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This post was reported for being problematic. Here's the thing, this is supposed to be woman-positive space and I'd like to think we can do a little deeper digging around language that has been used in ways that don't honor women. I know that "douche bag" is popular vernacular right now but how about a word like "asshat" or "dumbass"? Those words don't hold the same kind of negativity in women's space that calling someone a "douche", a "twat", a "bitch", a "cunt", a "whore", a "slut", a "tampon", and "insert other words that are not woman positive unless consented to" tend to hold. Thanks, Admin |
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03-20-2013, 09:14 PM
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You are even in a relationship and find out what NOT to do...
Are you *available* to put the time into having and nurturing one? Will it be or become one of your *priorities* to be in one? LDR are not easy. Think long and hard if you are capable of *sustaining* one BEFORE you start having feelings for that awesome femme or butch. <that look out the window together on the phone in the morning and one has 6 feet of snow and the other is watching seagulls flying around and its 75 degrees outside at 8am and 11am for the other.> It took 3 hours to shovel and clean the car off  This is where the "I wish you were here" begins. For the record I am not against LDR I have seen plenty work out wonderfully.And the last one... ARE YOU TRULY AVAILABLE mentally,emotionally, physically and spiritually TO EVEN BE IN A RELATIONSHIP??? What does *single* mean to you? The time spent reflecting after your relationship has ended is when you *truly* learn what not to do in your next relationship. It hurts but its a gift 
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03-20-2013, 09:53 PM
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03-20-2013, 10:03 PM
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03-20-2013, 10:04 PM
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03-21-2013, 09:38 PM
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