How have you met the people you've been involved with romantically or sexually?

deb_U_taunt · 12-23-2012, 12:07 PM

longer terms relationships:

on a softball field and we u-hauled it within 2 months

at Seattle pride

hys butch sister is my bestie

Chancie · 12-23-2012, 12:31 PM

work
on a bus on the way to a march
a dance in NYC
a different dance in NYC
OA
b-f matchmaker
b-f matchmaker
b-f matchmaker
b-f matchmaker
a dance in Northampton
match.com
at her house
personal ad in local paper
a coffee bar

This list includes relationships that mattered to me, for a few different reasons.

Zimmeh · 12-23-2012, 01:02 PM

I met both of my partners on butch femme sites. The first one didn't work out.

The second partner was by chance when Hy sent me a private message and asked how were the jobs in Florida. I responded and sent my number and we started off as friends and moved in together in January 2012 and have been dating since April 2012...Hy is my one true love!

Zimmeh

MsM · 12-28-2012, 10:05 AM

18 yrs old Met her at a friends party, she pulled me into a closet. Accused me of flirting with her boyfriend (who I didn't know) and then kissed me. Realized then and there why kissing boys wasn't working out for me. Lasted: 1 night

24 yrs old Met her on a yahoo group. She was crazy but cute. Learned the lesson about sticking your d!ck in crazy on that one. Lasted: 2 years

28 yrs old Met her at a kinky party. She was with someone else, I was blown away by her smile. Eventually she left the other, and we were together. We were great friends, and should have left it that way. Relationship just didn't work. Lasted: 5 years

33-39 Catch and release program, mostly met them at kink events, or CM. Nothing lasting, but made some amazing friends.

39 yrs old Met my love at a munch for my local dyke leather group. She was wearing boots, and expected me to follow her to the bathroom. I didn't, but I did notice her ass. Been following her into bathrooms ever since (and still noticing her ass)

MarquisdeShey · 12-28-2012, 10:42 AM

This is kind of interesting. A memory lane for relationship madness *s

...1996 I was in high school we met at a local YWG (she ended up married and with a baby)
...1998 A friend set us up (we were supposed to just "hook up")
...2002-2008 Softball game
...2009-2011 Roomates.com we were never roomates, but ended up getting together. should've known better

ahk · 12-28-2012, 10:57 AM

highschool
aol chat room
aol chat room
through a friend
poetry message boards
b.f
b.f

Sev · 12-28-2012, 11:02 AM

I was 15. met him when I was in a marching Girls group, I was friends with his sister.

Met him when I was a waitress in his restaurant, he was the chef

Met him in Ireland at a ladies gym, he use to work there

Married him, for the wrong reasons and left him for a woman....He was cool with that (believe it or not)

Met her on Pink Sofa and she had old photos of when she was young and made me believe she still looked like her picture....Wrong...

Met her when she moved into my building, I didn't know at the time that she was a famous performer.

Met her through a Mistress Friend....She was a crazy and weird and very unstable

Met her when I first came to London......Gaydargirls (yeah I know) lasted 3 years

The end

Chancie · 12-22-2013, 04:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Chancie

work
on a bus on the way to a march
a dance in NYC
a different dance in NYC
OA
b-f matchmaker
b-f matchmaker
b-f matchmaker
b-f matchmaker
a dance in Northampton
match.com
at her house
personal ad in local paper
a coffee bar

This list includes relationships that mattered to me, for a few different reasons.

I can't remember everyone on this list.

Amber2010 · 12-22-2013, 06:18 PM

Usually I met through my work or friends but now I meet more and more through the virtual world of the internet.

MsTinkerbelly · 06-27-2014, 05:26 PM

Bump

Someone asked me how i met my wife, so I thought I'd give this thread a bump

MysticOceansFL · 06-27-2014, 06:08 PM

1. MCC Church
2. coffee house
3. Gay/Pride Functions

Nadeest · 06-28-2014, 10:04 PM

I met my last serious ex at a bus stop in downtown Detroit, believe it or not.

12-23-2012, 12:31 PM	#2
Chancie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: queer femme-inist Relationship Status: I'm lucky. Join Date: May 2010 Location: Western Mass Posts: 3,774 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,518 Thanked 14,540 Times in 2,744 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	The order is right, more or less. work on a bus on the way to a march a dance in NYC a different dance in NYC OA b-f matchmaker b-f matchmaker b-f matchmaker b-f matchmaker a dance in Northampton match.com at her house personal ad in local paper a coffee bar This list includes relationships that mattered to me, for a few different reasons.

