The Fat Positive Lounge

peachy · 03-21-2013, 02:10 AM

I'm really slim with curves and always have been and I always looked enviously at more shapely robust looking women. Especially in my teens when I was kind of Kylie slim. I felt girlish and I wanted to be womanly and sexy.

I think what is usually described as fat is sumptuously sexy to look at. I love looking at women with big thighs and hips whether they are butch, femme or anything else I think it's sexy. Mmm. Someone I fancied a while back came home from travelling and had lost weight - I was really dismayed...I find it annoying when women complain about being too fat. Not annoyed with the women, I feel sad for them. I feel annoyed with society, misogyny, or wherever it is that this horrible attitude originated.

I think Kathy Bates is hot!!

The bigger the better the tighter the sweater...

Licious · 03-22-2013, 04:30 AM

Still working on body image and self acceptance. This thread is a great help. I live in an upscale community, many have a great deal of money, fashionable but understated clothes, immaculate grooming, perfect salon hair, thin, tiny bodies... even older women are fashionably skinny. My lack of fancy clothing and portly figure stick out even more because of it. And I am still working on loving my plus size. I appreciate all of you, thanks.

Gemme · 03-22-2013, 05:50 AM

Love THIS woman!

peachy · 03-22-2013, 07:36 AM

I liked that previous Rubens picture so much that I am back with another one. I love these!! They actually make me feel horny. I'm looking at this image and can feel the nerves in my skin start to open up, and want more. I'm looking at that subtle undulation around the hip and feel like I want to touch it. I want her to turn around so I can look at all of her. It's actually making me want to take my clothes off and get in the picture too. That's the sign of a good artist! (Also I've not had any for a while lol)

Slim women however attractive, sexy, interesting just don't have this effect on me because the physical attraction is not there. There isn't quite the right emotional connect for me to really have the hots for a feminine woman anyway but physically I can still find their bodies sexually arousing.

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedi...Rubens_111.jpg

Bad_boi · 03-28-2013, 02:57 AM

Dear Dad, you are awesome and I am very lucky to be your son.
Love, Danny

SaltyButch · 03-29-2013, 02:08 PM

I recently connected with a woman and during the course of our conversations, she said to me, when I saw your picture I didn't think you would even say hello to me. Now this perplexed me as I couldn't for the life of me understand what was in that picture that would make her think that.

As it turns out, she has been humiliated and rejected by some rude and thoughtless people who think they are God's gift to humanity because she is a plus size woman. Now, I'm flattered that she thinks I'm attractive, because I don't think I'm all that, however, I did let her know that I too have battled weight my whole life. I also told her that I have been with plus size women and find them to be some of the most sensual and sexiest women around.

This woman is attractive in so many ways, her mind, her eyes, her beautiful face and all that would be forgotten by some because she happens to be voluptuous.

Those who choose to walk on by and comment rather than take the time to know these women, shame on you, for they are more attractive than you ever will be and I will embrace them at any opportunity.

LeftWriteFemme · 04-24-2013, 10:13 PM

Pictures of people who mock me

http://www.salon.com/2013/04/23/pict...o_mock_me/?upw

03-21-2013, 02:10 AM	#1
peachy Member How Do You Identify?: Me Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: Here Posts: 109 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 492 Thanked 395 Times in 90 Posts Rep Power: 5513869	I'm really slim with curves and always have been and I always looked enviously at more shapely robust looking women. Especially in my teens when I was kind of Kylie slim. I felt girlish and I wanted to be womanly and sexy. I think what is usually described as fat is sumptuously sexy to look at. I love looking at women with big thighs and hips whether they are butch, femme or anything else I think it's sexy. Mmm. Someone I fancied a while back came home from travelling and had lost weight - I was really dismayed...I find it annoying when women complain about being too fat. Not annoyed with the women, I feel sad for them. I feel annoyed with society, misogyny, or wherever it is that this horrible attitude originated. I think Kathy Bates is hot!! The bigger the better the tighter the sweater... __________________ life's a peach Caution: contains hard stone

