The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over.

OS Butch · 09-19-2012, 07:29 PM

I have been playing in the arcade and I can't get a better score! Anyone have a favorite game? Zodiac Mahjong and Spider 1 suit Solitaire are kicking my .... ARGH!

morningstar55 · 09-19-2012, 07:30 PM

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Originally Posted by OS Butch

I have been playing in the arcade and I can't get a better score! Anyone have a favorite game? Mahjong and Spider 1 suit Solitaire are kicking my .... ARGH!

...bookworm ....
....scrabble blast....

OS Butch · 09-19-2012, 07:53 PM

One last game and I am heading for bed. Good night!

ruthie14 · 09-19-2012, 07:58 PM

feeling a bit low..

working too much.

stomach still upset.

Missing the folks in little rock that I saw in Vegas a few years ago.

Woman I wish would want more doesn't, I know it, she knows it, she's been honest about it. We've been friends.... I want more..she just wants friends with benefits and I won't bend.

sigh

yep, blue

OS Butch · 09-19-2012, 08:28 PM

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Originally Posted by ruthie14

feeling a bit low..

working too much.

stomach still upset.

Missing the folks in little rock that I saw in Vegas a few years ago.

Woman I wish would want more doesn't, I know it, she knows it, she's been honest about it. We've been friends.... I want more..she just wants friends with benefits and I won't bend.

sigh

yep, blue

Ruthie, I just know there is an untethered soul out there for you. If you know what her deal is and it isn't want you want/need, don't settle. Keep true to yourself. I know I have been single for longer than I have ever been. I broke someones heart because I was still not ready to make that forever after commitment.... I still am not as I haven't resolved messing up my previous relationship. Keep what you want in the forefront of your mind and it will happen, I am sure of it. That is what keeps me sane during my singledom.

ruthie14 · 09-20-2012, 04:24 AM

Thanks for your words OS. I won't give in. Just everything getting to me.

Maybe I'll feel better today or tomorrow.

Ruthie

morningstar55 · 09-20-2012, 06:49 AM

morning loft dwellers and peekers

its a beautiful day in the nieghbohood... a great day for driving.. lol

(((Ruth)))) .... wish u could come to LR .. it would lift your spirits up big time.. and i have a room with 2 beds..

listen to me.... and here i was .. like 3 x wanting to back out of going.
i guess i was feeling a bit over whelmed , going shopping alone and trying to peice together my evening gown for sat. nite.. i never had a gown before.. i have ideas how i want to dress this up.... but im kinda stuck on a few ideas..and not sure if its will look stupid or not..
i never went and got things for ... myself .. soo much before.. all in 1 well short time.
ok im getting weepy.. heh.. i been doing this a lot lately.. i dont kno why..

LipstickLola · 09-20-2012, 07:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ruthie14

feeling a bit low..

working too much.

stomach still upset.

Missing the folks in little rock that I saw in Vegas a few years ago.

Woman I wish would want more doesn't, I know it, she knows it, she's been honest about it. We've been friends.... I want more..she just wants friends with benefits and I won't bend.

sigh
yep, blue

I know just how you are feeling Ruthie (((((Ruthie))))

I'm not sure if I'll ever be with anyone again, but I go forth knowing what it is I want and need....praying someday it may happen again, but that if it does not, I have known love, given love as deeply and earnestly as I knew how,
hoping it could come back to me, but trying not to wither up if it does not.
Keep moving forward Ruthie......
Lola

Galahad · 09-20-2012, 09:07 PM

Sorry so many of you have the blues. I hope things look up for you all soon. I read, but I don't post often. It feels too strange to be the last one to post for days. Have fun and enjoy what you can.

morningstar55 · 09-20-2012, 10:52 PM

yayy im here......... lol but hangin at the pilot truck stop for tonight up here in north little rock , so i can grab a shower and look for that parking spot near peabody in the day light.

09-19-2012, 07:29 PM	#1
OS Butch Member How Do You Identify?: Butch-BLW Preferred Pronoun?: Default-She Relationship Status: Closed Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Northern Virginia Posts: 636 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 488 Thanked 1,378 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 12988704	I have been playing in the arcade and I can't get a better score! Anyone have a favorite game? Zodiac Mahjong and Spider 1 suit Solitaire are kicking my .... ARGH! __________________ You know that place between sleep and awake, the place where you can still remember dreaming? That's where I'll always love you. ~Tinkerbell~

09-19-2012, 07:53 PM	#3
OS Butch Member How Do You Identify?: Butch-BLW Preferred Pronoun?: Default-She Relationship Status: Closed Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Northern Virginia Posts: 636 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 488 Thanked 1,378 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 12988704	One last game and I am heading for bed. Good night! __________________ You know that place between sleep and awake, the place where you can still remember dreaming? That's where I'll always love you. ~Tinkerbell~

09-20-2012, 06:49 AM	#7
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,240 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	morning loft dwellers and peekers its a beautiful day in the nieghbohood... a great day for driving.. lol (((Ruth)))) .... wish u could come to LR .. it would lift your spirits up big time.. and i have a room with 2 beds.. listen to me.... and here i was .. like 3 x wanting to back out of going. i guess i was feeling a bit over whelmed , going shopping alone and trying to peice together my evening gown for sat. nite.. i never had a gown before.. i have ideas how i want to dress this up.... but im kinda stuck on a few ideas..and not sure if its will look stupid or not.. i never went and got things for ... myself .. soo much before.. all in 1 well short time. ok im getting weepy.. heh.. i been doing this a lot lately.. i dont kno why.. __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

09-20-2012, 10:52 PM	#10
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,240 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	yayy im here......... lol but hangin at the pilot truck stop for tonight up here in north little rock , so i can grab a shower and look for that parking spot near peabody in the day light. __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

09-19-2012, 07:58 PM	#4
ruthie14 Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 844 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,904 Thanked 1,245 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 5946335	feeling a bit low.. working too much. stomach still upset. Missing the folks in little rock that I saw in Vegas a few years ago. Woman I wish would want more doesn't, I know it, she knows it, she's been honest about it. We've been friends.... I want more..she just wants friends with benefits and I won't bend. sigh yep, blue

09-20-2012, 04:24 AM	#6
ruthie14 Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 844 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,904 Thanked 1,245 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 5946335	Thanks for your words OS. I won't give in. Just everything getting to me. Maybe I'll feel better today or tomorrow. Ruthie

09-20-2012, 09:07 PM	#9
Galahad Member How Do You Identify?: do I have to? Relationship Status: single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: I.E. Southern California Posts: 425 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,300 Thanked 338 Times in 151 Posts Rep Power: 1446605	Sorry so many of you have the blues. I hope things look up for you all soon. I read, but I don't post often. It feels too strange to be the last one to post for days. Have fun and enjoy what you can.