What are your faults?

[Tuff Stuff]

I want to be there 24/7 for my family,my lady,my two baby chihuahuas,my two baby kittens and I CAN'T!

My fault i have to work

[Wrang1er]

I take too many naps.

My jokes aren't as funny as I think. (the horror)

I tend to be a slob when single.

I don't always communicate well.

Also, I procrastinate.

and and and...

[MissItalianDiva]

Originally Posted by Wrang1er

I take too many naps.

My jokes aren't as funny as I think. (the horror)

I tend to be a slob when single.

I don't always communicate well.

Also, I procrastinate.

and and and...

Umm I beg to differ you are perfect the way you are AND the right woman will see what a great catch you are. People who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones bacon bits

[WingsOnFire]

Originally Posted by Wrang1er

I take too many naps.

My jokes aren't as funny as I think. (the horror)

I tend to be a slob when single.

I don't always communicate well.

Also, I procrastinate.

and and and...

Originally Posted by MissItalianDiva

Umm I beg to differ you are perfect the way you are AND the right woman will see what a great catch you are. People who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones bacon bits

I have to agree with MID.... I have spent too much of my time thinking I'm no good. I know I am not perfect but who is?

So if your a slob maybe you will meet a girl who would think it cute to tidy up while your not looking to help you out.

Communication.... Yeah I hear you on that. We could all use some help on that front...your not alone.

Procrastination? Well maybe the person you meet might want to make plans and help you keep them.

There is always a possible positive outcome to a negative thought. I have to remind myself of that sometimes too lol.

Don't be too hard on yourself.

[Wrang1er]

Originally Posted by WingsOnFire

I have to agree with MID.... I have spent too much of my time thinking I'm no good. I know I am not perfect but who is?

So if your a slob maybe you will meet a girl who would think it cute to tidy up while your not looking to help you out.

Communication.... Yeah I hear you on that. We could all use some help on that front...your not alone.

Procrastination? Well maybe the person you meet might want to make plans and help you keep them.

There is always a possible positive outcome to a negative thought. I have to remind myself of that sometimes too lol.


Don't be too hard on yourself.

Thank you!

[RNguy]

1. I'm OCD
2. B/C of #1. I only see things as black and white.
3. I maintain complete control of every aspect of my life.
4. B/C of #3 I operate on the fight or flight response quickly.
5. As I age , I have no tolerance for putting up with nonsense.
6. I will never freely give trust to anything or anyone . Trust is something that can take many years to get from me.
7. I never forgive nor forget if I have been lied to. I take grudges to the grave.
8. B/C of #1 I fixate on the smallest things and will go to the depths of hades to prove a wrong or a right.
9. I am a Pitt bull daddy and way to overprotective.
10. My coping mechanism is to seclude , wall up , shut down
and bolt if I think I am going to get burned . Which would
fall in the fight or flight category.
11. I over analyze alot of things.

[oboejive]

Being stubborn (I'm a Taurus)
Being too perfectionistic
Being disorganized (in an organized manner as everything is in piles, and I know where everything is at)
Spreading myself too thin at times
Rejection issues

[Sammy583]

1. I have lost too many people in my life (adopted, then lost few close family members to death)
2. Bc of number 1 I have a fear of losing people or something happening.
3. I can over analyze things.
4. If I get hurt seriously or feel like I'm about too I tend to fight or flight. My recent relationship hy broke things off with me during which time hy said he was never in love with me (to hurt me), than we got back together he said he never meant it however I couldn't get it out of my head and ended things. Now I'm thinking I didn't fight hard enough.
5. I'm sarcastic
6. I'm hard headed

[Wrang1er]

Originally Posted by MissItalianDiva

Umm I beg to differ you are perfect the way you are AND the right woman will see what a great catch you are. People who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones bacon bits

You are sweet to me.

[MissItalianDiva]

Originally Posted by Wrang1er

You are sweet to me.

Shhh dont ruin my reputation of being a hard ass lol. Not sweet it's true.

[tygr_grrl]

nothing like a rude awakening I've redeveloped a death grip lock on old baggage ....even the stuff I thought I let go of. And then it turns around and bites me on the ass when I 'm not looking. Luckily, I know that the old stuff doesn't serve me anymore.

Learning letting go is not a one time deal. It requires regular practice and patience with myself (and others). Accepting all of my not so-charming faults and making amends are also part of my process as I muddle through. Recognizing everything will eventually passes, even this.

[SleepyButch]

I tend to keep things inside instead of voicing them when I'm upset. I need to learn how to not be afraid of the consequences because whatever will be, will be.

[WingsOnFire]

Too many to name but I'm learning to forgive myself for them and move on to overcoming them... So that I don't live with regret again...