12-23-2012, 01:02 PM	#3
Zimmeh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Me Relationship Status: I am a human and not a possession Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Southern Volusia County, FL Posts: 6,746 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 23,549 Thanked 13,442 Times in 4,317 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	I met both of my partners on butch femme sites. The first one didn't work out. The second partner was by chance when Hy sent me a private message and asked how were the jobs in Florida. I responded and sent my number and we started off as friends and moved in together in January 2012 and have been dating since April 2012...Hy is my one true love! Zimmeh __________________ "A loving heart is the truest wisdom" -Chinua Achebe

12-28-2012, 10:42 AM	#5
MarquisdeShey Member How Do You Identify?: bent Preferred Pronoun?: She/Her/They Relationship Status: Minding my own business. Join Date: Nov 2012 Location: I live here now Posts: 1,200 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 845 Thanked 4,727 Times in 921 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	This is kind of interesting. A memory lane for relationship madness *s ...1996 I was in high school we met at a local YWG (she ended up married and with a baby) ...1998 A friend set us up (we were supposed to just "hook up") ...2002-2008 Softball game ...2009-2011 Roomates.com we were never roomates, but ended up getting together. should've known better __________________ My manner of thinking, so you say, cannot be approved. Do you suppose I care? A poor fool is s/he who adopts a manner of thinking for others! ~Marquis de Sade

12-28-2012, 11:02 AM	#7
Sev Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Join Date: Dec 2012 Location: England Posts: 33 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 48 Thanked 50 Times in 19 Posts Rep Power: 441210	I was 15. met him when I was in a marching Girls group, I was friends with his sister. Met him when I was a waitress in his restaurant, he was the chef Met him in Ireland at a ladies gym, he use to work there Married him, for the wrong reasons and left him for a woman....He was cool with that (believe it or not) Met her on Pink Sofa and she had old photos of when she was young and made me believe she still looked like her picture....Wrong... Met her when she moved into my building, I didn't know at the time that she was a famous performer. Met her through a Mistress Friend....She was a crazy and weird and very unstable Met her when I first came to London......Gaydargirls (yeah I know) lasted 3 years The end __________________ ..........

06-27-2014, 06:08 PM	#11
MysticOceansFL Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch, Preferred Pronoun?: People call me by my nic name. Relationship Status: Not Single, Not Desperate. Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Florida Posts: 3,833 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,645 Thanked 4,033 Times in 1,720 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	1. MCC Church 2. coffee house 3. Gay/Pride Functions __________________ Faith is not belief without proof, but trust without reservation. It is said, " Some lives are linked across time..... Connected by an ancient calling that echoes through the ages "......

12-23-2012, 12:07 PM	#1
deb_U_taunt Senior Member How Do You Identify?: ........ Join Date: May 2011 Location: ....... Posts: 1,748 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,324 Thanked 5,255 Times in 1,361 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	longer terms relationships: on a softball field and we u-hauled it within 2 months at Seattle pride hys butch sister is my bestie

12-28-2012, 10:05 AM	#4
MsM Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Leather Dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Her, She, Lady, Ms, and sometimes babygirl :) Relationship Status: Taken Join Date: Dec 2012 Location: Austin, TX Posts: 94 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 61 Thanked 451 Times in 83 Posts Rep Power: 4048550	18 yrs old Met her at a friends party, she pulled me into a closet. Accused me of flirting with her boyfriend (who I didn't know) and then kissed me. Realized then and there why kissing boys wasn't working out for me. Lasted: 1 night 24 yrs old Met her on a yahoo group. She was crazy but cute. Learned the lesson about sticking your d!ck in crazy on that one. Lasted: 2 years 28 yrs old Met her at a kinky party. She was with someone else, I was blown away by her smile. Eventually she left the other, and we were together. We were great friends, and should have left it that way. Relationship just didn't work. Lasted: 5 years 33-39 Catch and release program, mostly met them at kink events, or CM. Nothing lasting, but made some amazing friends. 39 yrs old Met my love at a munch for my local dyke leather group. She was wearing boots, and expected me to follow her to the bathroom. I didn't, but I did notice her ass. Been following her into bathrooms ever since (and still noticing her ass)

12-28-2012, 10:57 AM	#6
ahk Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: . Preferred Pronoun?: Male Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: NM Posts: 5,317 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,688 Thanked 8,538 Times in 2,630 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	highschool aol chat room aol chat room through a friend poetry message boards b.f b.f

12-22-2013, 06:18 PM	#9
Amber2010 Member How Do You Identify?: Happy, Crazy, Bubbly, Funny, Strong, Outgoing, Friendly Preferred Pronoun?: Femme Relationship Status: Complicated Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Florida Posts: 200 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 920 Thanked 594 Times in 154 Posts Rep Power: 3787185	Usually I met through my work or friends but now I meet more and more through the virtual world of the internet.

06-27-2014, 05:26 PM	#10
MsTinkerbelly Timed Out - TOS Drama How Do You Identify?: ... Preferred Pronoun?: ... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: ... Posts: 6,573 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,737 Thanked 22,906 Times in 5,017 Posts Rep Power: 0	Bump Someone asked me how i met my wife, so I thought I'd give this thread a bump

06-28-2014, 10:04 PM	#12
Nadeest Member How Do You Identify?: as myself Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Leesburg, FL Posts: 595 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,876 Thanked 2,118 Times in 501 Posts Rep Power: 17077998	I met my last serious ex at a bus stop in downtown Detroit, believe it or not.