My Dad

Andrew, Jr. · 04-04-2010, 01:00 PM

Dapper,

I am so very sorry to learn of this news. I am lifting all of your family up in prayer. I am glad you are there for your Mom.

Love,
Andrew

Oiler41 · 04-04-2010, 01:03 PM

I am so sorry to hear that things went this way for your dad, you and your family. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts.

Glynn

Diva · 04-04-2010, 01:57 PM

Dear Dapper....

I'm holding You and Your family in my heart during this sad time. So very sorry to learn of this.

~Diva

socialjustice_fsu · 04-04-2010, 03:03 PM

Dear Dapper,
You and your family continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. This will be a hard adjustment for all of you. And, grief takes as long as it takes.
May you find some peace in good memories.
Love,
Tamara

AtLast · 04-04-2010, 03:22 PM

I'm so sorry, Dapper. My thoughts are with you and your family.

At

Greyson · 04-04-2010, 04:47 PM

Dapper my condolances. I will hold you, your mom and your family in my thoughts. I have never met you in real time but based on what I see in here and having some sense of "Dapper Butch" I would say your parents are good people, if you are any indication. Again, my condolances.

Soon · 04-04-2010, 04:53 PM

Thinking of you and your family during this difficult time and wishing you comfort throughout your sadness.

Nina · 04-04-2010, 04:55 PM

it's heartbreaking to read of your unexpected and life-changing loss...I can only add my wishes for a gathering of those you hold dear to help you and yours navigate these times...

please accept my condolences and all the best wishes for strength and grace...

Nina

Gemme · 04-04-2010, 04:55 PM

Dapper,

I am so very sorry to hear of your father's passing. You and your family will remain in my thoughts.

UofMfan · 04-04-2010, 05:02 PM

I am sorry for your loss Dapper. May you and your family find the strength and comfort you need to get you through this difficult time.

Soft*Silver · 04-04-2010, 05:04 PM

its so difficult to let go of a parent, especially in such a sudden unexpected way. There was no time to really grieve. When someone dies, we strive to make sense when really, no sense could be made of it. Death just is its own reason. So we humans, with out infinite ability to communicate and use language, are also limited by them. No words could possibly reach inside you and make that ache any less...grieving is such a solitary experience...you do it alone, even when you have family and friends and online communities to help you through it.

but, even tho we lack the ability to remove the ache, we stand beside you, if not in real life, then in spirity. I am so sorry for your loss and for the very hard decisions you needed to make. I will lift up the prayers tonight for you and your father and your family...

blessed be, my on line friend...

04-04-2010, 04:47 PM	#6
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04-04-2010, 04:55 PM	#9
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04-04-2010, 05:04 PM	#11
SoftSilver Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: rose cottage Posts: 5,594 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,948 Thanked 15,897 Times in 4,064 Posts Rep Power*: 21474858	its so difficult to let go of a parent, especially in such a sudden unexpected way. There was no time to really grieve. When someone dies, we strive to make sense when really, no sense could be made of it. Death just is its own reason. So we humans, with out infinite ability to communicate and use language, are also limited by them. No words could possibly reach inside you and make that ache any less...grieving is such a solitary experience...you do it alone, even when you have family and friends and online communities to help you through it. but, even tho we lack the ability to remove the ache, we stand beside you, if not in real life, then in spirity. I am so sorry for your loss and for the very hard decisions you needed to make. I will lift up the prayers tonight for you and your father and your family... blessed be, my on line friend... __________________ Pole bachit, a lis chuye. The field sees, the forest hears

04-04-2010, 01:00 PM	#1
Andrew, Jr. Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Me Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Unavailable Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Over the Rainbow in a House Posts: 5,072 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,004 Thanked 5,249 Times in 2,216 Posts Rep Power: 0	Dapper, I am so very sorry to learn of this news. I am lifting all of your family up in prayer. I am glad you are there for your Mom. Love, Andrew

04-04-2010, 01:03 PM	#2
Oiler41 Member How Do You Identify?: Human Preferred Pronoun?: He/Him Relationship Status: Happily Single! Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Nunya Posts: 1,225 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,355 Thanked 2,574 Times in 789 Posts Rep Power: 18276168	I am so sorry to hear that things went this way for your dad, you and your family. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts. Glynn

04-04-2010, 01:57 PM	#3
Diva Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Diva Preferred Pronoun?: Diva Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Chez Diva Posts: 11,879 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,263 Thanked 17,175 Times in 5,239 Posts Rep Power: 0	Dear Dapper.... I'm holding You and Your family in my heart during this sad time. So very sorry to learn of this. ~Diva

04-04-2010, 03:03 PM	#4
socialjustice_fsu Member How Do You Identify?: Feminine Preferred Pronoun?: She, her Relationship Status: It’s all good. Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: The gulf waters are sapphire blue and the beach sand is white as snow. Posts: 607 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,866 Thanked 2,155 Times in 439 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Dear Dapper, You and your family continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. This will be a hard adjustment for all of you. And, grief takes as long as it takes. May you find some peace in good memories. Love, Tamara

04-04-2010, 03:22 PM	#5
AtLast Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Woman Preferred Pronoun?: HER - SHE Relationship Status: Relating Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: CA & AZ I'm a Snowbird Posts: 5,408 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,826 Thanked 10,827 Times in 3,199 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	I'm so sorry, Dapper. My thoughts are with you and your family. At

04-04-2010, 04:53 PM	#7
Soon Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Relationship Status: attached Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: . Posts: 6,896 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,046 Thanked 13,093 Times in 3,386 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Thinking of you and your family during this difficult time and wishing you comfort throughout your sadness.

04-04-2010, 04:55 PM	#8
Nina Timed Out How Do You Identify?: unmistakably Preferred Pronoun?: dearheart Relationship Status: In love, loved and Happy, thanks for askin' Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: SF CA Posts: 1,720 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,113 Thanked 3,384 Times in 931 Posts Rep Power: 0	it's heartbreaking to read of your unexpected and life-changing loss...I can only add my wishes for a gathering of those you hold dear to help you and yours navigate these times... please accept my condolences and all the best wishes for strength and grace... Nina

04-04-2010, 05:02 PM	#10
UofMfan Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Relationship Status: A very happy Mr. Grumpy Cat Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Neither here or there Posts: 7,987 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 27,733 Thanked 18,935 Times in 4,705 Posts Rep Power: 21474860	I am sorry for your loss Dapper. May you and your family find the strength and comfort you need to get you through this difficult time.