03-22-2013, 04:30 AM	#2
Licious Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she, her Relationship Status: single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: California Posts: 686 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,502 Thanked 1,973 Times in 546 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Still working on body image and self acceptance. This thread is a great help. I live in an upscale community, many have a great deal of money, fashionable but understated clothes, immaculate grooming, perfect salon hair, thin, tiny bodies... even older women are fashionably skinny. My lack of fancy clothing and portly figure stick out even more because of it. And I am still working on loving my plus size. I appreciate all of you, thanks. __________________ Don’t be satisfied with stories, how things have gone with others. Unfold your own myth. ~Rumi

03-22-2013, 05:50 AM	#3
Gemme Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Queer Stone Femme Girl of the Unicorn Variety Preferred Pronoun?: She, as in 'She's a GEM' Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: The roads are narrow here Posts: 36,631 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 182,498 Thanked 107,964 Times in 25,668 Posts Rep Power: 21474888	Love THIS woman! __________________ Gemme's Journal I'm misunderestimated.

03-22-2013, 07:36 AM	#4
peachy Member How Do You Identify?: Me Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: Here Posts: 109 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 492 Thanked 395 Times in 90 Posts Rep Power: 5513869	I liked that previous Rubens picture so much that I am back with another one. I love these!! They actually make me feel horny. I'm looking at this image and can feel the nerves in my skin start to open up, and want more. I'm looking at that subtle undulation around the hip and feel like I want to touch it. I want her to turn around so I can look at all of her. It's actually making me want to take my clothes off and get in the picture too. That's the sign of a good artist! (Also I've not had any for a while lol) Slim women however attractive, sexy, interesting just don't have this effect on me because the physical attraction is not there. There isn't quite the right emotional connect for me to really have the hots for a feminine woman anyway but physically I can still find their bodies sexually arousing. http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedi...Rubens_111.jpg __________________ life's a peach Caution: contains hard stone Last edited by peachy; 03-22-2013 at 07:38 AM. Reason: can't see Rubens image...might be on twice now

04-24-2013, 10:13 PM	#7
LeftWriteFemme Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Daddy's good girl Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Jersey Posts: 16,642 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,529 Thanked 12,293 Times in 5,185 Posts Rep Power: 21474868	Pictures of people who mock me http://www.salon.com/2013/04/23/pict...o_mock_me/?upw __________________ Clicking on these dragon eggs will take you to my new erotic novella: Dragon Bait .........Hope you enjoy it! ________________________________________________ Please take a look at my work Click on flashing smilie to see my website To look at my Daddy/girl erotica book Click on pompom girl to see Elbows on the Table, Palms Flat

03-28-2013, 02:57 AM	#5
Bad_boi Member How Do You Identify?: Transman (male) Preferred Pronoun?: He, Him, His ect. Relationship Status: Handsome bastard. Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: May 2010 Location: Seattle Posts: 727 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 122 Thanked 1,824 Times in 499 Posts Rep Power: 0	Dear Dad, you are awesome and I am very lucky to be your son. Love, Danny

03-29-2013, 02:08 PM	#6
SaltyButch Member How Do You Identify?: Old School Butch Preferred Pronoun?: he/she/hey you..... Relationship Status: open to the possibilities Tournaments Won: 5 Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: mississauga ontario canada Posts: 345 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 432 Thanked 1,634 Times in 301 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I recently connected with a woman and during the course of our conversations, she said to me, when I saw your picture I didn't think you would even say hello to me. Now this perplexed me as I couldn't for the life of me understand what was in that picture that would make her think that. As it turns out, she has been humiliated and rejected by some rude and thoughtless people who think they are God's gift to humanity because she is a plus size woman. Now, I'm flattered that she thinks I'm attractive, because I don't think I'm all that, however, I did let her know that I too have battled weight my whole life. I also told her that I have been with plus size women and find them to be some of the most sensual and sexiest women around. This woman is attractive in so many ways, her mind, her eyes, her beautiful face and all that would be forgotten by some because she happens to be voluptuous. Those who choose to walk on by and comment rather than take the time to know these women, shame on you, for they are more attractive than you ever will be and I will embrace them at any opportunity.