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Old 10-07-2012, 11:04 AM   #1
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Thank God for that (((( bestill ))))
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does one complicate this by identifies as a StoneButch?
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StoneOne ~ personally I don't think it complicates anything, I believe firmly that you can be both a stone butch and still be someone that us femmes can melt over
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alive and well
does one complicate this by identifies as a StoneButch?
Why would it? A stone butch/StoneButch is still a butch, right?
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Oh Ivan Coyote, Butchone1969 thank you for sharing. That spoke both worlds so well.
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Oh Ivan Coyote, Butchone1969 thank you for sharing. That spoke both worlds so well.
bravo bravo beautiful this affected me in a way I thought impossible
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Thank you. If only Handsome was here so I could nibble on her yummy butch self.
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OMG thank you thank you thank you Butchone for posting this. I have to go and get a tissue now.

Thank you. If only Handsome was here so I could nibble on her yummy butch self.

I love this so much. I have seen it several times and each time it makes me teary.

What I appreciate so very much about the Planet encompasses so many things!

Including, the growing self-acceptance of my own femme persona and essence of being, acceptance of my intense desire for butches, joy at knowing that this desire is OK and right for me, understanding of the butch experience and the courage it takes to walk through the world exactly as who and what you are (paraphrasing this particular part of the essay brigid posted).

Above all: that each of us, butch and femme, are swans, that we need each other and that we belong together.
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Sometimes it seems that way, but maybe that's because the media focus is mainly on the femme/femme dynamic. I sure hope butches are sticking around...
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