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Old 09-25-2012, 12:10 AM   #1
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I realize quittting smoking is healthy for me and has many many pluses but it pisses me off that I have to quit. Today is day number 1-hopefully there will be a day 10 or 24!
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I realize quittting smoking is healthy for me and has many many pluses but it pisses me off that I have to quit. Today is day number 1-hopefully there will be a day 10 or 24!
You can do this!!! Today is day 42 for me. I think I've got a handle on it but I'm not getting too confident just yet. Like, right now, I'd LOVE to go sit on the deck with my coffee and have a quiet, peaceful smoke. But I know I can't. Sooooooo I'll just do something to get my mind off it and keep on keeping on. That's what works for me.

Wishing you lots of luck!! Lady Pamela should be along any time now with her words that are so encouraging!! She always says just the right thing!

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I realize quittting smoking is healthy for me and has many many pluses but it pisses me off that I have to quit. Today is day number 1-hopefully there will be a day 10 or 24!

it will be 4 months october the 4th. i still want a smoke, badly. i too, am pissed off because i can't have one lol. there's an anger. very angry. i want one so bad. but i can't let me myself have that 1st one. can't do it. i have to be strong. iddiggchiks, i hope you'll be strong with me. we have to. and everybody else <high 5>.
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been 3 days now and i'm ready to say eff it but i'm holding strong--
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well i failed and i cheated---just had to smoke on long car ride and i know i disappointed a few people but i vow to start over and do my best--
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that's so hard, ... to ride and not smoke. i have a smokey mountains (no pun intended lol) vacation coming up and dread the ride, ... because i know i'll want to smoke. in other words, i'm letting a cigarette ruin my looking forward to.

get back on the "wagon" iddiggchiks! it's hard. understood. you can do it.
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that's so hard, ... to ride and not smoke. i have a smokey mountains (no pun intended lol) vacation coming up and dread the ride, ... because i know i'll want to smoke. in other words, i'm letting a cigarette ruin my looking forward to.

get back on the "wagon" iddiggchiks! it's hard. understood. you can do it.
To be honest with you,
when I was smoking I based everything with my next smoke.

Made sure I could smoke , where to smoke, if others smoked, time i had to go without smokes etc etc.

That is a normal fear of quitting honestly.

Cinnomon sticks cinnomon gum and things to do with your hands and deep breaths helps that quite a bit.

also using some sort of aide like patches etc

Keep it up you can do it.
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Actually it isn't for another hour and change. but wanted to get it out there before I went to bed..lol

Sorry had to shout...smiles
Damn proud of myself.
Still have hard days but much less.


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well i failed and i cheated---just had to smoke on long car ride and i know i disappointed a few people but i vow to start over and do my best--
Thank goodness I am not judged by how many tries it has taken me...lol

Do not kick your ass. Simply start again and go with it.

Try some new ideas...tons in this thread.
Hell, mix and match em if need be.

Just keep getting up and doing it.
I know you can do it!
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