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11-11-2012, 04:50 PM
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I have had it work out, but the ratio of successes to humiliating failures (for various reasons) caused me to give it up god knows how many years ago.
I simply don't do it. I have friends who do with great success. Better flirters than I. Better at taking disappointment. I don't know. One of the things I hate is when a butch thinks I am looking at her because I am a straight woman STARING at the dyke. I just can't fucking stand that. I don't need to be made to feel invisible AGAIN. Guess what, some of the feminine folks out there are DYKES. *Gasp* |
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11-12-2012, 06:46 PM
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11-13-2012, 02:36 PM
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I havent gotten up the nerve to flirt in nonLGBT places yet ..
Still waiting on my Boi / Butch charming to find me 
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12-25-2012, 03:40 AM
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I don't hang out much in non LGBT places but if I am and if I spot someone who I find interesting I always go for the ''sipping my drink through a straw while I look into their eyes'' that usually works, or if this is impossible to do I will walk pass them and wait till they look up and smile at them while I walk to the Ladies, and if this doesn't work I will tip the waitress or waiter and ask them to send a drink to that person from me.
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