More on where do I fit in? Labels, why do we need them?

bcelly1894 · 09-16-2012, 11:19 PM

I call myself a soft butch, teddybear dominant.
I added on the TeddyBear part because of my short fat size, And alot of my behaviour and ways of thinking always seem to mimic the definitions and characteristics of the gay male Bear. Along with the fact that most femmes just kept calling me a sweet, cuddly teddybear, Hearing that made me feel like a child, So, I embraced it instead, And it just stuck.
Growing up in a big city, I only stayed around butches who were more manly looking and acting, And to them, I was always slightly less butch than them, But with an extremely dominant and stubborn nature. So, still butch anyway.

09-16-2012, 11:19 PM	#1
bcelly1894 Timed Out How Do You Identify?: sb Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: the earth Posts: 36 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 32 Thanked 78 Times in 26 Posts Rep Power: 0	I call myself a soft butch, teddybear dominant. I added on the TeddyBear part because of my short fat size, And alot of my behaviour and ways of thinking always seem to mimic the definitions and characteristics of the gay male Bear. Along with the fact that most femmes just kept calling me a sweet, cuddly teddybear, Hearing that made me feel like a child, So, I embraced it instead, And it just stuck. Growing up in a big city, I only stayed around butches who were more manly looking and acting, And to them, I was always slightly less butch than them, But with an extremely dominant and stubborn nature. So, still butch anyway.