The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over.

Mel C. · 10-13-2012, 01:17 AM

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Originally Posted by GraffitiBoi

Cool! If you do end up coming this way let me know. We can hang if you have time and/or I can point you towards some good places to go.

I have to pass a drug screen and background check but am expecting to start Monday 10/22 WOOHOO! I will fly to San Diego at least 1 weekend per month but would like to explore the area other weekends. The nice thing about consulting is I get to see different parts of the US (I hope for some assignments outside of the US as well).

morningstar55 · 10-13-2012, 03:35 AM

Morning loft dwellers and peekers

Mel , sounds interesting.... consulting what?? What does this sort of job entail???

cuddlyfemme · 10-13-2012, 07:44 AM

Good Morning Everyone! I you all have a wonderful day!!!

cuddlyfemme · 10-13-2012, 09:20 AM

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Originally Posted by morningstar55

Morning loft dwellers and peekers

Mel , sounds interesting.... consulting what?? What does this sort of job entail???

I second what Morning Star asks. What type of consulting. We've known each other a long time and I'm sure you told me...I just forget

ruthie14 · 10-13-2012, 11:43 AM

I went to a women of color singles mingle last night... that was fun. Getting to know a nice woman... we shall see.
Thanks for all your well wishes, need all I can get right now.

Dr is sending me Monday for an ultrasound of my stomach and then tuesday he is doing an endoscopy. Hopefully we can finally figure out what the heck is wrong with my stomach. Going to try hard boiled eggs for lunch and see how that goes. I woke up this morning with a cold. A lot of kids in my class have it, but I usually don't get them. I haven't been able to take my vitamins the dr has me on to fight them soooo... here I am sick. I had acupuncture this morning and went to the last half of a rehearsal. Can't sing yet bc the stomach issues has left my vocal cords burnt. Using holistic stuff to heal them up. They should get better after they fix my stomach.

I was supposed to go to the Witches ball tonight (basically a holloween party in a small town) but it is outside. It is cold here today and I don't think that would be a good idea considering how I feel. Walking around in the cold doesn't sound appealing. Oh well, next year maybe I'll make it.

Have a great weekend lofters! Welcome to the new folks!

Ruthie

DMW · 10-14-2012, 08:25 AM

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Originally Posted by ruthie14

I went to a women of color singles mingle last night... that was fun. Getting to know a nice woman... we shall see.
Thanks for all your well wishes, need all I can get right now.

Dr is sending me Monday for an ultrasound of my stomach and then tuesday he is doing an endoscopy. Hopefully we can finally figure out what the heck is wrong with my stomach. Going to try hard boiled eggs for lunch and see how that goes. I woke up this morning with a cold. A lot of kids in my class have it, but I usually don't get them. I haven't been able to take my vitamins the dr has me on to fight them soooo... here I am sick. I had acupuncture this morning and went to the last half of a rehearsal. Can't sing yet bc the stomach issues has left my vocal cords burnt. Using holistic stuff to heal them up. They should get better after they fix my stomach.

I was supposed to go to the Witches ball tonight (basically a holloween party in a small town) but it is outside. It is cold here today and I don't think that would be a good idea considering how I feel. Walking around in the cold doesn't sound appealing. Oh well, next year maybe I'll make it.

Have a great weekend lofters! Welcome to the new folks!

Ruthie

Dang...a witches ball sounds fun. I would like to go just to meet the witches...are guys allowed to go to a witches ball? Do guys have to show p as a warlock or something? Or, are we not invited? That seriously sound like fun...to see how a girl would act as a witch...of course, i would have to tame the bad ones... or avoid them altogether. and would have trouble liking the good ones...therefore, taming myself. i am groggy this am. I am laughing at the the ideas in my head.

Ruthie14, I don't think it is a good idea to go to the witches ball because you could get pneumonia. I wish they would find out what the heck is going on with your gut.humm.

ruthie14 · 10-14-2012, 08:48 AM

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Originally Posted by DMW

Dang...a witches ball sounds fun. I would like to go just to meet the witches...are guys allowed to go to a witches ball? Do guys have to show p as a warlock or something? Or, are we not invited? That seriously sound like fun...to see how a girl would act as a witch...of course, i would have to tame the bad ones... or avoid them altogether. and would have trouble liking the good ones...therefore, taming myself. i am groggy this am. I am laughing at the the ideas in my head.

Ruthie14, I don't think it is a good idea to go to the witches ball because you could get pneumonia. I wish they would find out what the heck is going on with your gut.humm.

Well, DMW.. it s a family event. I have yet to go, but everyone says it's a lot of fun. You are very sleepy aren't you? lol The muscles in my body are reacting. Not sure if it's the cold I have or if it's related to the lack of nutrients that is doing it. My legs and my back are very achy. Feeling like I'm 100 today. Anyone have any idea what I may be missing?

Going to take a shower and nothing else today! lol Have a great sunday folks.

