and not hold back because she can't give me her all. And still friends with my ex-husband.
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