The Butch Femme Dance (literally)

Dutch Leonard · 10-06-2012, 11:30 AM

I'd be very willing to pay a lot of money to learn to do this. I expect I would have to make do with a partner and videos in my living room.

femmsational · 10-06-2012, 11:40 AM

Oh, I miss dancing with a partner!!

When I lived in Texas there were all sorts of places to go to dance. Now here in lower Alabama, not so much. Wish we could find a place that the Brutal One could go learn, but they don't welcome his 'type.' LOL!!!!

I'm also one that tends to forget and try and lead. Drives people crazy:-)

Ginger · 10-06-2012, 12:46 PM

Now if there were only lessons that could teach single butches and femmes not to be too shy to ask each other to dance. I was fine asking femmes to dance with me but didn't have the nerve to ask any butches to dance

Lessons before the dance would make people feel less shy once they got to the actual dance, IMO

BrutalDaddy · 10-07-2012, 07:34 PM

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Originally Posted by femmsational

Oh, I miss dancing with a partner!!

When I lived in Texas there were all sorts of places to go to dance. Now here in lower Alabama, not so much. Wish we could find a place that the Brutal One could go learn, but they don't welcome his 'type.' LOL!!!!

I'm also one that tends to forget and try and lead. Drives people crazy:-)

Which type would that be, the two left foot kind or the whole FTM kind? Or both? Lol. Believe me, you won't be leading when we dance missy.

Totally Leading,
Brute.

Mtn · 10-07-2012, 08:33 PM

Sylvie and I discovered this summer that we have a LOT of fun dancing together. On our list of things to do is taking some dancing lessons. I would love to be a strong "swing dance" lead. She has incredible rhythm and moves, I dance with heart, rhythm and moves are questionable, heh.

sylvie · 10-21-2012, 08:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Mtn

Sylvie and I discovered this summer that we have a LOT of fun dancing together. On our list of things to do is taking some dancing lessons. I would love to be a strong "swing dance" lead. She has incredible rhythm and moves, I dance with heart, rhythm and moves are questionable, heh.

You have some serious moves Daddy.. ♥
i had much fun dancing with You, and love that You would get up with me like that.. We laughed so much, and i so love being held by You so close.. Dancing lessons with You would be so lovely, i can't wait! & am so happy they'll play at Our wedding too.. i love You so much.

Dance-with-me · 10-22-2012, 11:22 AM

SO excited that I found a local woman who is apparently as dance-obsessed as I am: Apparently she used to organize women's two-stepping lessons at a local gym but they stopped letting her use that room, so now that she's just had her basement remodeled she is starting to offer them there on Thursday evenings - for free - with plans to buy a portable dance floor if enough people come regularly. She's also found someone to come in two Saturdays in a row to teach some western Swing lessons.

Plus when I told her about my desire to organize an LGBT dance lesson weekend here, she said she'd like to talk to me about helping to make that happen.

I can't begin to tell you how happy this makes me! I have to tell you, if I was forced to choose, right now I'd choose dancing regularly with a good lead over dating. Fortunately, no one is forcing me to choose so I'm free to pursue both.

easygoingfemme · 10-22-2012, 05:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Dance-with-me

SO excited that I found a local woman who is apparently as dance-obsessed as I am: Apparently she used to organize women's two-stepping lessons at a local gym but they stopped letting her use that room, so now that she's just had her basement remodeled she is starting to offer them there on Thursday evenings - for free - with plans to buy a portable dance floor if enough people come regularly. She's also found someone to come in two Saturdays in a row to teach some western Swing lessons.

Plus when I told her about my desire to organize an LGBT dance lesson weekend here, she said she'd like to talk to me about helping to make that happen.

I can't begin to tell you how happy this makes me! I have to tell you, if I was forced to choose, right now I'd choose dancing regularly with a good lead over dating. Fortunately, no one is forcing me to choose so I'm free to pursue both.

AWESOME!!!

10-06-2012, 11:40 AM	#2
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Dutch Leonard Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Butch Tournaments Won: 7 Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: East of the Rockies Posts: 291 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,901 Thanked 389 Times in 120 Posts Rep Power: 4100778	I'd be very willing to pay a lot of money to learn to do this. I expect I would have to make do with a partner and videos in my living room.

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Ginger Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme lesbian Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: East coast Posts: 2,416 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,829 Thanked 12,296 Times in 2,057 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Now if there were only lessons that could teach single butches and femmes not to be too shy to ask each other to dance. I was fine asking femmes to dance with me but didn't have the nerve to ask any butches to dance Lessons before the dance would make people feel less shy once they got to the actual dance, IMO

10-22-2012, 11:22 AM	#7
Dance-with-me Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: earth Posts: 419 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 264 Thanked 1,926 Times in 378 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	SO excited that I found a local woman who is apparently as dance-obsessed as I am: Apparently she used to organize women's two-stepping lessons at a local gym but they stopped letting her use that room, so now that she's just had her basement remodeled she is starting to offer them there on Thursday evenings - for free - with plans to buy a portable dance floor if enough people come regularly. She's also found someone to come in two Saturdays in a row to teach some western Swing lessons. Plus when I told her about my desire to organize an LGBT dance lesson weekend here, she said she'd like to talk to me about helping to make that happen. I can't begin to tell you how happy this makes me! I have to tell you, if I was forced to choose, right now I'd choose dancing regularly with a good lead over dating. Fortunately, no one is forcing me to choose so I'm free to pursue both.