Are butches really a dying breed?

Duchess · 10-28-2012, 01:58 AM

In my opinion, the only thing that's dying are all of the rules that were used to define a Butch's life.

You have to be a top
You have to be with a Femme
You have to be head of household
You can't bear children
Etc.,etc.......

Makes me tired just thinking about it. Don't get me wrong. I'm not suggesting there's something wrong with the ideas I've listed nor am I suggesting that all Butches have felt the pressure to uphold a certain idea of what it means to be Butch. However, I have witnessed the torment in friends and a partner.

Cheers to living the life that truly makes you happy!!!

Duchess

10-28-2012, 01:58 AM	#11
Duchess Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Absolute Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Toe curling :-) Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Atlanta Posts: 2,382 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,792 Thanked 5,591 Times in 1,521 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	*In my opinion, the only thing that's dying are all of the rules that were used to define a Butch's life.* *You have to be a top* *You have to be with a Femme* *You have to be head of household* *You can't bear children* *Etc.,etc.......* Makes me tired just thinking about it. Don't get me wrong. I'm not suggesting there's something wrong with the ideas I've listed nor am I suggesting that all Butches have felt the pressure to uphold a certain idea of what it means to be Butch. However, I have witnessed the torment in friends and a partner. *Cheers to living the life that truly makes you happy!!!* *Duchess* __________________ *無料のライブ*