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Old 10-10-2012, 06:44 PM   #1
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Lots! But for now, I can't be bought. The American Dream is up to each individual's interpretation.
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to not blindly trust
to not believe everything i'm told
that if i have a gut feeling.... go with it
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that sometimes problems are my fault

and sometimes they are not

and I gained the wisdom to know the difference...
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i've learned that i dont always want to know the truth
i've learned that i'm not the person i should have been, but i am still proud of my effort because it was honest and sincere
i've learned that i truly want my ex to be happy and healthy and content, every moment of every day
i've learned that feelings can be hurt even more, despite thinking i'd already hit bottom, but i'm pretty sure i can get up
i've learned that i dont like the person i have become, but that there is still something redeemable about me. i'm pretty sure i can work with what i've got left
i've learned that i'm ruff, and tuff, and alligator strong -- and i'm still "sumthin'else"
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never cheat
if they lie within the first week keep walking
if they make promises that you know can't happen don't wait for them to
if you do leave never look back, don't go back there was a reason you left
don't go to bed angry it isn't worth the sleepless night
think before you react
money isn't everything and it doesn't buy happiness
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absolutely true....walking away is VERY hard to do but, in the end self-preservation of mind, soul, & spirit is what you HAVE to do.....you're the ONLY one responsible for your happiness & sanity. Hurt like hell or not......walk away & move forward !
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Don't forget your dreams trying to help them reach theirs.
Ultimately, it is your life, whether or not you share it with another, so do what you need in order to be happy.
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I've learned, before you get too involved, to choose wisely when you learn what their visions and goals are for their future, because you will become a part of that.

I've also learned if you leave them alone too long, they will be gone.
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