Ruthie

cuddlyfemme · 10-14-2012, 09:01 AM

Good Morning everyone!! I hope everyone is having a wonderful day so far. I've been up for a few hours and feel really groggy. I hate this feeling and hope it goes away soon. Today my big job is finishing cleaing litter boxes. I also need to brush my long hair cat, Goldie. I'm outta here for now and am going to check out what is going on in the rest of the Planet.
Have a terrific rest of the day and be good to yourself...you deserve it!!

morningstar55 · 10-15-2012, 06:37 AM

Good morning loft dwellers and peekers
another day , even though its monday, hope you have a awsome day... looks like a panera bread kinda morning for me

cuddlyfemme · 10-15-2012, 06:46 AM

Good Morning Morningstar and everoyne else! I hope you all had a good sleep and are enjoying your day even though it is Monday. I go to the doctors today and am hoping he can give me some insight to whats been going on with me. When I was in the hospital they wouldn't call him so I have alot to tell him. Enjoy the rest of the day!!

ruthie14 · 10-15-2012, 05:34 PM

Well, ultrasound done. I wasn't expecting it to hurt, but it did. She couldn't tell me anything of course, but she spent a LOT of time on my right side. The endoscopy I am having tomorrow is done by my dr...so he may shed some light after that. Then I have a follow up on Nov 1. I hope the endoscopy shows what is exactly going on. I really don't want to wait till the 1st to figure it out.

Endoscopy at 6:15 am. oh my... that is early. YAWN!

Hope everyone has a wonderful week!

Ruthie

dykeumentary · 10-15-2012, 06:39 PM

((((((((Ruthie)))))))
Sending much love!

10-13-2012, 03:35 AM	#2
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10-15-2012, 06:37 AM	#9
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,240 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	Good morning loft dwellers and peekers another day , even though its monday, hope you have a awsome day... looks like a panera bread kinda morning for me __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

10-15-2012, 06:39 PM	#12
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10-13-2012, 07:44 AM	#3
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10-13-2012, 11:43 AM	#5
ruthie14 Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 844 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,904 Thanked 1,245 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 5946335	I went to a women of color singles mingle last night... that was fun. Getting to know a nice woman... we shall see. Thanks for all your well wishes, need all I can get right now. Dr is sending me Monday for an ultrasound of my stomach and then tuesday he is doing an endoscopy. Hopefully we can finally figure out what the heck is wrong with my stomach. Going to try hard boiled eggs for lunch and see how that goes. I woke up this morning with a cold. A lot of kids in my class have it, but I usually don't get them. I haven't been able to take my vitamins the dr has me on to fight them soooo... here I am sick. I had acupuncture this morning and went to the last half of a rehearsal. Can't sing yet bc the stomach issues has left my vocal cords burnt. Using holistic stuff to heal them up. They should get better after they fix my stomach. I was supposed to go to the Witches ball tonight (basically a holloween party in a small town) but it is outside. It is cold here today and I don't think that would be a good idea considering how I feel. Walking around in the cold doesn't sound appealing. Oh well, next year maybe I'll make it. Have a great weekend lofters! Welcome to the new folks! Ruthie

10-14-2012, 09:01 AM	#8
cuddlyfemme Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Femme Preferred Pronoun?: her/she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: South Carolina Posts: 2,271 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 717 Thanked 2,452 Times in 1,270 Posts Rep Power: 11496123	Good Morning everyone!! I hope everyone is having a wonderful day so far. I've been up for a few hours and feel really groggy. I hate this feeling and hope it goes away soon. Today my big job is finishing cleaing litter boxes. I also need to brush my long hair cat, Goldie. I'm outta here for now and am going to check out what is going on in the rest of the Planet. Have a terrific rest of the day and be good to yourself...you deserve it!!

10-15-2012, 06:46 AM	#10
cuddlyfemme Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Femme Preferred Pronoun?: her/she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: South Carolina Posts: 2,271 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 717 Thanked 2,452 Times in 1,270 Posts Rep Power: 11496123	Good Morning Morningstar and everoyne else! I hope you all had a good sleep and are enjoying your day even though it is Monday. I go to the doctors today and am hoping he can give me some insight to whats been going on with me. When I was in the hospital they wouldn't call him so I have alot to tell him. Enjoy the rest of the day!!

10-15-2012, 05:34 PM	#11
ruthie14 Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 844 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,904 Thanked 1,245 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 5946335	Well, ultrasound done. I wasn't expecting it to hurt, but it did. She couldn't tell me anything of course, but she spent a LOT of time on my right side. The endoscopy I am having tomorrow is done by my dr...so he may shed some light after that. Then I have a follow up on Nov 1. I hope the endoscopy shows what is exactly going on. I really don't want to wait till the 1st to figure it out. Endoscopy at 6:15 am. oh my... that is early. YAWN! Hope everyone has a wonderful week! Ruthie