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Old 04-06-2010, 09:45 AM   #1
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I actually do sometimes use Femme qualifiers because I am so excited to have Femme friends. I knew zero other Femmes before finding the Internets (heh) and it still makes me happy to be able to say "my Femme friend________". I think those of us who do not live in cities with millions of people and have less opportunity to see and meet other Femmes are maybe even a little star struck by other Femmes.

Also for me, the word "She" holds great power. Maybe because my mother died when I was a kid and Women have always been these mystical elusive creatures to me. I feel honored to be a She, while at the same time having a piggish teen aged boy/James Bond thing going on in my head.

As a child I wanted to be a boy about half of the time. I am not into sports either, not do I work on cars, though I can to a degree work on older cars(due to having owned some doozies in the past). I like books, art, music, theater, history and things of that nature.

I always rebelled at the thought that boys and girls had a completely different set of rules on how to act....which now gets carried over to Butch-Femme to quite an extent.

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I love the transgressive feeling I get after work reading the newspaper while my big tattooed BullDyke G/F fixes dinner for me. It's HOT.
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Oh and, yeah, my driving record is perfect.
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Also for me, the word "She" holds great power. Maybe because my mother died when I was a kid and Women have always been these mystical elusive creatures to me. I feel honored to be a She, while at the same time having a piggish teen aged boy/James Bond thing going on in my head.
i loved this post so much i had to quote part of it back.
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Let's not forget MOMMY can be totally fierce!!!

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[nomedia="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oAk1dt13yLA"]YouTube- Missy Elliott - Mommy[/nomedia]
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YouTube- Missy Elliott - Mommy
This is one of my FAVES by Missy Elliott and I think exemplifies the strength I've seen shown in here.

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To all of the kick ass, beautiful fierce femmes out there...
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My Femme laughs at fart jokes, likes porn, and drives too slow - AND is a Feminist.
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My Femme laughs at fart jokes, likes porn, and drives too slow - AND is a Feminist.
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I actually do sometimes use Femme qualifiers because I am so excited to have Femme friends. I knew zero other Femmes before finding the Internets (heh) and it still makes me happy to be able to say "my Femme friend________". I think those of us who do not live in cities with millions of people and have less opportunity to see and meet other Femmes are maybe even a little star struck by other Femmes.
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I love the transgressive feeling I get after work reading the newspaper while my big tattooed BullDyke G/F fixes dinner for me. It's HOT.
i love all of this! yes yes and yes!

i have said 'femme friend' because it's short-hand for 'she who gets a MAJOR part of my life without explanation, above all others' additionally, why not use the title (qualifier, if you must) for what it is, a title of respect?

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i love all of this! yes yes and yes!

i have said 'femme friend' because it's short-hand for 'she who gets a MAJOR part of my life without explanation, above all others' additionally, why not use the title (qualifier, if you must) for what it is, a title of respect?

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So glad I am not the only one to proudly say...this is My Femme Friend!
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So glad I am not the only one to proudly say...this is My Femme Friend!
My fiesty fierce femme friend you ROCK
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just droppin' in to ask:
is a "bad butch fairy"?
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just droppin' in to ask:
is a "bad butch fairy"?

So as an ally all you got out of the convos was this???
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So as an ally all you got out of the convos was this???
um, no. but it is the one question that continues to tickle my grey matter ... so far.
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