Soulmates?

[peachy]

oh yeh I met my twin flame soulmate alright. I knew because the first time I heard her voice was like talking to my oldest friend even tho we didn't know each other yet. The same night I dreamt about her, this woman I didn't know. A vivid dream where she was excited to see me. It was like a reunion. Like she hadn't seen me for a long time. The first time I saw her was like coming Home. She could say a word, in a way that nailed me to the ground and made the earth stop moving.

I knew her like the back of my hand without her speaking. Like you know your sister or your twin. I know we were meant to meet and I'd go to the end of the earth for her if she needed me. How do I know she is my twin flame soulmate? Because she doesn't have my heart - She is my heart. We might not always be meant to be together or like each other but we always were meant to love each other. Because not loving her feels unbearable.

I have recognised other soulmates too. I believe we can be staring a soulmate in the face but if we are not ready to recognise them we won't. That's where the commitment comes in. I believe if we commit to love, we will find new soulmates and deeper connections with ones already in our lives.


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[roxi]

Is there a possibility that some soulmates are inherent and some are chosen?

[little_ms_sunshyne]

Originally Posted by roxi

Is there a possibility that some soulmates are inherent and some are chosen?

I think anything is possible

[Girl_On_Fire]

Oy vey. This is a tough topic for me. I used to believe in soulmates. Well, technically, I still do but I've had a really hard time with this word. I have had 3 people swear that they were my soulmate and all 3 of them turned out to be not soulmate relationships but karmic relationships that became abusive in some way. It is very easy to confuse the two.

Karmic relationships are about kinetic attraction and unfinished business. They are often abusive and trying but if you can survive them, they usually teach you very valuable lessons in life and help you grow spiritually. If you meet someone and the attraction is almost undeniable and the need for them is like a drug, this could be a sign of a karmic relationship and not a soulmate relationship, especially if you start arguing right away. Yes, it's passionate. Yes, it's intense. Yes, it's incredible. But it's also emotionally devastating and will leave you with a giant crater where your heart used to be for a while afterward.

I've also heard that soulmate relationships can be quite challenging too because this person was designed to help you grow spiritually as well but in soulmate relationships, you grow together, you don't spend time tearing each other down.