Attraction = physical, mental, emotional...

Ginger · 09-16-2012, 09:16 AM

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Originally Posted by Nomad

yesterday someone said to me, "oh [Nomad]! you're not a stone femme. why would you call yourself that? it's totally homosexist"

homosexist?

'm glad that i'm not in a dating situation with that person because a lot of things attract me but one of the things that would kill every level of attraction for me is someone telling me how i feel, what i think, or how i ID. it wouldnt matter who you were, i'd no longer be attracted in any way. it takes a lot for me to relax and be myself these days. hanging out with someone who denies my identity would make it impossible.

I bolded the part that jumped out at me. OMG Nomad, this is my number one trigger. I so relate!

Electrocell · 09-16-2012, 09:18 AM

A combination of all 3 and then some.

09-16-2012, 09:18 AM	#2
Electrocell Member How Do You Identify?: Stonebutch Preferred Pronoun?: he/hy Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: TN Posts: 1,334 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 7,535 Thanked 2,768 Times in 981 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	A combination of all 3 and then some. __________________ Love and accept me for me not someone you want me to be.