The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over.

Sweet Bliss · 02-25-2013, 03:28 PM

NickE TimeLord...... i'll be 58 on April 8 ... just walked away from the longest relationship of my life..9.5 years...

Thanks so much for posting. I just turned 56, almost didn't make it, lol.

We hear ya. 9.5 years? humm. Well mine was 16 years. Ya. I hear ya. I have no idea how to do this anymore. All my attempts have met in failure to launch or disaster. I don't want a quick roll in the hay, I want a friendship first, you can get sex anywhere, but good friends are better.... sometimes I think I'm better off with just my pets. They think I'm fabulous. Yes, I do their thinkin' for them, lmao....

I've had my rough days, thinkin' "omg, these are the Golden Years???? REALLY??? I am so screwed." But there is always reality TV to help us remember why we like our own company right?

There are plenty of lovely femmes here that can help you get over the "what now" hump, some of us are fabulous flirts, you could practice your Mambo-Salsa-Twist and Shout moves here.... just sayin'.........

02-25-2013, 03:28 PM	#11
Sweet Bliss Senior Member How Do You Identify?: I Am Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: solo Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: the Beach, Pacific side Posts: 4,160 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,354 Thanked 7,268 Times in 2,159 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	NickE TimeLord...... i'll be 58 on April 8 ... just walked away from the longest relationship of my life..9.5 years... Thanks so much for posting. I just turned 56, almost didn't make it, lol. We hear ya. 9.5 years? humm. Well mine was 16 years. Ya. I hear ya. I have no idea how to do this anymore. All my attempts have met in failure to launch or disaster. I don't want a quick roll in the hay, I want a friendship first, you can get sex anywhere, but good friends are better.... sometimes I think I'm better off with just my pets. They think I'm fabulous. Yes, I do their thinkin' for them, lmao.... I've had my rough days, thinkin' "omg, these are the Golden Years???? REALLY??? I am so screwed." But there is always reality TV to help us remember why we like our own company right? There are plenty of lovely femmes here that can help you get over the "what now" hump, some of us are fabulous flirts, you could practice your Mambo-Salsa-Twist and Shout moves here.... just sayin'.........