The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over.

LadyRieinAL · 09-17-2012, 08:08 PM

I was getting ready to respond to a post from Anya - and as I was typing the title: 40's 50's and over - I was stopped right in the middle of stroking the "0" key in 50 - the next two words "and over"
40's 50's and over -------------how dreadful that sounded - I'm closer to the "over" part of the title and yet I don't in any way feel that I'm going to be over.
I'm newly single - this should be 40's 50's and just beginning....I like that a lot better

Nomad · 09-18-2012, 07:34 AM

sitting in my tiny "garden", drinking coffee, listening to Los Llaveros playing on the stereo next door and trying to wrap my brain around the fact that life changes on a dime. a single dime. i dont feel older. i never feel older. and today i feel younger. but younger of the unenlightened and completely lost variety and all i can think is 'why dont you know this stuff yet? you're wasting time potschkeing around. you need a plan. you need a direction. you need a life!' oy. how do people do it?

clay · 09-18-2012, 08:22 AM

morning all you lofters! Beautiful day here!!
Having some Greek yogurt with a touch of agave nectar on it! and a bottle of cherry flavored water!
Enjoying catching up on the threads I like reading!
Hey Ruthie...hope your weekend is a good one for you!
Wishing everyone a great week! Take care..hugs to all..Clay

moonwitch · 09-18-2012, 08:57 AM

Just wanted to say Hello and Good Morning. New and having a look around. Hope you all have a good day.

Tommi · 09-18-2012, 09:11 AM

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Originally Posted by moonwitch

Just wanted to say Hello and Good Morning. New and having a look around. Hope you all have a good day.

Good morning.

clay · 09-18-2012, 09:29 AM

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Originally Posted by moonwitch

Just wanted to say Hello and Good Morning. New and having a look around. Hope you all have a good day.

morning back at ya moon!! Have a wonderful day yourself.
Welcome to the Planet! Enjoy this beautiful site!!

morningstar55 · 09-18-2012, 12:22 PM

Morning loft dwellers ... and peekers

And a welcome to you moon.. to the planet

Dance-with-me · 09-18-2012, 12:27 PM

Has anyone here found love after age 50?

How did you meet your love?

DMW · 09-18-2012, 08:07 PM

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Originally Posted by LadyRieinAL

I was getting ready to respond to a post from Anya - and as I was typing the title: 40's 50's and over - I was stopped right in the middle of stroking the "0" key in 50 - the next two words "and over"
40's 50's and over -------------how dreadful that sounded - I'm closer to the "over" part of the title and yet I don't in any way feel that I'm going to be over.
I'm newly single - this should be 40's 50's and just beginning....I like that a lot better

LadyRieinAL, it was really nice to hear your interpretation of the title to this thread. I think we should take a vote to change the title of this tread...as long as the tread starter doesn't mind.
It is true isn't it? We are as young as we feel and think. You have a good attitiude. Me...not so much. Nice to hear your positive spin though. It is funny cause i am the 40 something and i bet i feel and think and act older than ancient.

Aw, now i am getting all soft about this...
I did have a good time talking to and holding open a door for a pair of 2 older couples that i met today. They were adorable and happy together. It was neat.

DMW

I see that it is Jet. Jet is cool from what i have read. Bet that Jet wouldn't mind.

09-17-2012, 08:08 PM	#1
LadyRieinAL Member How Do You Identify?: Evolving Femme Preferred Pronoun?: she, girl, her Relationship Status: found my vibrational match Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: Sweet Home Alabama Posts: 459 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,024 Thanked 1,214 Times in 281 Posts Rep Power: 18359992	40's 50's and over I was getting ready to respond to a post from Anya - and as I was typing the title: 40's 50's and over - I was stopped right in the middle of stroking the "0" key in 50 - the next two words "and over" 40's 50's and over -------------how dreadful that sounded - I'm closer to the "over" part of the title and yet I don't in any way feel that I'm going to be over. I'm newly single - this should be 40's 50's and just beginning....I like that a lot better

09-18-2012, 08:22 AM	#3
clay Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Butch (Silver Fox) Dom Daddi Preferred Pronoun?: 50 Shades of Clay Darker & Deeper Relationship Status: married to my forever Join Date: May 2011 Location: salt air & sandy beaches Posts: 13,136 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 97,020 Thanked 31,662 Times in 7,748 Posts Rep Power: 21474864	morning all you lofters! Beautiful day here!! Having some Greek yogurt with a touch of agave nectar on it! and a bottle of cherry flavored water! Enjoying catching up on the threads I like reading! Hey Ruthie...hope your weekend is a good one for you! Wishing everyone a great week! Take care..hugs to all..Clay __________________ To find someone who will love you for no reason, and to shower that person with reasons, that is the ultimate happiness. ~Robert Brault

09-18-2012, 08:57 AM	#4
moonwitch Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: Texas Posts: 5 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 49 Thanked 15 Times in 3 Posts Rep Power: 0	Good Morning Just wanted to say Hello and Good Morning. New and having a look around. Hope you all have a good day.

09-18-2012, 12:22 PM	#7
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,240 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Morning loft dwellers ... and peekers And a welcome to you moon.. to the planet __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

09-18-2012, 07:34 AM	#2
Nomad Timed Out How Do You Identify?: stone femme Daddy's girl Preferred Pronoun?: she/her Relationship Status: disinterested Join Date: Jun 2012 Location: in my head Posts: 991 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,848 Thanked 3,745 Times in 734 Posts Rep Power: 0	sitting in my tiny "garden", drinking coffee, listening to Los Llaveros playing on the stereo next door and trying to wrap my brain around the fact that life changes on a dime. a single dime. i dont feel older. i never feel older. and today i feel younger. but younger of the unenlightened and completely lost variety and all i can think is 'why dont you know this stuff yet? you're wasting time potschkeing around. you need a plan. you need a direction. you need a life!' oy. how do people do it?

09-18-2012, 12:27 PM	#8
Dance-with-me Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: earth Posts: 419 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 264 Thanked 1,926 Times in 378 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	Has anyone here found love after age 50? How did you meet your love?